Yeka ukuqalekisa kwaye uncede phakathi kwakho uhlambulule ulwimi lwakhe.
Bazama ukulingana, babheke bepholile, baze bavele bekhulile. Bava ulwimi olubi rhoqo xa bejika-esikolweni, kumabonwakude, mhlawumbi nasekhaya. Akumangalisi ukuba ukuthuka kwezingane ziyingxaki enjalo kule mihla. Ukuba i-tween yakho yongeze ngokukhawuleza amagama ambalwa atyuwa kwisigama sakhe, kusenokuba yinto elungileyo yokubamba ukuthuka kwakhe. Ngezantsi zikhombisi ezimbalwa malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukuqalekiswa nokunceda phakathi kwakho ucoce ulwimi lwakhe.
Umzekelo omhle wokuziphatha
Iontanga zabantwana bakho zichaphazela ukuziphatha kwakhe, kodwa nantoni na enokucinga, usengumdla obalulekileyo ebomini bakhe. Ukuba umnqweno wakho ukugcina phakathi kwakho ukuqalekisa, kuya kufuneka uqaphele ngamagama ukhetha ukuwasebenzisa xa uphelelwe ngumsindo. Ukukhawuleza ukuqalekisa kwakho kunokuba nzima, kodwa ukuba wenza njalo, i-middle yakho iya kuqaphela kwaye iya kulandela umzekelo wakho omhle.
Ukuba uvumela isithuba sokukhupha yonke into ngoku, musa ukuzibetha malunga nalo. Ukuba i-kati yakho iva, vumelani isithuba sakho kwaye uxolise ngokusebenzisa ulwimi olubi ukuze uziveze.
Yazisa I nyaniso
Akukho ndlela yokukhusela umntwana wakho kwimeko yokukhula. Amathuba akho unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho yakuva amagama ambalwa okuthuka kwibhasi, esikolweni okanye kwindawo eselungileyo. Yazisa kwi-kati yakho owaziyo ukuba uva la mazwi, kwaye umbuze ukuba unemibuzo malunga noko bathethayo.
Thatha ixesha lokuba uchaze ukuba kutheni la mazwi akhathazayo kwaye akufanele aphinda ahloniphe abanye abantu. Cacisa ukuba abantu abaninzi bafumana ukuthukisa kakhulu ukuva, kwaye kungenangqiqo ukudala indawo eyenza abantu abaninzi banokuziva bexakekile.
Kwakhona, phawula indlela abantu abajonga ngayo abanye xa beqalekisa.
I-Tween ifuna ukuqonda ukuba ukuthuka esidlangalaleni kungathumela abanye umyalezo ongafanelekanga ngabo, omnye abangafuni ukuthumela.
Cacisa Ngezinto Ozilindeleyo
Ukuba awufuni ukuba umntwana wakho aqalekise, yithetha njalo. Yicacile ngokumalindela kwakho. Umzekelo, unokuthi, "Ndiyazi ukuba uva ulwimi olubi esikolweni nakwibhasi, kodwa ndikulindela ukuba uziphathe kangcono kunontanga yakho kwaye ufumane amagama afanelekileyo xa usebenzisa okanye uzama ukwenza iphuzu . "
I-Tweens ihendelwa ukuba iqalekise okanye ikhulume phambi kohlobo lwayo ukuze ibukeke ipholile kwaye ifumane ukuwamkelwa. Kodwa unokuxelela umntwana wakho ukuba abanye abantwana mhlawumbi abayi kuqonda ukuba ukhetha ukungasebenzisi ulwimi olubi. Abanye abazali nabadala, nangona kunjalo, baya kuqaphela. Yaye uya kucinga ngokukhulu ngaye ngenxa yokungaqalekisi.
Nika iingcebiso zomntwana malunga nendlela yokuphepha ukusebenzisa ulwimi oluthile. Unako, umzekelo, ucinga ukuba ugogo wakhe okanye umzalwana omncinane ukhona njengendlela yokuphepha ukuziphatha okubi. Okanye, unokuzama ukugxininisa oontanga bakhe ngokusebenzisa amagama anesigxina (kodwa afanelekileyo) angayayiqondi.
Chaza iIsohlwayo zokuqalekisa
Ngamanye amaxesha indlela engcono yokwenza ingongoma yakho ingumvuzo kunye nenkqubo yokuhlawula. Mvuza umntanakho xa efumana amagama amkelekileyo ukuze enze iphuzu lakhe, aze amgwebe xa engenzi.
Unokuyilungisa phakathi kwakho onke amazwi ambi athi, yithetha i-$ 1 ngelizwi. Okanye, ungathatha imizuzu eyi-15 ekuphumeni kwakhe kwixesha elifanelekileyo lokufumana ixesha elifanelekileyo. Fumana inkqubo eyenzela wena nomntwana wakho ukukhusela abantwana ukuqalekisa, kwaye unamathele kuyo.
Khangela ngaphaya kwamazwi
Ngamanye amaxesha uqala ukuqalekisa phambi kwabazali babo okanye nabanye abadala njengokuphazamiseka. Bathemba ukuba uya kugxininisa kumazwi abasebenzisayo, endaweni yezenzo zabo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uqalekisa ngenxa yokuba uyamcaphukisa ekhaya ukuza ekhaya ibakala elibi, okanye ukuhluleka ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe, ungavumeli ukuba amagama akhe athathe ingqwalasela yakho ingxaki, ukuziphatha kwakhe.
Hlala phantsi uze uthethe
Ukuba yonke imizamo yakho yokunqanda ukuthuka kwezingane ihlulekile, yithuba lokuhlala phantsi kwaye uthetha ukuya ngasezantsi kweendlela zomntwana wakho. I-Tween inokuthukisa nje ingqalelo (nangona ingqalelo ingqalelo) kwaye ingathi ingqalelo ukuba uzama ukubamba. Kwakhona kungenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho uzama ngamabomu ukulimaza ama-feeligs akho. Ukuba ucinga ukuba kufuneka ufune uncedo lomcebisi ukuba afike phantsi kwelo mba, qhagamshelana nomcebisi wesikolo somntwana wakho. Okanye, qhagamshelana nezingane zakudala zonyango uncedo olongezelelweyo kunye neengcebiso.