Ukuziphatha komntwana kunye neNtshukumo yemihla ngemihla kwi-13 ukuya kwe-18

Iinjongo zokuzama nokuzikhusela Abazali abanokulindela kubaselula

Kukho utshintsho olunzulu phakathi kwendlela abantwaba abaziphatha ngayo kwiminyaka eyi-13, xa kuthelekiswa no-18. Kodwa kunjalo, kwenzeke ngokuthe ngcembe ukuze ungaziqapheli ukuba umntwana wakho uguqula ilungelo elidala phambi kwamehlo akho.

Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ulindele ntoni kwintombazana yakho kunyaka ngamnye wobutsha. Nangona bonke abatsha bakhula kwaye bahlakulela kumazinga ahlukeneyo, kubalulekile ukwazi oko umntwana wakho ojongene naye ekuhlaleni umdala.

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Uneminyaka eli-13 ubudala

Abashumi elineminyaka elishumi elinesithathu ubudala banokugqiba isigaba esinye sobomi-beshiya umntwana emva - baze bangene omnye - abe ngumntwana. Ngoko lindela ukubona umntwana wakho efuna ukuzimela ngakumbi njengoko ezama ukukhula ngokubanzi ngokukhawuleza. Bangaphikisana nemithetho yokulala kunye kwaye kufuneka uvumele ukuba bazikhethele ukutya. Bangaba nobunzima obuninzi kunye neemfuno zokuphumula.

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Uneminyaka eyi-14 ubudala

Ezilishumi elinesine zihlala zibonisa ukuqala kwesikolo esiphakamileyo. Kwaye ininzi intsha, eyona nto iyonwabisayo nokoyikisayo. Kubalulekile ukunika inkolelo yakho eneminyaka eli-14 ubudala ukukhusela ukuba angaphambuki endleleni engafanelekanga. Kuya kuba nobuninzi bezinto ezenziwa emva kwesikolweni ukujongana nengqondo yakhe nomzimba wakhe. Ngeendlela ezintsha zesikolo, kuya kufuneka uncede umntwazana wakho abe nemikhwa emihle yokutya kwaye alondoloze imikhwa emihle yokulala.

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Uneminyaka eli-15 ubudala

Umntwana wakho oneminyaka eli-15 ubudala uya kufuna ukwenza izigqibo zakhe. Kwaye, ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho ezininzi iinqununu zokwenziwa kule minyaka. Yonke into ekuthandana nemisebenzi ihlala yinkxalabo kule nqanaba yobutsha.

Ilishumi elinesihlanu lixesha apho abanye abaselula baqala ukuchuma. Kwaye abo bahleka emva, ukungcola kwabo kubonakala ngokucacileyo. Kubalulekile ukusekela imithetho kunye nemiphumo yakho malunga nokuba unomthwalo kangakanani umthwalo wakho oneminyaka eyi-15 ubudala obonisa ukuba uyakwazi ukuyisebenzisa.

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Uneminyaka eli-16 ubudala

Okwangoku, uneminyaka emibini kuphela ukuba umntwana wakho abe ngumdala. Yilona thuba elikhethekileyo lokuvavanya ubunzima bekhono lakho elisenokuba ngumntwana ukuze uqinisekise ukuba uyilungiselele ihlabathi lenene.

Abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-16 ubudala bafumana imisebenzi yabo yokuqala , bafumana iilayisensi zabo zokuqhuba umqhubi, baqalise ukuzama okungakumbi ngeemfanelo ezinkulu. Kulixesha elikhulu ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba angaphumeleli kwithuba elithile, nje ukumbonisa ukuba unokubuya. Kodwa unikezele ngolo hlobo ulwalathiso njengoko esamkela uxanduva olutsha.

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Uneminyaka eli-17 ubudala

Xa uneminyaka eyi-17, inxaxheba yakho kufuneka ibe yikhokelo engakumbi, kunokuba ityala luzale. Ingane yakho isenokufuna iimiphumo ngamanye amaxesha, nangona kunjalo kubalulekile ukusebenzisa le nyaka ukuqinisekisa ukuba iimpazamo zakho zentsha ziba ngamathuba okufunda ngaphambi kokungena kweli lizwe. Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala ehleli kwimidlalo ehlelekile, lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba bacinge ukuba baya kwenza ntoni ngokuzonwabisa emva kokuba baphumelele kwimidlalo yesikolo.

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Uneminyaka eyi-18 ubudala

Intsha eneminyaka elishumi elinesibhozo ubudala iqala ixesha elonwabisayo ebomini babo, ixesha lokuninzi inkululeko kunye noxanduva oluninzi. Ukuba umntwana wakho usemva esikolweni esiphakeme, kubalulekile ukuqhubeka nokujonga imisebenzi yakhe.

Mkhumbuze ukuba xa nje ehlala endlwini yakho, kufuneka ulandele imithetho yakho, nokuba ngaba uneminyaka engama-18. Kodwa kuthemba ukuba, ngeli xesha, unako ukuphumla lula kangako ukwazi ukuba wenze konke onokukwazi ukumxhobisa ubomi emva kwesikolo esiphakeme.

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