Gwema ukukhutshwa ngexesha lokutshintshwa kwezi ngcebiso
Ukutshintshwa ekubeni ngumama osebenzayo ukuba ahlale kumama womama unokuza kutshatyalaliswa. Njengokuba kukho nayiphi na inguqu enkulu kukho izinto ezininzi ezinokumangalisa ukuba zenzeke ngoko silapha ukukunika iintloko. Nazi izinto ezimbalwa zokuqwalasela ngaphambi kokuba ushiye umsebenzi wakho ukuba ube ekhaya nabantwana bakho.
Isizathu Esicacileyo Kutheni
Ngaba ucinga ukuba ubomi bomama obuhlala ekhaya buya kuba njani?
Ngaba kukho into okhangele phambili ukwenza njengokukwazi ukuzisa abantwana kwipaki xa ufuna? Kunzima ukuqikelela ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ubomi buya kuba njani xa uhlala ekhaya. Kodwa ukuba unombono wenza ukuba utshintsho olukhulu lobomi lubonakale lunokwenzeka.
Ngokusekelwe kumbono wakho, qinisa izizathu zakho ezintathu ezibangela ukuba ushiya abasebenzi (sebenzisa indlela yokwenza umqondo ukuze ufumane imibono yakho ephepheni). Azikho zonke izizathu zakho ezifunekayo ukwabelwana nomqeshi wakho kodwa zilungile ukwazi entliziyweni yakho. Ngale ndlela, xa isigqibo sakho siphendulwa, ngabani na, uyazi ngaphakathi ngaphakathi ukuba kutheni uhamba.
Inokwenzeka ukuba ushiyekile kukunyamekela intsapho yakho kodwa kukho ezinye izizathu. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuthatha ixesha lokuqalisa umsebenzi omtsha okanye ushushu kwaye awukwazi ukunyamezela ukuhamba. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba isizathu sakho sinokuthi, qiniseka ukuba banamalungelo. Mhlawumbi ubekho kwilizwe elinenkampani iminyaka engaphezu kweminyaka elishumi ukuze uqiniseke ukuba wenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Ukushiya Umsebenzi kwiNqaku elilungileyo
Ukuba ushiya umsebenzi ngemigangatho emihle ushiya umnyango ovulekile ukubuyela. Nangona uyazi ukuba awufuni umsebenzi wakho omdala emva koko uya kufuna ukusebenzisa umqeshi wakho njengento yokubhekisela. Ngoko shiya umsebenzi kwinqaku elifanelekileyo ngokunika isaziso seveki ezimbini, ukugqiba yonke imisebenzi yakho eyabelwe, nokubonisa ububele kubasebenzi bakho.
Xa utsho kakuhle abantu osebenza nabo qi niqiniseke ukuba niyabonga ngokukhethekileyo kwabo bathetha kakhulu kuwe. Ngombulelo onyanisekileyo kwaye uyinyaniso kufuneka ube yeso sizathu sokuba bayingxenye yenkxaso yakho kwinkqubo kunye nendlela abancedisayo ngayo. Abantu baya kukhunjulwa indlela obenze baziva ngayo into oyithethayo.
Ukuhlaziya iBhajethi yakho ukubonakalisa ukutshintsha kwakho
Xa uziyeka ngokuzithandela awuyi kufumana iphakheji yokuyeka kodwa unokukwazi ukuqokelela ukungasebenzi. Oku kuxhomekeke kummandla wase-US ohlala kuyo kwaye ukuba "isizathu sakho esihle" sikwanele. Unokuzama ukufakela ukungena kwemisebenzi kwaye ucele icala lakho.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuqokelela ukungabikho kwemisebenzi kunye nomvuzo womlingane wakho unokuxhasa ukuphila kwakho kwangoku kuya kufuneka ulungelelanise uhlahlo lwabiwo lwakho. Kubaqalayo, uza kusindisa imali kwizinto zakho ezibini ezinkulu zebhajethi, ukutya kunye negesi. Musa ukuhamba okanye ukutya ngaphandle kwemini! Ukugcina okungakumbi kwizinto zokutya, unokuba nexesha lesicwangciso sokutya, khangela i-flyer yakho yefestile, kwaye uzame ukusika amakhuphoni.
