Kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala, ukuzimela akukona nje ukugqoka okanye ukuxubha amazinyo abo. Abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-7 banokuzonwabisa ngokuthatha izigqibo ezibalulekileyo ezibaluleke kubo, njengokukhetha imisebenzi yangaphandle okanye ukuthatha uxanduva oluninzi esikolweni nasekhaya. Baye kwixesha lokutshintshwa-abangekho nabantwana abangabanikazi bezilwanyana ezingabonakaliyo kodwa bengabikho esikolweni abaphakathi.
Nantsi ingqwalasela yezinto ezibalulekileyo ongalindela ukuzibona kwi-7 ubudala ubudala. Abanye abantwana banokufumana ezi zigaba zentuthuko ngokukhawuleza xa abanye bebetha kamva. Wonke umntwana uhlukile: akukho ndlela ifom ehambelana nawo onke abantwana.
Indlela yokuziphatha kunye nemihla ngemihla
Ukuzala umntwana oneminyaka engama-7 ubudala kuncinci malunga nokuvavanywa okufutshane kunye nokunye malunga nezikhokelo nezikhumbuzo. Abantwana abaneminyaka elixhenxe ubudala bakhula ngokwaneleyo kwaye banokukwazi ukunyamekela zabo iinkqubo zemihla ngemihla. Bangaphinda babonise umnqweno onyukayo wokwenza izigqibo ezininzi kunye nokuzikhethela bona, njengokukhetha iingubo zabo okanye ukugqiba ukuba yiziphi izinto abafuna ukubandakanyeka kuzo.
Iindlela eziqhubekayo ziyakunconywa ngeli nqanaba kuba uqikelelo lwenza abantwana baziva bekhuselekile. Amashadi angasebenza kakuhle ukukhuthaza abantwana ukuba balandele imizila yabo, benze imisebenzi yabo, kwaye babonise ukuziphatha okuhle.
Uphuhliso Lwenyama
Kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-7, ukuphuhliswa ngokwenyama kuya kuba ngaphezulu malunga nokucocwa kunokuba utshintsho olukhulu. Uneminyaka engama-7 ubudala iya kuqhubeka ikhula ibe yiinguqu ezinde kunye nezilwanyana zengqungquthela yazo zangaphambili ezizikhukhulayo njengokuba izakhono zabo zezithuthi zichanekile. Kule minyaka, abantwana baya kuphucula ukulungelelanisa nokulungelelanisa kwaye banokufunda ukwenza intsebenziswano eninzi kunye nezakhono zabo zezithuthi, ezifana nokuhamba ngeenxa yokudanisa. Xa besetyenziswe ngokomoya, zikhawuleza ezi zakhono ziphuhliswa.
Uphuhliso Lomoya
Kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala, ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kuya kubonakala njengoko bebe bhetele ekujongeni iinguqu ezingalindelekanga kunye nezulu. Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala abanokungazinzanga ukuzithiba, bathi, isikolo esiphakathi, kodwa baya kuba banokuqonda ngakumbi xa bethatha utshintsho kunye neentlungu kunabantwana abaselula. Bafunda nokuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye abantu.
Uphuhliso loCognitive
Abantwana abaneminyaka elixhenxe ubudala banomdla malunga nehlabathi elibangqongileyo. Baza kubuza imibuzo baze bafune iimpendulo malunga nezinto abahlangabezana nazo kunye nabantu abadibana nabo, kwaye baya kuziqhayisa ngokukwabelana ngezinto abazi. Abantwana kule minyaka baya kubonisa ingozi enkulu yokuzonwabisa kunye nokoma ulwazi kunye nokuthanda abacebisi kubantakwabo abancinci nabanye abantwana njengoko bebonisa ulwazi lwabo olutsha kunye nezakhono. Izakhono zabo zokufunda kunye nokufunda zikhula ngokukhawuleza, njengokuba banako ukuqonda amagama kunye nokwenza iingxaki zegama ezilula.
Phuhliso loLuntu
Ubuhlobo kunye nokunxibelelana kwezentlalo kubalulekile kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala, abaqhubeka bequlunqa izibambano kunye noontanga, ootitshala kunye neqela leqela. Basenokuqala ukuzama ukujongana nabo bobuhlobo. Baza kuqala ukunyamekela ngakumbi malunga neengcinga kunye neengcamango zabanye abantu. Ingcipheko yale nqanaba yemvelo yokuphuhliswa kwabantwana yenyuka ukunyanzeliswa koontanga. Abantwana abaneminyaka esixhenxe ubudala baya kuqhubeka bevelisa uvelwano kunye neengqiqo ezinzulu zokuziphatha kunye nokulingana.
> Imithombo:
> Amasebe okuLawula nokuVimbela (iCCDC). Umntwana ophakathi (6-8 ubudala). Ukuhlaziywa kukaJanuwari 3, 2017.
> Tracker Child Development Tracker: Unyaka Wakho oneminyaka eyisixhenxe ubudala. Abazali bePBS.