Ukuqonda le Nqanaba loLwazi lokuLwazi
Umntwana wakho okhulayo useka ubunikazi bakhe, kwaye yile nxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuphuhliswa. Ukwahlukana kobume yingxenye ebalulekileyo yale phuhliso.
Ukwahlukana kwegama linye inyathelo kwinkqubo yokufumana ingqiqo . Ibhekisela kwithuba apho umntu engenazo i-identity esaziwayo okanye efuna ngokuphandle.
Ngamanye amazwi, lixesha apho ubunikazi bomntu buhlala kungagqitywanga, kodwa akukho nto ingxaki ye-identity (inkqubo ebizwa ngokuba yi- identity moratorium ).
Imvelaphi yeCandelo loLwazi lokuSasaza
Ukwahlukana kwegama lenye yeemimiselo zesazisi ezichazwe ngumfundi wengqondo weCanada uJackie Marcia. Wakha iingcamango zakhe malunga nobuntu ngokubonisana nomsebenzi weoorist Erik Erikson, naye wabhala ngokubanzi malunga neengxaki zobungqina. UMarcia washicilela umsebenzi wakhe kwiimpawu zesazisi kwiminyaka yama-1960, kodwa ukususela ngoko iingcali zeengqondo ziye zaqhubeka zicoca iingcamango zakhe.
Ukwahlukana Kweziphi Ubunjani Ubunjani Ubunjani?
Abantwana kunye nabafana abatsha bahlala besesigxina sezazisi kwiintlobo ezininzi zobunikazi, njengokwenkolo, umsebenzi, okanye ubume benkcubeko. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ucela umfana omncinane nokuba unguRiphabliki, uMdemokhrasi, okanye u-Independent, mhlawumbi uya kuthi akwazi kwaye akazange acinge ngento.
Le yimpendulo yeklasi evela kumntu olwahlukana ngolwazi: Akukho ukuzibophelela kwendlela yokucinga kwaye akukho nto ixhalabisa ngayo ngokungabikho kokuzinikela. Ukusabalalisa i-ID isigaba esivamile ekuphuhliseni ubuntu kubantwana abakhulayo.
Ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba i-middle yakho ingabonakali ukuba neqondo eliqinileyo, qiniseka ukuba njengoko iminyaka yeshumi elivisayo, umntwana wakho uya kuqala ukukhangela i-niche yakhe ehlabathini, ukujonga iimfuno zakhe kumculo, uncwadi, ezopolitiko, unqulo kunye nokunye.
Elinye Idatity Statute Youth Experience
Olutsha ulutsha luyakwazi ukuchithwa kwesazisi, inkqubo apho bacinga ukuba bangubani ngaphambili. Basenokuthi bangamademokhrasi okanye amaKatolika, ngenxa yokuba abazali babo, okanye ngenxa yokuba umhlobo omhle okanye uthisha oyithandayo. Njengoko beyazi ngokwabo ngokuphuma ekhaya, ukuya ekholejini okanye ngokuhlangana nabantu abatsha, banokugqiba ekubeni bangabantu baseRiphablikhi, emva koko, bazibheka njengomKristu wevangeli ngaphandle kweKatolika.
Emva kokufumana ukusabalalisa ubunikazi, ukuchithwa kwesazisi, kunye nokuchithwa kobunikazi, abantwana abaselula bayaya ekufikeleleni ukufikelela kwesazisi, ukuzaliseka kobodwa babo kunye nokwenene. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele, nangona kunjalo, ukuba abantwana nabaselula abakwaziyo ukufumana le migaqo yesazisi kwimiyalelo ethile.
Emva kokuba baye bafumana ezi zigaba ezintathu zesazisi, abaninzi abantu beza kunye neenqobo zeenkolelo kunye neenkolelo, umsebenzi oqeqeshwayo, kunye nezinye iimpawu zesazisi ezizibonakalisa kakuhle. Olu phulo lwazi luyabonakala lukhulile.
UkuLawulwa kweNkcazo ngaphandle kweBantwana
Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abanesifo sengxaki yokuguquka komntu kuthiwa bahlukeneyo.
Aba bantu bavame ukuvakalelwa kukuba abanalo lokwenene. Ubunjani babo buchanekile ngokuxhomekeke kubantu abahlala kuzo kunye neemeko abazifumanayo. Abantu abanjalo bahlala bebika ukuba kunzima ukwazi apho baqala khona kwaye abanye baphela.
Umthombo:
Santrock, John, PhD. Abantwana, i-Eleventh Edition. 2010. eNew York: Hill-McGraw-Hill.