Ngamaxesha onke amafutha enqabileyo yakho anokunqunyulwa. Nawuphi na umrhumo we-intanethi okanye we-imeyile yokubhalwa unokuthi unqunywe njengeenkonzo zokuhambisa ukutya, ukubhalisa kwevidiyo kwi-intanethi, okanye iimpahla zokuhambisa. Unokumelana nesibongo sokuthenga izinto kwi-intanethi kuba sijamelane nayo.
Kulula kakhulu ukucofa iqhosha elithi "uthenge"!
Igama lomdlalo luleko. Ngaphambi kokuba ngamnye uthenge isigqibo njengokuba ufuna into okanye ukuba ufuna . Ukunciphisa ibhajethi yakho, gcina ezintweni kuphela ozifunayo. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, funda ngokucacileyo malunga nento oyifunayo ngokwenene. Uya kumangaliswa oko ungayifumana ngaphandle!
Fumana "I-Me-Time" Yonke imihla Yodwa
Uphantse ube ngumntu ofuna kakhulu. Abantu abancinci baya kuhlala becela ukuba wenze izinto. Yingakho kufuneka ufumane ixesha, usuku ngalunye, ukwenza izinto ngokwakho. Xa iqabane lakho libuya ekhaya lithathe inja ukuhamba okanye uhambe wenze izinto ezizimele.
Okanye xa abantwana belala kwaye ngaphambi kokuba udibanise neqabane lakho, funda incwadi okanye ucamngce.
Awukwazi ukuyiqonda kodwa xa usebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya ufumana ixesha elininzi kuwe. Unokuhamba kwakho, ukuphuka kwasemini, kwaye ungalibali ikhefu lokungcebeleka elingenakuphazamiseka! Emva kokuba uhlale ekhaya, uya kuba nexesha elincinci, ubumfihlo kunye nexesha lodwa. Ngoko fumana umdlalo omnandi ngokukhawuleza kwaye wenze izicwangciso.
Fumana i-Hustle yangasese okanye Indlela yokuhlala kuMdlalo
Nangona kunjalo ude ufuna ukuhlala ekhaya yinto efanelekileyo yokufumana indlela yokugcina ubuchule bakho bubeka esitsha okanye bufumana ezintsha. Kungaba ngumngeni ukubuyela kumsebenzi xa uphume ngaphandle komdlalo kwithuba elithile. Kwakhona, oku kunokunceda uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali lwenu kunye nokufumana ixesha elithile eliqinisekisiwe "ixesha lam".
Ngaba ufuna ukuhlala ufanelekileyo kwaye usebenzise imfundo yakho ngelixa usesekhaya? Qala ishishini locwangciso okanye fumana umsebenzi wexeshana ukusuka kumsebenzi wekhaya lomsebenzi. Oku kunokukunceda uhlale unolwazi kwintsimi yakho uze uncede ukufihla ixesha lokuqalisa.
Ngaba ucinga malunga nokutshintsha imisebenzi? Ungathatha eli xesha ukubuyela esikolweni, ufumane uluntu kwimibutho emitsha, okanye ufumane abachaphazeli bamashishini amasha ukuba balandele. Kungcono ukufumana amava ngolwazi lwakho olutsha ngokuzithandela iinkonzo zakho kwintlangano! Oku kuya kunceda ukuzalisa ikhefu kwi-resume yakho kwaye ikunike amava okwenene.
