Bantoni Abantwana Bamaxabiso Bathi Ngomzali Wakho
Ukunika umntwana izinto ezigqithiseleyo ebomini, akubalulekanga. Abantwana bezinto eziphathekayo abanomdla kakhulu kwaye abanemali engaphethekiyo kunontanga yabo. Kukho iindlela onokumnika umntwana wakho konke kodwa uvelise umntwana oqiqayo, oqokelelweyo. Kukho iindlela onokuziphepha ekubeni nezingane eziphathekayo, ngokutsho kophando lwakutshanje.
Abantwana bezinto eziphathekayo banabantwana abancinane abaxhasayo
Kuhlolisiso lwabafundi kunye nentsha, abazali ababencedi ngokomoya babenabantwana abanokwakheka izinto ezibonakalayo kunabantwana abancedisayo. Ngokuxhasa, sithetha amandla omzali ukuba athethe, akhuthaze, kwaye abe khona ngenxa yomntwana ngexesha elihle nelibi. Ukuzithemba kukubalulekileyo ekuqondeni oku kufunyanwa. Ukuxhaswa ngumzali kwandisa ukuzithemba kwabaselula. Ukuphakamisa ukuzithemba komntwana, kungenakwenzeka ukuba bajonge kwizinto ukuze bafumane uvuyo kunye nemvakalelo yokubaluleka; bafumana ukuxabisa kwabo kubuhlobo, kunoko. Ungabafundisa ukubaluleka kobudlelwane ngokuzihlawula ixesha lakho, amandla kunye neminqweno. Oku kuya kubanceda babone ukubaluleka kwabo njengomhlobo olungileyo kunye nomntwana wakho. Kwaye nokuba ngaba uthengela izinto kwiindlela, ukugcina ubudlelwane buya kubangela ukuzithemba okuphezulu okukhokelela ekunciphiseni izinto eziphathekayo.
Abantwana bezinto eziphathekayo banabantwana abancinane abaxhasayo
Kuyafana nokufunyanwe ngabazali, inkxaso yoontanga kubalulekile ekuchaseni ukuthanda izinto eziphathekayo. Kwisifundo, abantwana abanezihlobo ezixhasayo babenokuzihlonela ngakumbi kwaye, ke, iinkolelo ezimbalwa zokuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo. "Abahlobo abancedisayo" ngabo baqondayo, abancedayo ngexesha leemfuno kwaye abangazange bathukuthele okanye bathukuthele ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Abahlobo abancedisayo banqanda ulwalamano olusondeleyo kunye nokuxhaphaza . Ukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukufumana nokugcina ezi ntlobo zobuhlobo kunokunceda umntwana wakho acinge ngezinto ezibonakalayo.
Abantwana bezinto ezibonakalayo bavame ukuba nabazali bezinto eziphathekayo
Ukuziphatha kwakho kukuchaphazela nokuba ziphi na iimpahla nemali kumntwana wakho. Abantwana bafunda ngokubukela, ngoko ukuba bakubona uxabisa imali njengomthombo wolonwabo, banokukwenza okufanayo. Ukongezelela, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba ukuthanda izinto eziphathekayo ngumzali kwakukho, ukunciphisa ukuzithemba komntwana. Ekubeni ukuzithemba okuphantsi kukuxhomekeke kwizinto eziphathekayo eziphathekayo, kulandela ukuba abazali bezinto eziphathekayo babe nezingane eziphathekayo.
Abantwana bezinto eziphathekayo nabo banomhlobo wokuthanda izinto eziphathekayo
Ngokufanayo, izimo zengqondo nezenzo zontanga zichaphazela iinkolelo eziphathekayo. Abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba abafana abasemncinane abahlobo bezinto eziphathekayo babenokuzithemba okuncinane, kwaye ke, ukuthanda izinto eziphathekayo. Ukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba athole abahlobo abancedisayo abangayifaki ixabiso eliphezulu kwimali kunye nezinto, ngoko, banceda uncedo lwakho luphephe ukusetyenziswa.
Umthombo:
Chaplin, Lan Nguyen noJohn, uDeborah Roedder. Ukubambisana kwabangasemncinci kubangelwa izinto eziphathekayo eziphathekayo: Ukujonga entsha kwendima yabazali neontanga. Umbhalo woBomi beMveliso. 2010. 20: 176-184.