Yeka Ukukhathazeka kunye 'Nomhlobo' Inethiwekhi Yentlalo
Uninzi lwabazali banalo ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye nezonxibelelwano zentlalo xa beza kubantwana babo. Sonke sivile nge- cyberbullying kunye nabantu abatsha benza izinto eziyingozi ngaphandle kokuqonda. Kodwa kwintombazana yakho eneemfuno ezizodwa, amanxibelelwano enzentlalo njenge-Facebook inokuba yindlela ejongene nokulula ukuba uphendule kwilizwe labalingane abaqhelekileyo ngaphandle kokubambisana nabo ngokwabo. Ngolawulo olufanelekileyo, i-Facebook ingaba yinyanya kakhulu kunokholo lwakho lokufunda esikolweni esiphakeme okanye esikolweni. Nazi izizathu ezinhlanu zokuba kutheni ufuna ukuqwalasela ukumisa i-akhawunti ye-Facebook kumntwana wakho.
Iseka i-Identity Online.
Nangona ungafuni ukubeka iphepha le-Facebook yakho kwintsholongwane yakho, oko akuthethi umntu ongeke ayenze, njengokuba umhlobo wam unyana wamsandul 'ukufumanisa ukuba ngabafundi abathandana nabo bafaka iprofayili engalunganga ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe . Kunzima kakhulu ukulwa neakhawunti yebuqhetseba ukuba awunayo i-persona kwi-Facebook. Ukusungula iphepha njengoko ikhaya lakho lokwenene lentsha liye lenza ukuba kube mnandi kwabanye ukuba bamlingise, kwaye baya kunika umntwana wakho ukuma ukulwa naloo nto xa ayenzayo.
Ukuba Nohlobo Oluhle Lwabahlobo, Ngona Xa Ziyinyani.
Kungumntu onobuhlungu, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba i-Facebook isebenzisa igama elithi "umhlobo" ukuchaza ukudibanisa phakathi kwabasebenzisi kuba kuya kufuneka uchaze umntwana wakho ukuba "umhlobo" kwi-intanethi akayi kuyenza njengomhlobo wobomi boqobo. Sekunjalo, ukudibanisa kulula kakhulu kwaye kwenziwa ngokukhululekile kwi-Facebook imo kwaye inokunika umntwana wakho umva wempumelelo yentlalo kunzima ukufumana enye into. (Kakade, uya kufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba elinye lala magama kwiluhlu lwabahlobo bakho selutsha lenu.)
Unako Ukunceda Umntwana Wakho Aphile.
Nangona unokuya esikolweni kunye nentsha yakho kunye nokuqeqesha yonke intlalo yoluntu, mhlawumbi uya kuba neentloni kunokuba uncedo. Ngekhompyutha, nangona kunjalo, akukho mntu uya kukwazi ukuba ufunda ngaphezu kwemimiselo, izimvo, kunye neengxoxo kunye nentetho yakho kunye nentsha yakho, ukuncedisa ukucacisa oko kuthethwa yi-slang kunye nokucebisa iimpendulo ezifanelekileyo. Ukuxoxisana nomntwana wakho kuya kunika ingqiqo kakuhle yento abantwana abayithethayo kunye nendlela abakuthetha ngayo ukuba ungayisebenzisa ukufundisa umntwana wakho ubuchule obuthile bentlalo.
Iyakhuthaza izakhono ezisebenzayo.
Ingane yakho ingabinomdla ekutyikitheni ukuziphatha njengomsebenzi otyhafisayo, kodwa ungagxuma ngeli thuba ukuthayipha imimiselo kunye namazwana kwinto epholile njenge-Facebook. Ukuzibandakanya ukunikezela kunye nokuthatha incoko kulula kwaye kuyingozi kakhulu xa uyenza kwingxoxo ngenkathi udlala i-UNO okanye kwiimvo zobume bomhlobo. Ukuba umntwana wakho akasenayo abahlobo abaza kuxoxa naye, hamba phambili kwaye uxoxe naye naye, nokuba uhlala kwigumbi elilandelayo, ukuze ufumane iminwe yokuthayipha kunye noqhagamshelwano olugelezayo.
Umsebenzi oLungeleleneyo.
Kukho izinto ezininzi eziselula ezenzayo ezingayi kufumaneka kwintsholongwane yakho, engafanelekanga, okanye engekho inzala. I-Facebook yinto ebonwa ngokubanzi njengento epholile, into efunyanwa ngumntu oyingane yakho yobudala, into elula kumntwana wakho ukuba amise kwaye athathe inxaxheba. Ngokunyamekela kakuhle, inokuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokufana nabantu bonke, kunye namathuba afana nawo afanelekileyo athabathe.