Lungela Izinto ezingenakuya Njengaye
Xa uhlala ekhaya akukho mntu ulawule ukuba umhla wakho uya kuba njani. Ngokungafani nobomi bomsebenzi, apho uyazi ukuba uya kuvuka, uye emsebenzini, wenze imisebenzi yakho, uze ubuyele ekhaya, ukuhlala ekhaya ngezinye iinkhathi ngamanye amaxesha kungenakwenzeka.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kwenza izicwangciso zokwenza izinto, kodwa abantwana banendlela engcolileyo yokuguqula. I-mantra yakho entsha iya kuhamba nokuhamba. Olu tshintsho lwezantya lunga kuthatha ukusetyenziswa kancinci, kodwa zama ukungadikibala xa izinto zingahambi njengoko zicwangcisiweyo.
Kukho ninzi i-monotony yokuhlala ekhaya (ukuhlamba iimpahla, izitya, ukucoca, ukunyamekela abantwana, ukuphinda) kwaye usezinyaweni zakho kakhulu usuku lonke. Akukho mntu ujikeleze ukukunika ikhefu, ngoko-ke, tyala imali entsha yeebhondi ukuze unakekele iinyawo zakho!
Ukwandisa iNkqubo yakho yeNkxaso yeNtsha
Xa usesemsebenzini inkqubo yakho yokuxhasa iqukethe abasebenzi basebenzisana nabo, intsapho, kunye namanye amama asebenzayo anembuyiselo yakho. Xa uhlala ekhaya uzakufuna ukongeza abantu abatsha kwinkqubo yakho yokuncedisa ukuba ufumane ntoni.
Ngoku ukuba uhlala ekhaya uzakukhula inethiwekhi entsha. Uya kufuna ukufumana amanye amama kunye nabagadi abahlala ekhaya. Kuya kubakho amaxesha apho kufuneka uvule okanye uphonsa umntwana wakho kwindawo ethile ukuze uhambe ugqirha wodwa. Ngaphezulu ufuna ukuba abantwana bakho badlale nabanye abantwana. Kuthatha idolophana ukukhulisa intsapho kwaye le nkqubo yokuncedisa entsha izokukunceda utshintsho lula kwiindlela zakho zokuphila ezintsha.
Setha ulindelo kunye nomlingani wakho
Eli likhulu. Iqabane lakho lingazi ukuba lithini ukuhlala ekhaya kunye nezingane zonke imini. Yintoni elindele ukuba uza kuyenza yonke imihla? Thelekisa okulindelekileyo kuwe ukuze uqiniseke ukuba bafana.
Kutheni oku kubalulekile? Awuncedi inkxaso yentsapho ngokwezimali (okanye ubuncinci kungekhona njengoko wenza njengomama osebenza ngexesha elipheleleyo). Ngoko unokuqala ukuziva ngathi ufuna ukuxhasa intsapho ngokuchukumisa nayiphi na into elindelekileyo ukuba umlingane wakho usethe ngenxa yokuba nguye oxhasa wonke umntu. Oku kuyimpembelelo enkulu enokuthi inganyanzelwa.
Ukuba ukulindela akuhlanganyelwanga, ukusuka ngaphesheya kwetafile, uya kukhwankqiswa kwaye mhlawumbi uyacaphuka. Awufuni ukuba umyeni wakho acinge ukuba awugcini icala lakho kunye kwaye akafuni ukucinga ukuba uyasetyenziswa. Kodwa awufuni ukuphula umqolo wakho uzama ukugcina indlu ingenabala xa uhlala nezingane zakho. Ukuhlala ekhaya kunomsebenzi omude wokuba uya kufuneka uhlolisise zombini ukuba iziphumo zakho zombini zidibene.
Elinye icebiso lokugqibela, kuba lula kuwe. Olu tshintsho lunokuba lukhulu kuba kuba baninzi abantu ababandakanyekayo kule nguqulelo, kungekhona nje wena. Abantwana bakho, iqabane, abahlobo kunye nosapho baya kulungelelana kunye nawe. Nangona uvakalelwa kukuba uhlala wedwa kunye nezingane zakho ezingathethi ukuba kufuneka uhambe wedwa. Cela uncedo kwaye ube lula kuwe xa ungenayo impendulo. Le ndlela yokuphila ihamba ngekhalo lokufunda ukuze ube nethemba lokuba uya kuchitha ixesha elide.