Uncedo Lugcina Izingane Zingabi Nama-Cyberbullies
Uninzi lwa bantwana luchitha ixesha elide kwi-Intanethi. Ngenxa yoko, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bafune ukufundisa abantwana babo indlela yokuziphatha nokuphatha abanye ngexesha le-intanethi. Ukungaphumeleli ukwenza oko, kunokukhokelela kubantwana abasebenzisa kakubi iteknoloji, bahlupha abanye okanye bawabeka engozini yokuxhatshazwa kwe-intanethi.
Akukho mzali ofuna ukufumana ukuba umntwana wakhe u- cyberbullying abanye okanye abafuni ukufunda ukuba umntwana wabo uhlaselwa.
Kodwa ukukhusela nge-cyberbullying kudinga okungaphezulu nje kokufundisa abantwana ukuba bahle kwi-intanethi.
Kunoko, abazali kufuneka babe neengxoxo zabo rhoqo kunye nezingane zabo ngokukhusela i- intanethi , i- cyberbullying ne-digital etiquette. Enyanisweni, ukuxhobisa abantwana abanezakhono zobugcisa bezedijithali kunokuhamba ixesha elide ekukhuseleni ukuba babe yi-cyberbullies. Kwakhona kunokubanceda bahlale bebizi be-intanethi. Khumbula, abantwana banokukwazi ukuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo kwi-intanethi xa bekwazi oko kulindeleke kubo.
Nazi izinto ezintlanu eziphezulu zokufundisa abantwana bakho nge-etiquette ye-digital.
Phatha Abanye Indlela Ofuna Ukuphathwa Ngayo
Phantse wonke umntu uyazi "umgaqo wegolide." Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abantwana kufuneka bakhunjuzwe ukubaluleka kweendlela ezilungileyo, kwikhompyutha. Mkhumbuze ukuba kukulungele ukuxoxa ngeengxaki ezithintekayo okanye ezinokuthi zithintekayo kumntu ngokuthe ngqo kunokuthumela into ethile kwi-intanethi okanye ukuthumela i-imeyili eyingozi.
Kwakhona, xubusha ukuba ubuhlobo obunempilo bubukeka njani kwaye qi niqiniseke ukuba bayazi oku kusebenza kumnxibelelwano we-intanethi.
Gcina Imilayezo Yakho Nezithuba Ezichanekileyo Nenyaniso
Khuthaza abantwana ukuba bacinge imilayezo yabo kunye nezithuba ukuze baqiniseke ukuba ababi, ababi okanye ababi. Kwakhona kufuneka bakuphephe ukuthumela nayiphi na into engeyinyani, njengamarhweba okanye ukuhleba .
Abantwana nabo kufuneka bazi ukuba yiyiphi i-cyberbullying kunye nokuba akufanele bahlanganyele kuloo ndlela yokuziphatha. Okwangoku, ukuba bahlukunyezwa, qiniseka ukuba bayazi njani ukuphendula kwi-cyberbullying .
Hlola ngokuphindaphindiweyo imiyalezo yakho phambi kokuba uthumela ukuthumela
Ukufundisa abantwana ukuba baphuphe kwaye bacinge ngezithuba zabo, izimvo, itekisi kunye ne-imeyile kubalulekile. Kufuneka baqonde ukuba xa baxinezela ukuthumela, akukho ndlela yokubuyisela amagama abo. Kwaye nokuba ngaba bayisusa kamva, kusenokuhlala kubakho abanye ukuba babone ngokukodwa ukuba umntu uthathe umfanekiso weskrini seposi. Bakhuthaze ukuba bafunde imilayezo yabo, izimvo, kunye nezikhundla kwakhona ukuba babone ukuba bangachazwa ngokucacileyo okanye xa beza kuhlambalaza.
Abantwana nabo kufuneka baqaphele ukuba ukurhweba kwi-intanethi yinto enzima kakhulu ukuyenza. Umntu kwelinye isiphelo akanakukubona ubuso babo bombuso okanye ukuva ilizwi labo. Ngamanye amaxesha isigidimi esichazwe ukuba sikhokrele ayifuni ngaso sonke isikhathi. Njengomgaqo jikelele, kufuneka baphephe ukwenza amahlaya kwi-intanethi.
Gcina Iimfihlo Zabahlobo Bakho
Ihlabathi lanamhlanje lizaliswe ngezithombe, izicatshulwa kunye namavidiyo angathunyelwa, akopishwe, adluliselwe, alayishwe kwaye aguqulwe kwimizuzu embalwa. Khuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba bazibuze ukuba bangayivakalelwa njani ukuba enye yezona zihlandlo ezihlazo zibekwa kwibala ukuze umhlaba ubone.
Khumbulani abantwana bakho ukuba bacinge malunga noko bazokuthumela. Bafanele bazibuze yona le mibuzo: Ngaba abahlobo bam bangandixelele oku ngentembelo? Ngaba iya kubahlazisa? Ngaba ukwabelana ngolu lwazi kuphazamise ubumfihlo babo okanye baqhube umdlalo? Ukuba baphendula ewe kuyo nayiphi na le mibuzo, bafanele bahlale bazisa ulwazi. Emva koko, nguloo mhlobo omhle oya kwenza. Omnye umthetho omhle wesithupha uhlala ucela imvume ngaphambi kokuba uthumele umfanekiso womntu.
Gwema iDrama yeMdlalo
Ukuthumela imiyalezo ngokukhawuleza, ukuthumela imiyalezo kunye nokuthumela izimvo kwi-intanethi yonke into "yokunxibelelana" ngexesha. Le nxalenye yekhangelelo kubantwana kuba ibenza baxhamle nabahlobo xa bengenako umntu.
Kodwa ukufunda ukuphuma ingxoxo xa izinto zihlambalaza okanye zithetha kubalulekile.
Ukuze wenze njalo, abantwana banokuthi basayine imilayezo engxamisekileyo, bangaphenduli kwimiyalezo engcolileyo, okanye bayeke ukuthumela ingxelo kwi-Facebook okanye kwi-Instagram. Abantwana kufuneka baqaphele ukuba akukho nto iya kuvela ekuthumeleleni impendulo embi okanye ukwenza amazwana angalunganga. Kungcono ukuphuma kwintetho kwaye ukuba kuyimfuneko, xubusha le meko ngomntu.
Khumbula, ukufundisa abantwana indlela yokusebenzisana nge-intanethi yinkqubo eqhubekayo kwaye kungekhona nje ingxoxo yesikhathi esisodwa. Kwakhona kubandakanya okungaphezulu nje kokubhala uluhlu lwemithetho. Ukufundisa i-digital etiquette kudinga abazali ukuba badibanise nezingane zabo rhoqo kwaye basebenzise imeko zangempela-ubomi njengamava okufunda.