Amasu okuqeqesha ngomlomo wamanzi
Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana bafungele ngexesha elinye. Iintsana eziselula ziza kuphinda ziphinda into eve Abantwana abakhulileyo bafuna ukuvavanya indlela abazali babo abasabela ngayo. Ukuba
Umntwana wakho uqalise ukusebenzisa amagama ambalwa akhethiweyo, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuziphatha ezinokuthintela ulwimi olumbala.
Cinga Ngezithethe Zakho Zentsapho
Ixabiso lentsapho yakho liza kudlala indima enkulu ekunqumeni indlela yokuphendula ngokufunga.
Kwezinye iintsapho, ukufunga akukho nto enkulu kwaye abazali bayamkela ukuba abantwana banokusebenzisa amagama aqalekiso. Kwiintsapho ezikhuselweyo ngokufunga, kubalulekile ukulungisa ingxaki ngokukhawuleza.
Kodwa nayiphi na indlela, thetha nomntwana wakho malunga nendlela abantu abahlukileyo abanamanani ahlukileyo ngayo. Ngoko ngoxa unokufunga, kuyacaphuka kwabanye abantu. Okanye, ukuba intsapho yakho ingafungi, qinisekisa ukuba umntwana uyazi ukuba unokuvaphula amagama aqalekiso kwabanye abantu.
Cinga ngesizathu
Xa ugqiba indlela yokulungisa ukufunga, jonga ngezizathu ezinokuthi ukhetho lwamagama lukhethwa ngumntwana wakho. Indlela kunye nalapho igama elifungelweyo lisetyenziswe kubalulekile. Umntwana oneminyaka emi-5 ubudala ephindaphinda ilizwi aliva kwibhasi lihluke kakhulu kumntu oneminyaka eli-15 ubudala efungela utitshala wakhe.
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bafungela ngenxa yokuba bengenabuchule bokubaluleka kwezakhono zobomi , njengezakhono zonxibelelwano kunye nezakhono zentlalo. Ukuba kunjalo, kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana wakho ezo zakhono ngokukhawuleza.
Ngaphandle koko, zabo zibe yimiphumo yomphefumlo.
Abantu abadala abangenazo izakhono zentlalo okanye izakhono zokulawula umgudu bangaxothwa emsebenzini wokusebenzisa ulwimi olungalunganga. Okanye, banokuhlangabezana neengxaki zobudlelwane xa bekhubekisa abanye ngegama labo elibalabala.
Ukuba ucinga ukufungela kuyimpawu yenkathazo enkulu, njengokungabikho kwengqondo yokulawula umsindo , fundisa ezo zakhono njengenxalenye yesicwangciso sakho soqeqesho .
Yiba ngumzekelo omhle
Cinga ngolu hlobo lomsebenzi onokumisela umntwana wakho. Ukuba ufunga njengomkhumbi, umntwana wakho mhlawumbi uya kuba. Ukuxelela umntwana wakho, "Lawa ngamazwi amakhulu ukuze ndikwazi ukuthetha kodwa aninakukwazi," akunjalo nje ukukusika. Izingane zifuna ukufana nabadala kwaye ziya kukukopisha.
Ukuba ukhululekile kakhulu ngolwimi lwakho, kwaye umntwana wakho uthathe ukufunga, umgca wokuqala wokukhusela kufuneka uguqule ulwimi lwakho. Ukuba umzekelo wokusingatha umsindo wakho kwaye uzibonakalise ngaphandle kokuqalekisa, umntwana wakho uya kufunda indlela yokwenza njalo.
Kwakhona, jonga ezinye iindlela umntwana wakho angabonakalisa ngayo ulwimi olungalunganga. Ukuba uvumela umntwana wakho ukuba abukele ama-movie okanye adlale imidlalo yevidiyo equka ulwimi oluninzi oluthile, uya kulukhetha kwakhona. Nciphise oko umvumela ukuba avele kuso ukuba ufuna ukuhlambulula ulwimi lwakhe.
Ungayihoyi Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Ufuna Ukunyamekela
Izingane ziya kuphinda ziphinda ukuziphatha ezifumana ingqalelo enkulu. Ukuba uhleka okanye wenze i-big deal ngaphandle kwesiqalekiso, kuqinisekiswe ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuphinda athi kwakhona.
Ukungayithobeli kungaba ngumthombo wokuqala wokukhusela, ngakumbi kubantwana abancinci. Ukuba igama elifungelweyo liphindaphindiweyo, naphezu kokungayihoxisi, cacisa ukuba akulona ilizwi elihle kwaye akufanele lisetyenziswe kwakhona.
Ukuseka iMithetho malunga nokufunga
Ukuba ukufunga kukuba yingxaki, kunokufuneka ukuba wenze idilesi yokulawula ikhaya . Umgaqo othi, "Sebenzisa ulwimi olufanelekileyo," lunokunceda.
Abantwana bangadinga isilumkiso kunye nezikhumbuzo malunga nento ethi "kufanelekile." Abanye abazali banokufuna umthetho othi, "Ukufungela kungenziwa kuphela ngokuphumla egumbini lakho lokulala ukuze kungabikho mntu uva."
Ukubonelela ngeziphumo
Ukuba udale umgaqo malunga nokufunga kwaye uyaqhubeka, kwenzeka ukuba kubekho umphumo ongezantsi . Ukuba umntwana wakho ufunga xa ecaphukile, ixesha lokuphuma , lingaba yindlela efanelekileyo yokumfundisa indlela yokuzinqabisa ngaphambi kokuba athethe into eyenza ingxaki.
I-"swear jar" yindlela enye yokuqeqesha. Oku kufuna ukuba nabani na endlwini babeke inani elithile lemali-njengekota-engena kwintsimbi emva kwecala ngalinye. Oku kusebenza kuphela ukuba unabantwana abanemali sele benokuchaphazeleka ngokufuneka banike enye yayo.
Cinga ngenyameko malunga noko uyenzayo ngemali. Ungayisebenzisi imali yokufungisa imali ukuze uhlawule ikhefu lentsapho yakho. Ukuba abantwana bakho bayazi ukuba imali iya kwizinto ezonwabileyo, baya kuba baninzi ukufunga ukuba banokufaka isandla kwigalelo.
Nangona ukunikela ngemali kwintando kubonakala ngathi yingcamango efanelekileyo ekuqaleni, ingathumela umyalezo ongafanelekanga kubantwana. "Sibanceda abanye ngokufunga," kungekukho oko ufuna ukuba abantwana bathathe kulo msebenzi. Ngoko, unokufuna ukusebenzisa imali ukuya kwinto efana neendleko zezindlu.
Imivuzo Yokunikezela Ulwimi olucocekileyo
Enye inketho yoqeqesho kukunikela umvuzo wakho ngomntwana ngokusebenzisa ulwimi olufanelekileyo. Umntwana ofumana ingxaki esikolweni okanye ohlala efungela abantu xa esithukuthele angazuza kwinkqubo yokufumana umvuzo owamvuza ngokusebenzisa ulwimi olufanelekileyo.
Inkqubo yoqoqosho lwempawu , ingaba yindlela ephakamileyo yokukhuthaza abantwana ukuba basebenzise amagama anomusa nolwimi olufanelekileyo kulo lonke usuku.
Injongo yakho yexesha elide kufuneka ufundise umntwana wakho ukuba ulwimi lwakhe luthintele abanye. Yaye xa athembisa umntu okanye ngexesha elingafanelekanga, unokujamelana nemiphumo emibi.