Iingcebiso zabasebenzi bokuSondeza kunye nabazali kubafundi abaselula
Ngaba ufumene lo myalezo obusayo ovela kwintsapho yakho yokunakekelwa kwintsapho ukuba wayebetha amanye abantwana? Okanye, ngaba ungumboneleli womncedi kwaye uzibuze ukuba wenzeni xa kuvela lo mpawu?
Nangona ukulila kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo komntwana , kunye nokungenelela okufanelekileyo, abaninzi abantwana bayeke ukubetha emva kweentsuku okanye iiveki ezimbalwa. Kubalulekile ukuba ungenzi nantoni na efana nokujezisa umntwana ukuba umlume okanye umlume.
Jonga ukuba wenzeni kwaye yintoni omele uyigweme.
Ukungenelela kwabasebenzi ukuba bayeke ukudibanisa kwi-Daycare
Izingane ezincinane ziphantse zincinci ukuba zifundiswe okanye zifike ixesha. Amanyathelo angenelelo angabomeleza ngokuziphatha okukrakra .
Endaweni yoko, abasebenzi bezondlo bangakwazi ukugcina kulula kwaye basebenzise la maqhinga:
- Zama ukungenelela okanye ukumphazamisa kwaye uthi "Musa ukuluma" ngokuqinileyo, kodwa ngoxolo, ukuba uya kuluma. Oku kuthetha ukuba umntu kufuneka agcine iso elongezelelweyo iliso okanye isithunzi ngaye iintsuku ezimbalwa, uqaphele ukwenza oko ngendlela ukuze angazi ukuba ufumane ingqwalasela eyongeziweyo.
- Yithi "Hayi" okanye "Musa ukuluma" ngokuqinileyo, kodwa ngoxolo, ukuba uyaluma.
- Emva kokuba ehlaba, ingaba yinto efanelekileyo yokumthabatha kude nomnye umntwana kwaye uyamnyanzelela imizuzu embalwa, nangona oku akusiyo ukuhamba ngokusemthethweni njengokuba ungayisebenzisa kumntwana omdala
- Mkhumbuze ukuba angalimi ngezikhathi ezithile, kubandakanye mhlawumbi isikhumbuzo esifutshane esithi "Ukubambazela kuyabuhlungu."
- Nika indumiso kunye nengqwalasela efanelekileyo xa engaboni kwaye edlala kakuhle.
- Hlala kwindlela efanelekileyo yonke imihla, kuquka ukutya, i- naps , kunye nexesha lokudlala.
- Gwema ukucela umzali ukuba athathe umntwana kwaye amthume ekhaya emva kokuba ehlaba, kuba oko kunokuqinisa ukubetha.
Ukungenelela kwabazali bokubambisa kwi-Daycare
Kwakhona kunokuba luncedo ukwazi ukuba kutheni nantoni na xa umntwana eshaya.
Ngaba unxibelele? Ngaba uhlala apha? Ngaba omnye umntwana wazama ukuthatha ingubo yakhe okanye ithoyizi? Ngaba nantoni na eyenzeka ekhaya ekhawuleza ukuba uyilungise?
Ekhaya, qiniseka ukuba unamathele kwisimo esihle kwaye uqinisekise ukuba ulala ubusuku obuhle. Iintsana ezidinileyo okanye zixinezelekile ziyakwazi ukuluma ekunakekelwa kwamasango. Ekubeni engasenzi ekhaya kwakhona, akukho nto enokuyenza ekhaya nangona kunjalo.
Ukuchitha ixesha elincinci kunye naye, ukuze ungenelele kwaye umenze udibe phantsi kolawulo kunokuba luncedo, nangona usenokuqala ukumemeza xa ungekho. Okanye umvolontiya ukuncedisa kwenye inxalenye yocandelo lokunakekelwa kwondlo ukuze omnye wabasebenzi abone umntwanakho kwaye aqinisekise ukuba akayi kuluma nabani na iintsuku ezimbalwa.
Unokucinga kwakhona ukuba ukukhala kwakhe okuqhubekayo kunokuthetha ukuba le ntsuku ayilungele kakuhle. Mhlawumbi ihlelwe kakuhle okanye ayilungele ngokwaneleyo. Ngaba zininzi abantwana kwigumbi?
Hlalani nikhumbule ukuba nje ngokuba ukunakekelwa kwesosiko kungeyona nto ilungileyo akuthethi ukuba akusiyo ilondolozo lomhla. Basenokukwenza konke ngokufanelekileyo kwaye akusebenzi nje umntwana wakho ngesizathu esithile.
Ukugqithiselela ukuGxotha
Enye yezona zinto ezimbi kakhulu ngokuba ne-biter yindlela abazali bezingane abazenzayo bangela ukuba uzive ngayo.
Ngaphandle kokuba abantwana babo bakha, abaqhelekanga ukuba ukubetha ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kuphuhliso, akunakwenzeka ukuba yingozi kumntwana wabo, kwaye loo nto nayiphi na into encinci ingaba yinto encane.
Zama ukungabi neentloni okanye ukubeka ingqalelo kwizinto ezibonakala zingcolileyo onokuzifumana kubazali bezingane ezikhungayo kwaye zijolise ekuncedeni umntwana wakho ukuba ayeke ukubetha.
Oko Kufuneka Ukwazi NgoBiting
Ukuzibamba kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo okanye isigaba sabantwana bancinci, into ebaluleke kakhulu abazali abaninzi kufuneka bayifumane.
Ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo zokwazi ngokumanga ziquka:
- Abantwana abaselula bayaluma xa bexakeka, banxibe, banomona, bexhalabile, okanye bathuka. Banokuluma nje babone oko kwenzekayo xa bexuma, okuyiyona nto ingakumbi kwiintsana kunye nabantwana abaselula, abasenokuba bazama kwaye bahlolisise ihlabathi labo.
- Kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ungagxili xa umntwana wakho ehlabayo, enokumomeleza ukukhala ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho ujabule ngokuphendula.
- Musa ukwenza into efana nokumanga umntwana wakho, ujezise umntwana wakho, okanye abeke nayiphi na emlonyeni wakhe xa ebetha.
> Imithombo:
> Imibuzo yokubamba. Umbutho wezeMpilo waseMelika.
> I-Solomons, Hope C. Ukudibanisa kumaziko okunakekelwa kwimihla: Ingozi, ukuthintela, nokungenelela. Umbhalo weNkcazo yeMpilo yezeMpilo. Umqulu 5, Issue 4, Julayi-Agasti 1991, iphepha 191-196
> Ukuqonda nokuphendula kwabantwana abakhayo. Umbutho kaZwelonke weMfundo yabantwana abaselula.