Wonke umntu ufuna ukuziva ngathi ayenabo, ngakumbi abatsha. Ngenxa yoko, ukuba nobuhlobo obunempilo kubalulekile. Ubuhlobo obuncinci buza kunceda umntwana wakho azive edibene nehlabathi lakhe, kodwa iingcaphephe zibonisa ukuba ubuhlobo obunempilo bunokuba nefuthe elihle kwimpilo nakwimpilo. Ubuhlobo nabo bubalulekile xa kuziwa ekuthintela uxhatshazo.
Abaxhaphazi bajwayele ukujolisa abantwana abahlala bodwa; kodwa abantwana abanesigxina sohlobo lwabahlobo abanamathuba okuba babe ngamaxhoba okuxhatshazwa . Kodwa kuvela iingxaki nangona ubuhlobo bungahambi kakuhle. Kule meko, umhlobo womntwana wakho unokuba ngumxhaphazi . Ngenxa yoko, ubuhlobo bunobungozi kunokuba luncedo. Nazi iziganeko ezisixhenxe eziphezulu zokujonga ubungqina bokuxhatshazwa.
Ukuphatha omnye nomnye njengoLingana
Ngobuhlobo obuhle, bonke abahlobo baphathwa njengalinganayo kunye nokuthetha okulinganayo kwizinto abazenzayo, apho badla nalapho bahamba khona. Nangona omnye okanye abahlobo ababili bahlala bekhokela, baphatha umntwana wakho ngenhlonipho kwaye balingana. Kodwa ngobudlelwane obungenakulinganisela, umntu omnye uhlala ekhokela ngokusebenzisa igunya, ukuba ngumntu onobuchule okanye ofuna ukuba izinto zenziwe ngendlela ethile. Akukho ntsebenziswano okanye unyango olufanelekileyo. Olu hlobo lokuziphatha lubonakala ngokukodwa kwiintlobo zentombazana enentsingiselo .
Ukuba umntwana wakho akaphathwa njengelinganayo ebuhlotsheni bakhe, ngoko ubuhlobo bakhe abukho kwimpilo.
Unyanisekile kwaye uthembekile
Ubuhlobo obunempilo bukhona xa abahlobo bethembekile kwaye bathenjwa. Ngamanye amazwi, ababandakanyi ukuhleba okanye amahemuhemu . Baya kugcina izinto abanye abantu abelana ngazo ngokuzithemba.
Kwaye, ukuba benza iphosakelo, baxhamle baze babelane ngento ethile, bathatha uxanduva kwizenzo zabo baze baxolise.
Ukubhiyozela Impumelelo yoMnye
Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokufumana ukuba ubuhlobo bomntwana wakho buphilile, kukujonga indlela abahlobo bakhe baphendula ngayo xa kukho into enhle eyenzekayo kuye. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho wenza iqela lezemidlalo okanye ufumana udumo, ngaba abahlobo bakhe bayigubha kunye naye kwaye bayamncoma? Okanye, ukuba umntwana wakho wenza ibanga elihle okanye ufumana ibhaso esikolweni, ngaba ngabahlobo bakhe bayonwabile ngenxa yakhe? Inzondelelo nomona ziyingozi kakhulu ezinokubangela abantwana ukuxhatshazwa. Jonga ngempawu yokuba nomona kwaye ukuba ungqina nantoni na ukuba uqiniseke ukuthetha nomntwana wakho malunga neempawu zobungane obuhle.
Yima Ngomnye Ngamanye
Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo kakhulu ezinokuthintela ukuxhatshazwa, xa omnye umhlobo emela okanye emela omnye xa umxhatshazo ejolise kuye. Umhlobo omhle uya kumxelela ukuba ummeli anqume, ncedise ixhoba ingxelo malunga nokuxhatshazwa kunye nokumxhasa xa ukuxhatshazwa kudlulile. Abahlobo abalungileyo bangaphezu kwamabala . Benza inkqubo yenkxaso eya kunceda umntwana wakho akwazi ukujamelana nokuxhatshazwa ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuxhasa abanye ubuhlobo
Ubuhlobo obusondeleyo abuhlobo obusondeleyo.
Ngamanye amagama, xa umntwana wakho ebudlelwaneni obuphilileyo abahlobo bakhe bayamxhasa amaqela ahlobo akhe ahlukeneyo. Okwangoku, iifowuni azixhaseli abahlobo abaxhamlayo. Bakugxininisa ubumbano kwaye bavame ukunyanzela abanye kwiqela ukuba bahambisane nokugxotha abanye.
Ngaba Yinyani kwaye Inene
Ngobuhlobo obuhle, umntwana wakho uya kuziva ekhululekile ukuba ngokwakhe. Ukongezelela, abahlobo bakhe baya kuba bunyani kwaye banokwenene. Akukho mntu uvakalelwa ngathi kufuneka enze into yokuba angabikho. Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho uxhoma kunye nabahlobo bamanga , kuya kubakho ukuzenza ngathi.
Musa Ukunyanzelisa Intshutshiso Yontanga
Abahlobo abalungileyo bahlonipha imida yomnye umntu.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ubuza umhlobo ukuba angenzi nto okanye athi ayikho kwisicelo, umhlobo omhle uya kuhlonela loo nto. Ngokwahlukileyo, ubuhlobo obungenabungozi bubandakanya uxinzelelo lwabaontanga abaninzi. Ukuba ngabahlobo bakho bomntwana bamnyanzelisa ukuba enze izinto azinqweneliyo, kuquka ukunyanzelisa ukuba anxinezele, qiniseka ukuba umntwana uyazi indlela yokuphendula uxinzelelo lwaontanga .
ILizwi elivela kwiTwellwell
Ukuba ubuhlobo bakho bobutsha abanayo iziganeko ezi sixhenxe ke kungenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho abe yintlonelo yokuxhatshazwa ngexesha elithile. Thetha naye malunga nento eyenza umhlobo omhle aze amncede abe nobuhlobo obuhle. Mncede amchaze umahluko phakathi kwabahlobo abalungileyo kunye nabantu abanobuthi . Nika inkxaso. Ukwenza abahlobo abangathembela kuyo akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi. Le nkqubo iza kuthatha ixesha.