Abazali abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba kunokwenzeka yini ukuba ihlawulise inkunzi yentsha. Nangona akufanele uhlawulise irenti xa umntwana wakho ehamba esikolweni esiphakamileyo, kunokubakho amaxesha ekuba ngumnini-ndawo ufanelekile. Enyanisweni, ukuhlawula irenti yakho yentsha ingaba yinto enhle kakhulu ongayenza kwezinye iimeko.
Ixesha lokuhlawula irhente
Ngethuba nje umntwana wakho ehamba esikolweni ixesha elipheleleyo (nokuba liphakamileyo esikolweni okanye kwikholejini), ungahlawulisi irente.
Kodwa, makungamvumeli ukuba aqhubeke nokuhamba ngokukhululekile ukuba akaqhubeki kwimfundo yakhe.
Nazi imimiselo embalwa xa kufuneka ulindele ukuba umntwana wakho abe negalelo kwigumbi lakhe kunye nebhodi:
- Umntwana wakho oneminyaka eyi-16 usuka esikolweni esiphakeme kwaye uthi ufuna ukufumana umsebenzi.
- Umntwana wakho oneminyaka eyi-17 uyeka isikolo kwaye uthi ufuna ukufumana iGED yakhe kuphela.
- Umntwana oneminyaka eyi-18 ufuna ukuhlala ekhaya emva kokuba ephumelele esikolweni esiphakeme. Uceba ukufumana umsebenzi, kunokuya kwiikholeji.
- Umntu oneminyaka engama-19 ubudala uhla ekholejini emva kwe-semester enye.
Izingozi zokungahlawulisi Irente
Akukho nto ephosakeleyo ngokuvumela umntwana wakho omdala okanye umntu omdala ukuba ahlale ekhaya iminyaka embalwa eyongezelelweyo ngelixa efumana imali okanye azuze izakhono afuna ukuziphilisa. Kodwa ukumvumela ukuba aphile ngaphandle kwerenti kunokuyingozi kuye-kunye nolwalamano lwakho. Nazi iingozi ezimbalwa zokungahlawulisi irenti:
- Umntwana wakho uya kulahlwa kwizakhono zokufunda. Ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo kufundisa izakhono zobomi ezibalulekileyo , ukususela kwizakhono zohlahlo lwabiwo -mali ukuzinzisa. Ukuba ixesha lakho elide lokulibala lihlawule irente, kuza kuthatha ixesha elide ukuba lizuze ezo zakhono.
- Ukunyuka kwengqondo komntwana wakho kunokunyaniseka. Ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo kufuna abantu abatsha ukuba bajamelane noyiko lwabo, bahambe ngaphandle kwendawo yabo yokuthuthuzela, baze bajongane noxinzelelo lwabo. Ukuhlawula irenti kunokuba luncedo ekuncediseni umntwana wakho ukuba akhe amandla engqondo.
- Ukuhlawulisa irenti kungabhalelwa kwiholo lakho. Ukunceda umntwana wakho ngaphandle kwezimali kungalimaza kwiqanda lakho lesidleke. Abazali abaninzi banqabile ukuhlala phantsi okanye bayeke izinto ukuze baqhubeke bexhasa abantwana babo ngaphaya kweminyaka eyi-18.
- Unokubangela intsalela yengane yakho ngokuphila okuzimeleyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho akakhokhe irente, uya kukhululeka ukuba asebenzise imali yakhe nangona ufuna. Unokuthenga izinto ezibiza kakhulu ezingenakukwazi ukuzihlawulela xa kufuneka ahlawule irente.
- Ingane yakho inokukhula ngakumbi kuxhomekeke kuwe. Ingane yakho kufuneka ibe nokuzimela ngokuhamba kwexesha. Kodwa ngokude nje ehlala ekhaya lakho lokuqeshisa, unokukhula ngokunyanisekileyo kuwe ukuba uyamnyamekela. Unokungabaza ukuba unako ukuhlala wedwa.
Kufuneka njani ukunyusa
Uphando lwezentengiso zengingqi ukufumana ingcamango enhle malunga noko umntwana wakho angakhokhela khona kwigumbi elilodwa lokulala. Khangela kancane kancane kwigumbi lakhe kunye nebhodi ekhaya lakho.
Cinga ezinye iindleko ozenza ukuba umntwana wakho abe noxanduva lokuhlawula. Inqwelo yomshuwalense , imali yegesi, kunye nokuzonwabisa zimbalwa zeebhilikhwe azinokuqala ukuzifihla.
Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi ukuba uya kufaka iindleko xa ephuma. Izixhobo, ikhebula, kunye nokutya, umzekelo, inokuba yindleko kunokuba ikulindele.
Yintoni enokuyenza ngeMali
Abanye abazali baziva bengakhululekile ukuqokelela irenti kubantwana babo. Baziva benetyala ngokuyichitha okanye bayifake kwi-akhawunti yabo yasebhanki.
Ukuba awufuni ukuyisebenzisa imali, ungasetha irenti ngaphandle kweakhawunti ekhethekileyo.
Emva koko, ubeke imali kwi-akhawunti yomhlala-phantsi yakho okanye usetyenzise ukuba uncede ukuhlawula imfundo yakho yeveki xa ethatha isigqibo sokuthatha iiklasi emva komhla.
Kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo ukhululekile ukusebenzisa imali nangona ufuna. Yisebenzise ukuze uhlawule iindleko zakho, hamba eholide, okanye uyigcine umhlalaphantsi ukuba unqwenela.
Fundisa Imali Yokuqala
Kubalulekile ukuqala ukufundisa izifundo zakho ezibalulekileyo kwimali ngokukhawuleza. Ukunikezela imisebenzi kunye nokunika isibonelelo ngexesha elimncinci kuya kufundisa umntwana wakho isiseko semali.
Njengoko ekhula, yenza umntwana wakho abe nexanduva lokuhlawula ezinye iimpahla zakhe okanye ukuzizonwabisa.
Mfundise ngohlahlo lwabiwo-mali kwaye ncedise ekumisekeni imali yokugcina imali. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntwana wakho usemdala kangakanani, akukaze kube mva ukuba aqale ukumfundisa ukuba abe nolwazi lwezemali.
Xa umntwana wakho ehlawula irente, uya kufunda indlela yokuqalisa ukuphatha uxanduva lwakhe ngemali. Ukuba uthe wafika emva kwerenti, okanye unzima ukulawula imali yakhe, uphendule iimpazamo zakhe ekufundeni amathuba .
Ngokuziqhelanisa-kunye nokukhokelwa ngakumbi-uya kukwazi ukuphumelela ekuhlawuleleni indlela yakhe xa ehlala yedwa. Injongo yakho mayibe kukuqinisekisa ukuba uyakwazi ukuzimela xa ephuma endlwini .
Ukuseka iZikhokelo eziMpilo
Ukuba uya kuhlawulisa irenti yakho yentsha, qalisa izikhokelo eziza kunceda uhlale kunye ngokukhululekile. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba iqoqo lakho lokuqeshisa likhonza njengomsebenzi onokubaluleka kokubili wena kunye nentsha yakho.
Yenza imigaqo eya kuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ufunda kwithuba oliphayo. Nazi imimiselo embalwa yokulindela ongayifaka:
- Siza kuhlaziya i bhajethi yakho ndawonye. Tshela umntwana wakho kufuneka ahlale kunye nawe ngeveki ukuvavanya uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Mcedise ukuba aqonde ukuba kufuneka ukuba abekelwe bucala ukwenzela ukufihla iindleko zakhe.
- Ukuqeshiswa kwexesha elide kuya kubangela iintlawulo zenzalo. Ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba afike emva kwerenti inyanga zonke akayi kumenza nantoni na. Yibambelela ngokuphendula inzala-nokuba ngaba iidola ezimbalwa kuphela. Umnini-mhlaba wakhe olandelayo mhlawumbi akayi kuba ngumusa ngoko kubalulekile ukumfundisa ukuba akhokhe ngexesha.
- Kwiinyanga ezintandathu ndiya kukunceda ufumane indlu. Qinisekisa ukuba unomgomo wokugqibela engqondweni. Ukuba umntwana wakho ucinga ukuba unokuhlala nawe ngonaphakade, akanako ukugcina imali nayiphi na imali ukuze uphume.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, gcina imizila yokunxibelelana evulekile kunye nentsha yakho. Thetha ngeengxaki ezinxulumene nerenti njengoko ziphakanyiswayo ukuba zingabalimazi ulwalamano lwakho.
Khumbula, ukuba usenayo. Ngoko ke xa umntwana wakho ehlawula irente, akanalo ilungelo lokuphula imithetho yakho, aziphathe kakubi, okanye enze nantoni na into ayithandayo. Usenayo ikhaya lakho okanye uhlawule indlu yakho, ngoko ufike ukusetha imithetho.
Xa isetyenziswe ngokufanelekileyo, ukuqokelela irente ukusuka kwintsapho yakho inokuphucula ubuhlobo bakho kwaye ikulungele ukulungiselela umntwana wakho ngekamva.