Ukunika abantwana bakho isibonelelo ngokuqhelekileyo kuthathwa njengengcamango elungileyo. Emva koko, akukaze kwenzeke ngokukhawuleza ukuba ufunde malunga noxanduva lwemali .
Ukunika abantwana bakho isibonelelo sinokubafundisa nezinye iingcinga ezibalulekileyo, kuquka:
- Ukunciphisa ukulondoloza ukunyanelisa izinto ezifuna ngokwenene
- Ukunceda nokunceda abanye
- Uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nokuba uncedo olunjani lokunika kunye neyiphi iimpazamo zokuphepha.
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Njengoko abanye abazali bazama ukufumana isibonelelo sabantwana babo, bazinike umlinganiselo ofanayo onawo.
Ingaba le nto ingileyo? Mhlawumbi akunjalo.
Cinga ukuba xa ususana, unokufumana imali eninzi kwimali yakho kunokuba abantwana bakho babe nako ukufumana umlinganiselo ofanayo ngoku. Ukuba unayo i-$ 1 / ngeveki, umzekelo, akuyi kufumana umntwana ode kakhulu kule mihla.
Ukuze ube ngqiqo, ungasebenzisa i-CPI okanye iNkcazo yeeNtengo zabathengi ukuqwalasela indlela amaxabiso ashintshile ngayo kwiminyaka kwaye ufumene isibonelelo somntwana wakho ngaloo ndlela.
Ezinye iindlela zokuQinisekisa Isibonelelo esingakanani sokunika
Ngoko ke kufuneka umvuzo wakho ufumane ntoni? Kuxhomekeke kunene oko ulindele ukuba umntwana wakho asebenzise.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba imali esele iyisebenzise imali, ngoko ke isibonelelo asiyi kudlalwa kakhulu. Kodwa ukuba ulindele ukuba umntwana akhokhe iindleko zakhe zemihla ngemihla , kufuneka kube phezulu.
Ezinye izikhokelo zezibonelelo eziqhelekileyo onokuziqwalasela xa usenza isigqibo sokuba ubuncinane bunike umntwana wakho kubandakanya ukumnika:
- Idoli enye ngonyaka wobudala ngeveki okanye nganye iveki. Ukuba oko kuninzi, kunika ngenyanga okanye ngekota. Ingcamango yokuba neyomfomula iya kwandiswa ngokukhawuleza njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula.
- Oko asebenzisa ngoku kwizinto ozilindele ukuba azisebenzise isibonelelo.
- Oko abahlobo bakhe esikolweni nakumakhelwane bafumana.
- Isixa esinokuhlukaniswa sibe sesithathu: esinye sesithathu sokonga, esinye sesithathu sokuchitha imali, kunye nesithathu kwisibonelelo sokunceda, nokuba ngumnikelo wecawa okanye intando ozithandayo.
Gwema ezi mpazamo zeMvume
Xa kunika umntwana wakho isibonelelo, kubalulekile ukuba ungenzi ezi mpazamo ezifanayo:
- Musa ukudibanisa isibonelelo somntwana wakho kunye nemisebenzi ethile ngenxa yokuba unokuyeka ukumenza imisebenzi yakhe kwaye athi akafuni imali kwakhona. Oku kuthetha, unako ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba athathe imali, ngaphaya kwesibonelelo sakhe, ngokwenza imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo.
- Musa ukugodla isibonelelo somntwana wakho njengesigwebo. Thatha amalungelo esikhundleni.
- Ungaqhubeki ukunika umntwana wakho imali yezinto ezongezelelweyo ngaphezu kokumnika isibonelelo. Ukwenza oku akufundisi umntwana wakho nantoni na ngokuphathelele uxanduva lwemali, yenye yezona zizathu ezibalulekileyo zokumnika isibonelelo kwindawo yokuqala.
Ezinye izibonelelo zengcebiso
Ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo ukugcina engqondweni zibandakanya:
- Nika umntwana wakho isibonelelo sakhe rhoqo ngeveki, nokuba okanye akayikukhumbula ukuba uyicele. Oku kunceda umntwana wakho afunde indlela yohlahlo lwabiwo-mali.
- Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba abeke eceleni inani elithile ngeveki ukwenzela ukulondolozwa kwexesha elifutshane kunye nexesha elide.
- Ukuba umntanakho uphuma ngaphandle kwemali phambi kwexesha elilandelayo lokuhlawula, musa ukumkhwelisa. Ingxenye yecandelo lesibonelelo kukuba ufunde indlela yokubeka phambili kwaye uhlahlo-mali kwaye ukumnika kwangaphambili akuyifuni ukuba afunde indlela yokusebenzisa kakuhle imali yakhe.
- Cinga ukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba abekele eceleni isabelo sakhe somvuzo.
> Umthombo:
> I-American Academy yePediatrics. Isibonelelo sabaselula. HealthyChildren.org. Ukuhlaziywa ngoNovemba 21, 2015.