Kulula ukulibala ukufundisa abantwaba imilinganiselo engundoqo.
Xa abaninzi abazali becinga ngokufundisa imilinganiselo, bacinga ukuxelela umntu ofunda esikolweni ukuba athi 'nceda' kwaye 'siyabonga.' Kodwa, imbeko ihamba ngaphezu kwamagama kwaye kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba ufundisa umntwana wakho imbeko kwiminyaka yeshumi elivisayo.
Ngelishwa, kwixesha ledijithali, abaninzi abaselula abakwazi ukufunda izakhono zentlalo ezisisiseko, njenge- etiquette yeselula .
Kwaye kukho imimiselo eninzi abaselula bayayikhohlwa nangona beyifunde ngaphambili.
Ngamanye amaxesha, intsha ihamba kwiinqanaba apho zifuna ukubonakala zipholile kunye nemikhwa ziphuma ngefestile. Ngamanye amaxesha, bafumana i-sloppy encane baze bayikhohlwe ukuba bahloniphe.
Kodwa ukukhulisa umntwana osemnene nononophelo osebenzisa imilinganiselo emihle kunokuba luncedo kakhulu kwikamva lakhe. Abasemgangathweni baya kuyala intlonelo eninzi, enokubanceda ekuhlaleni nasekufundeni.
Iimpawu zentlalo ezisisiseko kufuneka ziyazi
Ngamanye amaxesha, intsha idinga ukuhlaziywa kancinci kwisebe eliyisiseko. Kulula kubo ukuba bahlakulele imikhwa embi xa bexhonywa kunye noontanga okanye bafumana uvila oluncinane ngezikhathi ezithile.
Nazi ezinye iimpawu ezisisiseko kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho usebenzisa rhoqo:
- Yithi 'nceda' kwaye 'ndiyabonga.'
- Ukuxolisa xa wenza into engalunganga.
- Lindela ithuba lokuthetha ngentetho.
- Gcina izandla zakhe kuye kwaye ungathathi izinto kwizandla zabantu.
- Yithi 'ndixolele' xa efuna ukuphazamisa okanye xa ephosakela ngengozi kumntu.
- Cela imvume yokwenza izinto.
- Bhala ukubonga amanqaku kubantu abanika izipho.
- Gxininisa amehlo kwiintetho.
- Gubungula izandla xa ubingelela umntu omtsha.
- Sebenzisa iindlela ezifanelekileyo zeetafile xa udla.
- Yeka ukuthumela imiyalezo kunye nokusebenzisa imidiya yoluntu xa uthetha nabantu ubuso nobuso.
- Ungaphenduli iifowuni xa ephakathi kwengxoxo ebusana ubuso nobuso.
- Sebenzisa ulwimi olufanelekileyo kwaye uphendule imibuzo xa uceliwe.
- Ukunyamekela ucoceko olusisiseko, kuquka ukukhwehlela kumgca wakhe kunye nokumboza umlomo xa ehlambalaza.
Kwilizwe lethu ledijithali, kulula ukuba intsha ilahlekelwe yimilinganiselo eyimfuneko. Kodwa ukugcoba xa uMama ucela umbuzo okanye ukuthumela i-texting xa udla isidlo. Ngoko kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba athethe njani, asebenzisane, aze aphendule kwabanye ngendlela ehloniphekileyo nangomusa.
Indlela Yokufumana Iintsholongwane Zokusebenzisa Imilinganiselo Efanelekileyo
Ungenza umntwana wakho ukuba asebenzise imilinganiselo yabo ngendlela efanayo owenza ukuba benze nantoni na enye into:
- Cacisa malunga noko ukulindele.
- Thetha ngeenzuzo zokuba nemilinganiselo emihle.
- Nika iimpembelelo zakho zentsha xa kuyimfuneko.
Gwema ukunyanzela umntwana wakho okanye ukuhlazisa emphakathini xa wenza iphutha. Kunoko, zixubushe ngasese malunga nemikhwa yakhe xa ubona ingxaki.
Ngaphandle komgaqo ukungahloneli. Ukuba umntwazana wakho akanakuhlonela , thintela ngokukhawuleza.
Yenza kucacise ukuba awuyi kukunyamezela ukuphathwa ngokungenabubele. Susa amalungelo akho omntwana uze umvumele ukuba abuyiselwe xa eziphatha ngokuzimeleyo.
Nika ithuba lakho lomntwana ukuba usebenzise imilinganiselo emihle.
Ukubuyisela into kwisitoreji, ukucwangcisa ukuqeshwa kwakhe, okanye ukucela abasebenzi bokulinda enye isiselo kwivenkile yokudlela kuyimfuneko yokuba asebenzise izakhono zakhe.
Unokuthetha nabo ngabalinganiswa kwiTV okanye kwiimvumi kunye nendlela abadibana ngayo nabanye. Xoxa ngendlela ukuziphatha okuchaphazela ngayo ubomi bomntu.
Xa wakho umntwana usemngeni wokungena kwimeko entsha, umdlalo. Ngokomzekelo, ngaphambi kokuba athathe umhla we-prom, uthetha ngendlela yokubulisa abazali bakhe. Okanye ngaphambi kokuya kwi-aphoyintimenti ngokwayo, indima yokudlala indlela yokujonga kwideski.
Xa ubona umntanakho ubonisa imilinganiselo emihle, phawula. Yazisa xa wenza umsebenzi omhle kwaye uya kuba nomsebenzi omhle.
Impendulo yakho inokuba yinto ebalulekileyo kwikhono lakho lentsha lokufunda imilinganiselo emitsha nokuqinisa izakhono zakhe.
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