Xa Umntwana Wakho Ujika 18

Ukuguquka kwe-18 yinto enkulu, kungekhona nje kumbono womzali, kodwa ngokusemthethweni. Nantsi ukukhawuleza okukhawulezayo kuyo yonke into ofuna ukuyifumana.

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Izindlela ezi-5 uMthetho uthintela amatsha aneminyaka eyi-18 ubudala

Ilishumi elinesibhozo kukuzalwa komlingo, into ebaluleke kakhulu ekuhambeni kwabantu abadala kunye namalungelo amaninzi kunye nempembelelo enzulu yomthetho. Nge-18, umntwana wakho onokuvota angavota, athenge indlu okanye atshate isikolo sakhe esithandwayo esikolweni esiphakeme. Unako kwakhona ukuya entolongweni, ukufumana isigwebo kunye nokudlala ibhola kwi-Vegas. Nazi iindlela ezinhlanu eziphambili zomthetho onempembelelo kubantu abadala.

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I-Service Selective, i-Draft & Your Teen

Akuzange kubekho umkhosi wezempi e-United States ukususela ngee-1970, kodwa unyana wakho usenokubhalisa. Nantsi i-downdown on ngubani, kutheni, kuphi na kanjani, kunye nemvelaphi emfutshane kwiNkonzo yokukhethwa kunye nekhonkco yayo kwi-yekholeji yoncedo lwezemali.

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Iindlela ezi-18 zokuzalwa kweempembelelo zabazali

Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba abazali bavelele bonke xa abantwana babo beba ne-18, kodwa loo nto ibaluleke kakhulu ithatha umgaqo osemthethweni kubazali, nabo. Ufuna ukubona iirekhodi zakho zonyango ezineminyaka eyi-18? Amabanga akhe? Akunako ukwenza (ngaphandle kokuba umntwana wakho avume ngokusemthethweni). Nazi ezintlanu, iindlela ezingalindelekanga zokuzalwa komntwana wakho wokuzalwa kuzakuchaphazela.

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Iintsholongwane, Ubulili & Umthetho

Uyazi ukuba umfana osemnandi , ophakathi komntwana wakho oneminyaka eyi-18 kunye nomhle wakhe omncinane? Lumnka. Nangona ukudlwengulwa komthetho kunye nemithetho efana neyo kubhalwa ukukhusela abantwana ekuxhatshazelweni ngabantu abadala, amaqabane abulalayo, abatsha banokubanjelwa emlilweni. Yintoni evumelekileyo kwezinye iimeko zichaza ixesha lokubanjwa kwabanye, kwaye ukuthotyelwa kunokuvela kwi-slap kwi-wrist ukuya kwiminyaka elishumi entolongweni kwaye kufuneka ubhalise njengonyala lomntu wobomi.

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Imithetho Yobumfihlo Yobumfihlo, Amabanga Abantwana Bakho & Wena

Lawo mithetho yemfihlo yenkxaso-mali eyakuvumela ukuba ufikelele kwiirekhodi zesikolo zomntwana wakho, kunye nethuba lokuhlola nokuphonononga iziganeko zakhe kunye neengxelo zoluleko, ukufihla emnyango ovalelwe xa umntwana wakho ejika 18. Nantso isizathu, kwaye unokwenza ntoni ngako.

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Imiba Yentsapho Esebenzayo Ukuxoxa Ngomntwana Wakho Omdala

I-43% yabazali abazange bathethe iingxoxo ezinzulu kunye namalungu entsapho malunga nokunakekelwa kwexesha elide kunye nokunakekelwa komdala; enye i-23% ayinayo nayiphi na ingxoxo kuzo zonke izihloko.

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Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi kunye neengozi ezibandakanyekayo

Ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi nokusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala kunye nabafundi beekholeji bebade bakhathazeke ngabazali. Inxalenye yenkqubo yokwenza abantwana babo bahlale bekulungele iikholeji kubazali ukuncedisa abantu babo abadala ukuba baqonde ingozi eyona yendawo yekolishi, ebandakanya phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukusela , ukutywala, kunye nokuthatha iziyobisi zonyango ukuzonwabisa .

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Iifama Zentsapho Emva kokuba abantwana baKhuphuke

Kungenxa yokuba abantwana bayakhula akuthethi ukuba ufanele ukuyeka iintsapho zeholide. Enyanisweni, inani elinyukayo leentsapho ezineenkwenkwezi, abantwana beekholeji, kunye nama-20seshings ziyaqhubeka zihlala eholide ndawonye, ​​ubuncinane ngamanye amaxesha. Ngoko ke iziphakamiso zokulungisa ikhefu leentsapho ezigqibeleleyo - xa wonke umntu ekhulile.

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5 Iindwendwe Ezinkulu Zeentsapho Ngeentsha ezidala kunye neKholeji yabantwana

Abaselula kunye nama-20 abathandana nabo bahamba ngeendlela ezihamba phambili, abanandipha ukuxutywa kwe-outdoor adventure, ukucwiliswa kwenkcubeko, ukutya okulungileyo kunye nokuthenga okupholileyo. Ngoko nantsi inkampu yeendawo ezihlanu ezihamba phambili zeeholide - ukubona indawo yaseMontreal, ukuzithandela eNew Orleans, amabhishi, amahlathi kunye nokuzonwabisa-kwiintsapho ezinabantu abadala.

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Izinto ezili-10 zabaNtsundu abadala ukuba zenze (kwaye Akunjalo) kwiNgxowa-ndlebe yeJobe

Udliwano-ndlebe zeJob hayi lula. Ingcamango yokubonakalisa zethu ezona zilungileyo ngethuba lentetho engama-15 yenza ukuba umntu othembekileyo unentlonelo - ingakumbi ukuba ngumntu osemdala osemtsha kwindlela yokudliwano-ndlebe. Njengoko abatsha abagqityiweyo baqalisa umsebenzi wabo wokuzingela, kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni izinto ezimbalwa eziza kwenza ukuba intsebenziswano iphumelele.

Ehlelwe nguSharon Greenthal

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