Xa kuziwa kukhuseleko lwe-intanethi kubantwana , enye into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka ibhekiswe kuyo kumaziko eendaba ezentlalo.
Izingosi zeendaba ezentlalo ezifana ne-Facebook zingaba yindlela enhle yokuba abantwana basebenzisane. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqaphele imiphumo emibi kunye neengozi zokuba kwiindawo ezinjalo. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokugcina engqondweni malunga nendlela yokugcina abantwana bekhuselekileyo kwiindawo zentlalo zentlalo.
Cinga nge-Intanethi njenge-Big, Space Open.
Awuyi kumgxotha umntwana wakho kwindawo enkulu kawonkewonke njengendawo yokuthengisa ngemini kwaye ulindele ukuba wonke umntu ahlangane naye ukuze amphathe ngenceba aze akhusele izinto ezilungileyo, ngaba wena? Oko kufana kakuhle noko kwenzekayo xa umntwana ehamba kwi-Intanethi engagqithwanga. Qinisekisa ukugcina iliso elisondeleyo ukuba ngubani na umntwana wakho othetha naye kwaye nini.
Qaphela ukuba unakho ukuxhatshazwa.
Nangona mhlawumbi kunjalo ukuba abantwana abaninzi kwi-intanethi baya kubambisana ngokuhle kunye nabahlobo kunye noontanga, inxalenye enkulu, inyaniso kukuba ukuxhatshazwa -yinto ye-intanethi kwaye ingekho-yinyani phakathi kwabantwana. Umgca ophezulu: Xa unethuba elingakumbi lokusebenzisana nentlalo, unokufumana ithuba lokugatywa okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngabaontanga. Gcina iliso ngaphandle kweempawu ukuba umntwana wakho angaba lixhoba lokuxhatshazwa, kwaye uzifundise ngokuxhatshazwa esikolweni .
Yazi Ngento Ethiwa Ngokuxineka Kwe-Facebook.
Abaphandi bathi ukujonga kwi-Instagram okanye kwi-Facebook iziganeko ezivuyayo kwimpilo yabanye kunokukwenza abantwana abathile banokuzithemba kakhulu.
Oku kwenza umlinganiselo othize xa ucinga ukuba abantu bavame ukuthumela iindaba ezivuyayo kunye neefoto zabo kwimibutho kwizentlalo zoshishino.
Qiniseka ukuba uchazela umntwana wakho ukuba oko akubonayo kumaziko eendaba ezentlalo akubonakali ukuba yintoni into ebomini yobomi bemihla ngemihla efana nayo.
Abantu abakwazi ukuthumela iindaba malunga nokungaphumeleli okanye iimpazamo okanye amaxesha xa bengenakuziva ngabo. Imifanekiso yabantu abaqaqambileyo, abonwabileyo kwiindawo ezinjalo bathetha kuphela inxalenye encinci yebali elikhulu.
Musa ukuphumelela koxinzelelo lwabahlobo kwabanye abazali.
Nangona iindawo zentlalo zentlalo ezifana ne- Facebook zihlala zifuna iimfuno zabadala (i-Facebook idinga ukuba abasebenzisi baneminyaka engama-13 ubudala), into yokuba abantwana abaninzi bancinci kunezona ndawo. Olunye uphando olwenziwa ngabaThengi beeNgxelo zabathengi befumene ukuba abaninzi abantwana abangama-7.5 kwi-Facebook baneminyaka engaphantsi kwama-13, kwaye izigidi ezi-5 zincinci ezineminyaka eli-10 ubudala okanye ngaphantsi. Ukuqulunqa ingxaki, iipesenti ezingama-18 kuphela zabazali babenomngane wabantwana babo, yindlela efanelekileyo yokujonga umsebenzi wezobugcisa bezentlalo.
Umfundi wakho wesikolo angaya ekhaya aze abuze ukuba abe kwi-Facebook, Instagram, okanye ngo-Snapchat kuba bonke abahlobo bakhe bakuyo. Ekugqibeleni, isigqibo siza kubazali. Kodwa ukuba ngaba bakhetha ukuvumela umntwana wabo osemgangathweni wesikolo ukuba ahambe kwi-social media site njenge-Facebook, kukho ezinye izinto abafanele zigcine engqondweni.
Okokuqala, ukuvumela abantwana ukuba baxoxe malunga nobudala babo ukuze badibanise indawo yesigxina soonxibelelwano kuthetha ukuba uxoxe, kwaye ubonise umntwana wakho ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ulungile ukuthetha amanga.
Okwesibini, ukuba unquma ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba abe neprofayili kwisayithi elinjalo, kufuneka uqaphele imisebenzi yakhe kunye kwaye uqiniseke ukuba ungumhlobo wakhe kwaye unokufikelela kwi-akhawunti yakhe ye-imeyile.
Misela iSiseko esiSiseko seTrust kunye noNxibelelwano.
Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba unokuya kuwe ngengxaki kwaye uya kuphulaphula nayiphi na ingxaki enokuba nayo ngaphandle kokwesaba ukulahlekelwa uthando okanye uthando. Xa uba ngumntwana wakho evakalelwa ngathi unokuthembela kuye kwaye uyazithemba, uya kuba nako ukuthetha nawe malunga naziphi na iingxaki.