Nangona ininzi yentshiseko kunye nekhenkethi evuselelekileyo yikholeji iya kubakho ukuhlushwa ekhaya ngexesha leenyanga ezimbalwa zekholeji. Iiveki ezikhokelela ekuphumeni kwikhaya kunye nokuqala iikholeji zizaliswe ngokupakisha, ukuthenga, ukuthetha ukuhlambalaza nokucinga bonke abantu abatsha namava azayo. Xa ukunyuka-ngaphakathi kuphelile kwaye abazali bathethe ukuhamba kwabo, inyaniso yenguqu enkulu esanda kuqalisa ukuseta ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuphila phakathi kwamanye amazwe kwindawo entsha, engaqhelekanga ngaphandle kwamanye amacwecwe aqhelekileyo asekhaya angaba nzima kwabanye.
Kuqikelelwa ukuba i-20% yabafundi beekholeji baya kuzibalela emkhatsini wokubaluleka kokuhlaselwa ekhaya ngexesha elinye. Kulabo abavakalelwa ukuhlaselwa ekhaya, kakhulu ukuxinezeleka nokuxhalabisa.
"Kwiphepha elibhaliweyo likaChris Thurber noEdward Walton elipapashwe kwi-Pediatrics, iphephancwadi le-American Academy of Pediatrics, ukukhulelwa ekhaya kukuchazwa ngokuba 'ukuxakeka nokukhubazeka okubangelwa ukuhlukana okwenene okanye okulindelekileyo ukusuka kumakhaya kunye nezinto ezinamathelwano ezifana nabazali . ' Abo bahluphekayo kwimeko baziva behlobo oluthile lokuxhalaba, ukudabuka kunye neentloni, kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo, ukukhathazeka ngokugqithiseleyo ngeengcamango zasekhaya, uTherber uthe. " - CNN.com
Ngethamsanqa, amaninzi amaninzi okukhusela ekhaya ayancipha ngakumbi kunokuba achazwe apha, kodwa ukunyuka ekhaya kungabangela ubuhlungu njengokuba kukho nasiphi na isifo.
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Hlala ekhaya. Abazali baya kuziva ukuxakeka kwabo abadala abaselula ngokuva ilizwi labo okanye babone ubuso babo nge Skype okanye FaceTime. Kuzama ukuthumela ikhaya lekitikiti yendiza okanye ukuxhoma emotweni ukutyelela, kodwa akusiyo ikhethekileyo.
Ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba azivumelanise nommandla wakhe omtsha ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kokutyelelwa kuwe indlela yokuhamba, nangona kunokubangela ukuba wena kunye nomntwana wakho ube neinyembezi ezimbalwa.
Khuthaza umdala wakho omdala ukuba abe nobungane nanamathuba awafumanayo. Vula kwiintetho naphi na apho uya khona, ukusuka kwiiholo zokufunda kwiivenkile zekhofi. Kunzima ukuxhoma ukuhlangana nabantu abatsha, ingakumbi ukuba sele bekhulile edolophini efanayo kwaye baziwa ngabantu abafanayo bonke ubomi bakhe, kodwa ukuzibeka ngaphandle kwindlela ephela yokuxhuma nabanye.
Melana nesilingo sokufowunela okanye ukubhalela umfundi wakho kwikholeji. Kwiimeko ezininzi, akukho ziindaba ziindaba ezilungileyo, kwaye njengoko ubomi babo buqala ukuzalisa imisebenzi kunye nabaqhelana nabo, abafundi baya kuqhagamshelana nabazali kunye nabahlobo bekhaya ukusuka ngaphantsi nangaphantsi.
Thumela ipakethe yokukhathalela okanye ezimbini. Qinisekisa ukuba uthumele izinto ezonwabileyo, ezinokwabelwanayo, njengesikhwama esikhulu se-popcorn okanye ikhukhi ezenziweyo. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba anikele abantu abahlala nabo kunye nabanye kwi-dorm. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ubani uya kuhlawula isibonelelo sokuphathwa kwendlu, kwaye yindlela efanelekileyo yokuphula iqhwa.
Qhubeka ukhanya. Musa ukuxelela umntu omdala osemakhaya ukuba kunzima kangakanani kuwe, naye. Musa ukumenza aziva ukuba ikhaya alifani naye ngaphandle kwayo, okanye intliziyo yakho iphuka rhoqo xa uhamba ngegumbi layo elingenanto.
Yivume nje iimvakalelo zakhe uze umphulaphule. Uya kuqonda ukungahambi kakuhle kwakho ngokungabikho ekhaya xa ungayilumkanga, ngoko ukhethe amagama akho ngobulumko.
Zama izinto ezininzi . Ukufumana indawo yokuziva ekhaya kwikhulu (okanye encinci) kwiklasi yeekholeji akuyona into elula. Ukuba umfundi wakho unzima ukulingana naye, bonisa ukuba ujoyina umsebenzi wangaphakathi okanye iqela. Nangona oku kungacacile kuwe, abaninzi abantu abatsha baxhalaba malunga nokufikelela kumaqela axhomekeke kwaye bajoyine. Buza ngobumnene kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo umfundi wakho ukuba ahlanganyele nawe iiklabhu kunye nemisebenzi ekwi-campus, kwaye uncede ukuba akhethe abambalwa ukuba bahlole.
Lontiya. Akukho mpiliso engcono yokuvakalelwa okwesibhakabhaka kunokunceda omnye umntu. Ingaba isebenzelana nezilwanyana, ukunakekela abantwana, okanye ukutyelela abahlali abadala ukuba bancedise ubomi ukuze bahlaziye imini yabo, ukubuyisela kuluntu kunokunceda kakhulu.
Khangela ukucebisa kwi-campus. Ukuba ukuhlala ekhaya kunye nokungahlali kukunyamezela, fundela malunga ne-campus counseling yomfundi wakho. Uninzi lweekholeji neeyunivesithi zixhotyiswe kakuhle ukujongana nemingeni yomzwelo wonyaka omtsha, kwaye unike inkxaso ngoncedo olulodwa ngeenkonzo zabo zezempilo.