Kuphi ukujika xa Ufunda Ukulindele ezininzi
Ufumene uliso lobomi bakho. Unamawele (okanye ngaphezulu). Ngokukhawuleza ukukhulelwa kwakho kugcwele ukuzonwabisa okuphindwe kabini, kwaye mhlawumbi i-dose ephindwe kabini yokuxhalaba.
Ingqondo yakho iyaphikisana nemibuzo . Oku kwenzeka ntoni ? Kuthekani ukuba ndikhulule? Ndiya kubaxelela njani ? Ngaba sifuna esinye isikhalazo , isihlalo seemoto , okanye imoto enkulu? Mhlawumbi nendlu enkulu?
Sinokufumana njani amaxesha amabini ekholeji? Ungakhathazeki, uya kufumana iimpendulo kuzo zonke le mibuzo kunye nokunye. Ubomi njengoko uyazi ukuba akusayi kuze kube yinto efanayo. Nantsi oku kufuneka ukwenze ngokulandelayo.
Xhuma
Thatha umphefumlo onzulu. Ixesha lokubonisana neengcali-abazali beeninzi ezininzi eziye zahlala kule nkalo efanayo kwaye zihlala zixelele ingxelo. Ukuthetha nezinye iindwendwe kuya kuqinisekisa uloyiko lwakho kwaye kukuqinisekisile ukuba ubomi ngokuphindaphindiweyo buya kumnandi. Nangona umzimba wakho ulungisa abantwana bakho ngokuzalwa, iingcebiso kwabanye oomama nooyise ziya kunceda ulungiselele intliziyo yakho kunye nekhaya lakho.
Xa uzalwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo , amathuba okuba uyazi umntu onamawele okanye amathathu. Yiba kunye nabo kwaye wabelane ngeendaba zakho ezinomdla. Bayavuya gqitha ukuba uye wabusiswa ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye ngaphezu koko uya kuvuyela ukunika iingcebiso. Kodwa ukuba awukwazi nawuphi na umbane, kukho ezinye iindlela zokudibanisa nabazali kunye nokuseka inethiwekhi yenkxaso:
- Iiklabhu zeentsapho eziphindaphindiweyo zifumaneka phantse kuyo yonke idolophu. I-ofisi yakho yesibhedlele okanye isibhedlele ingaba nolwazi loqhagamshelwano kwiqela leendawo. Okanye, qhagamshelana nenhlangano kazwelonke efana ne-Multiples of America (eyayisakuba yiNational National of Mothers of Twins Clubs okanye i-NOMOTC) e-United States okanye kwi-Multiple Births Canada (eyayibizwa ngokuba yi-POMBA).
- Qhagamshelana kwi-intanethi. Ukuba unqwenela ukunikezela kwinduduzo yebhodibhodi yakho, khangela indawo yoluntu kwi-intanethi kubazali beziphindaphindiweyo. Musa ukuthoba; gxuma ngqo kunye nayiphi na imibuzo okanye ukukhathazeka. Unesiqinisekiso sokufumana impendulo yokuxhasa.
Funda phezulu
Iincwadi ezininzi ezintle zifumaneka, ezininzi zibhalwa ngabazali beziphindaphinda. "Yonke into, ama-Triplets, kunye nokunye" nguPamela Fierro yindawo yokuqala. Fumana iingcebiso kunye nolwazi oluvela kumama odumileyo njengoJane Seymour okanye ummeli ubeletha uKaren Kerkhoff Gromada. Uza kufumana amabali abucala ukusuka kubazali kwi- Twins Magazine , efumaneka ngokukhululekileyo ngokubhalisa nge-digital. Okwaziyo malunga nemimangaliso yeeplani, xa ulungele ngakumbi uya kuba yimingeni oya kuhlangana nayo endleleni.
Fumana izimpendulo
Mhlawumbi unemibuzo eninzi malunga namawele. Ngaba ndingamncelisa amawele ? Ngaba ndiza kulala embhedeni ? Fumana iimpendulo kwezinye zezinto eziqhelekileyo ezibuzwa malunga ne-twin / ukukhulelwa okubanzi.
Ukukhulelwa okuninzi kunokuxhomekeka kwiinkcenkceshe ezinzulu zonyango kunokukhulelwa okukodwa, kwaye unomothekayo ukuba uzakufumana uluhlu oluphezulu . Nangona kukho isizathu sokulumkisa, akukho sizathu sokwesaba.
Njengoko uthetha nabazali kunye nabo abaninzi, babuze ngamava abo.
Unokuva amabali ambalwa athusayo omsebenzi wabantu bokuqala kunye nokwandiswa kwezibhedlele, kodwa uya kuqinisekiswa ukuba oomama abaninzi banikela iintsana ezizeleyo ezinempilo ngaphandle kweengxaki. Uninzi lokukhulelwa okubanzi luphelile; Kwimizekelo embi kakhulu enokuyilungiswa yimimangaliso yamachiza anamhlanje.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Uhambo lwakho luqala nje. Kuza kubakho ixesha lokwesaba, ukukhungatheka nokukhathala, kodwa novuyo olukhulu, ukumangaliswa kunye nothando. Siyakwamkela kwilizwe elimangalisayo leeninzi.