Gcina intsapho ibanjwe kwaye ifune Uncedo Ngeentlungu Zakho
Xa umntu osondeleyo efa esemdala, abantu badla ngokududuza ubomi babo kwaye bazi ukuba ukufa kuyingxenye yendalo yokuphila. Oku akunjalo xa ubhekana nokufa ngokukhawuleza komntwana wakho.
Kubazali abaye balahlekelwa ngumntwana, akunakuqonda ukuba ubomi buphelelwe ngumntwana omncinci-ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle kwesixwayiso. Ukuba ujongene nalolu hlobo lokulahleka kwintsapho yakho, nasi ezinye iingcebiso zokukunceda wena kunye nosapho lwakho ukuhlangabezana nalo:
Namathela ndawonye
Gcinana ndawonye njengentsapho kwaye uxhomeke omnye komnye uncedo. Nangona wonk 'ubani osentsapho uya kufuna ukuba nexesha lakhe langasese, unokufumana induduzo omnye komnye.
Amalungu entsapho anokukunceda ukhumbule ukuba awuyodwa yintlungu yakho. Sebenzisa amandla osapho lwakho ukuba uncede ukulawula intlungu yakho.
Yamkela Uncedo
Vula ukuba uvule uncedo oluvela kumalungu osapho olongezelelweyo okanye kumelwane. Vumela ukuba bancede ngokutya, ubukele abanye abantwana xa kufuneka kwaye bekhona ukuphulaphula xa ufuna ukuthetha.
- Imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla isadingeka yenziwe ngoko, vumela abanye ukuba benze xa bazinikela.
- Funa uncedo xa ufuna. Abanye bangayazi into oyifunayo kodwa bazimisele ukukunceda ukuba ubuze.
Funa UluNcedo lwezakhono
Kubalulekile kubazali abaninzi ababuhlungu ukuba bafune uncedo lwezobuchule ukujongana nokulahlekelwa kwakho. Ungazami uze ufumane le nto ngokwakho. Nika intsapho yakho ithuba elihle lokufumana into enokubheka ukuba yintlupheko enzima kunayo yonke umntu anokujamelana nayo.
UDkt. Therese Rando, isazi sezengqondo kunye noMlawuli weKlinikhi yeSizwe soPhando kunye noPiliso lokulahleka eWarwick, eRhode Island, wabhala kwinqaku lakhe Ukujongana nokufa ngokukhawuleza ,
Ngomntu wokufa ngokukhawuleza kunye nokulindeleka kokufa, kukho intlungu. Nangona kunjalo, ngelixa intlungu ayikho enkulu ekufeni ngokukhawuleza, amandla okubambisana ayancipha ... Ukulahleka kukuphazamisa ukuba ukuphulukana phantse kunzima. "
Ingcali inokukunceda ufumane izakhono zokubhekana nokusebenza okuza kukunceda kwiintsuku, iiveki kunye neenyanga ezizayo.
Iingcebiso "Emva kokuba iCasseroles iyenziwe"
Ndathatha Ukufa nokuDying konyaka wam unyaka ophantsi kwikholeji kwaye uprofesa wachaza amaxesha amabini ahlukeneyo emva kokulahleka ukuchaza iinkalo ezahlukeneyo kwinkqubo yokulila. Babenjalo:
- "Ngokukhawuleza Ukulandela Ukufa" ukuchaza ixesha apho usapho olongezelelweyo, abahlobo kunye noluntu lubuthana. Xa kufuneka ujongane nemingcwabo kunye neenkonzo zesikhumbuzo kwaye kukho imisebenzi eninzi.
"Emva kokuba iCasseroles Yenzelwe" ichaza ixesha apho konke ukutya okunikezelwa kwintsapho nabamelwane kuphelile. Wonke umntu ubuyela ebomini njengoko beyazi kwaye intsapho elililayo iqala ukujamelana nobomi ngaphandle kokulahlekileyo.
Unokuthi abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba ukujongana nokulahlekelwa ngumntwana ngokukhawuleza emva kokufa kuyona yeyona ntlungu ebangela ukuba umntu afune ukujamelana naye. Bahluleka ukuqaphela ukuba intsapho kufuneka iqhubeke ikwazi ukujamelana nesibetho sabo emva kokuba i-casseroles yenziwe.
Intsapho ejongene nayo yonke imihla yobomi babo ngaphandle komntwana abalahlekileyo ijongana nenye yexesha elona lilingo lijongene nazo.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso endiyathembayo ziya kunceda ukuba le yimeko yakho:
Gcina imizila yoqhagamshelwano evulekile . Ukuthetha omnye nomnye malunga nokulahlekelwa kwakho, othandekayo oye wafa kunye noko uvakalelwa uya kunceda abantu bentsapho yabo ngentlungu. Kuya kunceda unxulumano lweentsapho zakho luhlale lusomelele okanye lukhule luqina.
Ukwazi ukuba intsapho yabo isomelele kwaye iyomelele iza kunceda abanye abantwana bakho baphumelele ngokuphumelela kwinkqubo yabo yokulila, ngokunjalo.
Qhubeka Ubona Umqeqeshi
Nangona ukufumana uncedo ekukuboneni ngokutshatyalaliswa kokuqala kokulahlekelwa kwakho kubaluleke kakhulu, kuyafuneka ukuba uqhubeke.
Uya kufuna uncedo nangayiphi na imiba engalindelekanga leyo ilahleko.
Iingxaki zitshala njengebakala lomntakwabo, ukuxinezeleka kwentsha okanye ilungu lentsapho alifuni ukuhlala ngaphandle komntu othandekayo owafa. Kulula kakhulu ukufumana uncedo kwezi meko xa sele ubona uchwepheshe owaziyo intsapho yakho.
Yenza Wonke umntu abuyele kwiindlela zokuhamba
Oku kuquka iinkqubo zemihla ngemihla yokulungiselela isikolo kunye nomsebenzi, ukutya kunye kunye nobusuku bentsapho.Kubandakanya ukufaka kwakhona izinto zokuzonwabisa kunye neminqweno. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho usemgca webhola lebhola, kufuneka abuyele ekusebenzeni.
Ukuba isimiso sifanele sitshintshwe ngenxa yokuba umthandwa wakho akasasekhoyo, qaphela yonke intsapho ukuba utshintsho luyadingeka kwaye luyitshintshe.
Ukubonelela ngeeMveliso zoKwakha
Yenza wonke umntu ugqirha okanye umgca wesikhokhelo kwaye ucebise ukuba bayisebenzise xa ubona beziva behla. Ngokuqhelekileyo kunceda ukuvakalisa intlungu ngenxa yegama elibhalwayo okanye ngokudweba.
Xa umntu onomvandalo enesiphumo esinjalo, kunokubanceda baqonde oko bavakalelwa ngako kwaye bancede bazive bephucula ngexesha.
Hlala usapho
Yiba yintsapho kwaye ukhumbule umntwana wakho olahlekileyo useyingxenye yalo. Wonke umntu kwintsapho yakho uza kubaphatha ezintliziyweni zabo bonke ubomi babo. Yenza inkokheli yentsapho eya kukunceda ukhumbule izinto ezintle ozikhumbulayo.