Umntwana wakho kufuneka agweme izicupho zesikolo zonyaka ongcono.
Ukuba unomntwana ongena esikolweni esiphakathi kungekudala, uzakufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba utyelelo, iirejistari zeeklasi, kwaye uqala unyaka ngombono ontle. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba umntwana wakho ugweba iimbobe eziqhelekileyo ezikolweni eziphakathi. Ukuba umntwana wakho ulungele ukuguquka ukusuka kwisikolo esiphakathi ukuya kwisikolo esiphakathi, qi niqiniseke ukuba uthetha ngezinye zezithintelo azakujamelana nazo, nendlela yokuziphepha.
Ukuphepha kule mingeni kuya kunceda u-pakati wakho enze uninzi lwabafundi bezikolo eziphakathi.
Isihlwele
Kulula ukubanjelwa kwiingcinezelo zentlalo yesikolo esiphakathi, kodwa ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba umntwana uyazicingela kwaye ugcinwe ngabanye. Kukho uxinzelelo oluninzi kwisikolo esiphakathi ukuze uhambelane, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho abe nethemba kunye nokuzithemba ukuphepha iimpazamo ezimbi nje ngokuba "wonke umntu akwenzayo" okanye ukuyeka ukuthanda kwakhe okanye ukunqwenela ngenxa yeqela lakhe Ungenelela ekuncedeni umntu ngamnye womntu kwaye umncede ukuba azi ukuba kulungile ukujoyina kunye no-OK.
UkuLawula
Kungenzeka kube lula ukuba umntwana wakho ahlale phezulu kwizabelo zekhaya, iiprojekthi, ukufunda, kunye nemisebenzi yecandelo lexesha. Kodwa ukuvumela ukuba zidibanise yindlela elula yokufumana emva kwangoko ngokukhawuleza. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho wenza izakhono zokuphatha ixesha elifanelekileyo, kwaye uhlakulele inkqubo ukwenzela ukuba bobabini banokuhlala phezu kwezinto.
Cinga ukusebenzisa ikhalenda ye-intanethi okanye enye ikhalenda obonisa ukuba ufikeleleke kwindawo ethile. Ukuphuhlisa ishedyuli ukuze umntwana wakho afumane ixesha lokuba yonke into yenziwe.
Ukungasebenzi
Izikolo eziphakathi zinikeza abafundi ithuba lokujoyina amaqela, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiiprojekthi zenkonzo yoluntu, zama iqela lezemidlalo okanye umdlalo, okanye ujoyine iqela lezikole okanye i-chorus.
La mava aya kuphucula amava esikolweni sakho esiphakathi kwaye angakunceda nokukhuthaza intshiseko yesikolo ngokubanzi. Akukho sizathu sokuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukufumana into yokujoyina ngexesha leminyaka eliphakathi. Khuthaza phakathi kwakho ukuba ukhangele kwimisebenzi, iiklabhu, okanye amaqela kwaye uyamxhasa xa ekhetha ukuzibeka apho kwaye ajoyine. Uphakathi wakho unokulungele ukuzama into ehluke ngokupheleleyo, yindlela ecacileyo yokuba athole iitalente ezizifihliweyo kunye neemfuno.
Ukuthatha okulula kakhulu
Isikolo esiphakathi yisihlandlo sokuba abafundi bathathe okungakumbi kwaye bazitshintshe nje i-tad. Awufuni ukuba phakathi kwakho kuthathe lula phakathi kwesikolo esiphakathi. Kananjalo awufuni ukuba umntwana wakho azixhomekeke kwinqanaba lokuphazamiseka. Ngokufanelekileyo, umntwana wakho kufuneka afikelele encinane, ngokuthatha imingeni emitsha, okanye ngokuzama ukuphucula umgangatho wokufunda okanye iinjongo zesikolo. Eyona nto, i-kati yakho kufuneka ifunde okufutshane malunga naye esikolweni esiphakathi, ukwenzela ukuba xa engena esikolweni esiphakeme unesicwangciso, isicwangciso kunye neenjongo engqondweni.
Ukungabi nantoni
Ukungahambisani nokungahambi kuyinto evamile ngexesha leminyaka yesikolo esiphakathi. I-middle yakho inokufumana ezinye iimpawu ezingalunganga zontanga yakhe, kodwa zama ukugcina umntwana wakho engasoloko ebona phantsi.
Phakamisa ukuphakanyiswa kwesikolo esiphakathi, kunye nokukhula. Qinisekisa ukuba i-kati yakho ihlala isebenzayo kwaye inobomi ngaphandle komsebenzi wesikolo. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, zama ukuhlala ukhangelele nangona ucinga ukuba u-kati wakho akayikunyamekela. Usengumzekelo kumntwana wakho kwaye unempembelelo ebomini bakhe.