Oko Abazali Kumele Bazi
Xa kuziwa kwihlabathi leentombi kunye nesambatho, abazali beesibini bafuna umonde omkhulu . Tweens bayazi ukuba bafuna ukumbatha, kwaye xa phakathi kwamantombazana betha iminyaka ethile, bahlula kakhulu ngempahla. Ukujikeleza ihlabathi leentombi kunye nezambatho kunokwenzeka, kufuna nje ukubeka imida embalwa, kwaye ukuphazamiseka xa kuyimfuneko.
Amantombazana kunye neengubo
Ingaba lakho likumangalisile ngokumxelela ukuba uyamzonda yonke into ekhayeni lakhe?
Okanye, uye wakwenza kucace ukuba awufanele uthenge nayiphi na impahla kuye ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe? I-Tweens inokukhethwa xa ifika kwimfashini kunye neengubo abazigqoka, kwaye utshintsho lunokwenzeka ngebusuku. Ngenye imini banokunyamekela malunga noko banxibayo, ngokulandelayo bahlolisisa yonke into phantsi kweesokisi zabo, baze baqiniseke ukuba kufuneka babe ne-pair ye jeans.
I-Tween ibhekana noxinzelelo oluvakalayo kwiontanga zabo ukuba zilungele kwaye zigqoke iindlela ezithile zokugqoka. Nantsi indlela yokufundisa phakathi kwakho ukwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo (kwimida yakho kunye nohlahlo-lwabiwo-mali), kwaye uncede ahlale engqondweni.
Hlalani kwi-Budget Family
Kungaba nzima ukuba phakathi ukuba uqonde ukuba i-$ 75 yinto eninzi ukuyihlawula idiza yeeans. Kwaye ukuzama ukulungelelanisa ukungafuni ukuva ukuba abanakufumana ijekethi ethile kuba ayifanelekanga kwisabelomali seentsapho.
Njengoko kunzima kunokuba bobabili kuni, kubalulekile ukuba umise umhlaba wakho ukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba aqonde ukuba ibhajethi kufuneka ilandelwe kwaye ukuba ngumntu wonke uxanduva lokusebenza ngaphakathi kwemida yentsapho eqinisiweyo.
Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe uhambo lokuthenga, hlala phantsi nentombi yakho kwaye uchaze ngokucacileyo ukuba kufuneka usebenzise imali engakanani. Ukongezelela, yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezikufunayo phakathi kwakho, kunye nebhajethi esondeleyo kwento nganye. Oku kuya kunika umntwana wakho ngolwazi alufunayo njengoko enza iimpahla zakhe zokuthenga.
Ukuba umntwana wakho unqwenela iinqaba zeeswele, okanye enye into yokugqoka engayifanelekanga kwisabelo-mali sekhaya, mnike ithuba lokuthenga into yakhe ngemali yakhe. Unako ukugcina isibonelelo sakhe, okanye ukufumana imali ukuncedisa ejikeleze indlu okanye ngokujongana nemisebenzi emincinane yabamelwane. Lo mkhuba uvumela umntwana wakho ukuba afunde uxanduva, kwaye asebenzele injongo. Kwakhona indlela enhle yokuba umntwana wakho afunde ukuyeka ukunyaniseka .
Mfundise Ngomfanekiso
I-Tweens ixakekile kakhulu efuna ukulungelelanisa, ukuba abahlali bayiqonda ukuba iimpahla abazigqokayo, okanye indlela abazigqoka ngayo, banganika abanye ingcamango engafanelekanga. Chaza ukuba kutheni iifayile ezithile kufuneka zigwenywe (kuba zityhila ngesondo, okanye zidibaniswa nezigulane, njl.). Ukucacisa ukucinga kwakho kumntwanakho kumnceda ukuba aqonde ukuba awuyikuthatha isigqibo sokuba akanako into ayifunayo.
Mfundise Ukunyamekela Ingubo Yakhe
I-Tweens ikhulile ngokwaneleyo ukuze ifunde indlela yokuqala ukunyamekela iimpahla zabo kwaye ibenokugqibela. Umntwana wakho unokuqala ngokufunda indlela yokuhlamba iimpahla zokuhlamba ezingcolileyo ngombala kunye neendwangu, kunye nendlela yokusebenzisa i-washer nesomisi. Thatha ixesha lokuba uchaze ukuba kutheni iimpahla ezithile zifuna ukunakekelwa okungakumbi (njengesilika okanye uboya) kwaye kufuneka acinge ukuba xa kuthengwa.
I-Tween idume ngokuphonsa impahla ecocekileyo kwindawo yokuhlamba, ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukuyifumba nokuyibeka. Qiniseka ukuba uchazela umntwana wakho ukuba ukuhlamba iimpahla ezingaphezulu kunokuba kudingeke kuphelelwe imibala, kwaye ubudala bento ingekafiki. Thatha ixesha lokubonisa umntanakho indlela yokugcoba iimpahla ukukhusela imibimbi, kwaye ubenqume ukuba baphinde baphinde baphinde bagqitywe.
Setha imida yeFashion
Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho athethe okuthile kwiingubo azigqokayo, kwaye uyazi ukuba yiyiphi imfashini kunye nento engekho. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba unike umntwana wakho ithuba lokuseka indlela yakhe yokuziphatha, kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba ugqoke iimpahla ezihluke kakhulu kwiingubo ozikhethileyo.
Ngethuba nje le mpahla ingabonakali, mnike ithuba lokuba azenzele izigqibo.
Nangona kunjalo, qiniseka xa kuziwa kwiingubo ezivuthiwe okanye ziveze, kunye nezambatho ezingabonakalisa amagama angcolileyo okanye imifanekiso, okanye ukungqubuzana neempawu zentsapho yakho. Umntwana uzama ukumisela umqondo, kodwa usengumzali kwaye unelungelo lokumisela imida.
Ukuba intombi yakho ifuna ukugqoka iimpahla ozicingelayo okanye ezingabonakaliyo, cacisa ukuba kubaluleke ngani ukuba agqoke iminyaka yakhe, kwaye umbonise apho ufuna ukuba intamo yakhe ibe khona, kwaye iphothi yakhe ifanele iwele. Ukuba ufuna ngempela ihembe ocinga ukuba liphantsi, nqama ukuphazamisa ngokufumana i-camisole okanye i-t-shirt ukugqoka ngaphantsi.
Khetha iinqwelo zakho
Uyazi ukuba intombi yakho ibonakala ingcono kwiimpawu ezithile kunye nemibala kunokuba ifuna ukugqoka, kodwa kulungile ukumvumela ukuba enze iimpazamo ezimbalwa zefestile kwaye afunde kuzo. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba ukhethe iimfazwe zakho ukuze ugcine amandla akho kwizinto ezibaluleke kakhulu.
Ekugqibeleni, qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba kufuneka aqwalasele indlela efanelekileyo yokugqoka ngeziganeko ezifana nemitshato, imingcwabo, idilizo, icawa, okanye ezinye iimeko ezizodwa. Umntwana wakho unokugxeka ingcamango yokugqoka ingubo ebantwini, kodwa kuya kuwe ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyaqonda ukubaluleka kokugqoka kweso sihlandlo. Kwaye akuyikuhlonipha.