Kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana wakho ngemiba efana nendlala nokungenamakhaya
Ubumpofu luyinkimbinkimbi eyinkimbinkimbi enokuthi ivela kwizizathu ezahlukeneyo ezinzima kakhulu kubantwana abancinci ukuba baqonde. Kodwa nangona imiba ephathelele indlala nokungenamakhaya iyanzima, kubalulekile ukuthetha nabantwana malunga nobuhlwempu.
Ukuba ungumzali ongeke akhathazeke ngokubeka ukutya etafileni okanye kwindawo efudumeleyo yokulala, ukufaka iingalo zakho malunga nale ngxoxo kunokuba nzima.
Kodwa ngaphandle kwengcaciso ecacileyo, abantwana abanakho ukuqonda ukuba kutheni abanye abantwana befumana isidlo sakusihlwa esikolweni okanye nokuba kutheni umntu ongenakhaya acela imali. Kwaye banokwenza iingcamango ezingalunganga ngabantu abaphila ngaphantsi komgca wobuhlwempu ..
Kutheni Ufanele Uthethelele Ngobuhlwempu
Ngexesha elithile, umntwana wakho uya kuqaphela ukuba abanye abantu abanalo imali eninzi njengabanye, kwaye mhlawumbi unemibuzo ethile malunga nayo. Kulinganiselwa ukuba omnye kwabantwana abahlanu eUnited States uhlala ehlwempu. Uninzi lwabo bantwana banabasebenzi abasebenzayo, kodwa umvuzo ophantsi kunye nomsebenzi ongenakunqamka uyawashiya behlala phantsi kwe-poverty line. Kukho ithuba elithile lokufundela abantwana bakho eklasini nemiba enokungakhuselekanga kokutya nokungenamakhaya.
Unokulingwa ukuba uthi kumntwanakho, "Yidla i-broccoli yakho. Kukho abantwana abalambileyo kwezinye iindawo zehlabathi abanokuthanda ukutya. "Kodwa ukuthetha ngabantu abahlala kwelinye ilizwekazi kungasuswa kude kwilizwe lomntwana ukuba liqonde.
Kukho abantu abaninzi abanomdaka obuthathaka obusondeleyo kwikhaya. Ukuthetha ngeemeko zobomi bokwenene kuluntu lwakho kungamnceda ukuba aqonde kakuhle ukuba yintoni intlupheko.
Abantwana abahluphekileyo banokufumana iimiphumo ezingapheliyo. Ubumpofu buchaphazela iintsapho ngeendlela ezilandelayo:
- Iingxaki zemfundo - Abantwana abahluphekileyo banenkathazo yokufunda kwaye abanako ukuqhubela phambili imfundo yabo.
- Iingxaki zokuziphatha - Intlupheko ichaphazela ukuphuhliswa kwentlalo kunye nomoya. Abantwana abakhulayo kwintlupheko banakho ukubonisa iingxaki zokuziphatha .
- Iingxaki zempilo yomzimba - Intlupheko yabantwana ixhomekeke kumazinga aphezulu e-asthma, ukukhuluphala, iingxaki zokuphuhlisa ulwimi , kunye nobungozi obuninzi bokulimala.
- Iingxaki zempilo yengqondo - Uxinzelelo olunobungozi obunxulumene nentlupheko luyandisa ingozi yeengxaki ezininzi zeengqondo.
- Ukuphuculwa kwenhlalakahle jikelele - Izifundo zibonisa ubumpofu bubungozi obukhulu kubomi bentlalo kwaye kunokuba nemiphumo yempilo yonke.
Ukuqhuba iingxoxo malunga nobuhlwempu kungaba ithuba lokufundisa umntwana kunye nexesha lokukhuthaza inceba kwabanye. Xa umntwana wakho eqonda ngakumbi malunga nokuba kutheni abanye abantu behlala ngokungafaniyo, unokuba novelwano ngakumbi kubantu abanobuhlwempu.
Khangela Amathuba okujongana neSifundo
Esikhundleni sokukhupha umxholo wentlupheko ngaphandle kwebala elimnyama, khangela amathuba okuvelisa ngokusemgangathweni. Emva koko, unokuthetha ngokuthe ngqo.
Xa kukho imoto yokubonga i-Thanksgiving esikolweni, khuluma nomntwanakho malunga nantoni na ukuba unikele ngempahla enomthi. Okanye, xa kukho isipho ukuqhuba ngeeholide, cacisa ukuba ezinye iintsapho zingenayo imali eyaneleyo yokuthenga izipho.
Yilungiselele Imibuzo Embi
Ngexesha elithile, umntwana wakho uya kuqaphela ukuba oontanga bakhe okanye abantu basekuhlaleni bahlala beswele. Yilungiselele imibuzo efana nale:
- Kutheni u-Anna enxiba ingubo efanayo esikolweni imihla ngemihla?
- Kufika njani loo ntokazi ecela abantu imali?
- Kutheni kungekho loo ndoda enxiba izihlangu?
- Kutheni uZack athi ufumana isidlo sakusihlwa esikolweni?
Xa umntwana wakho ebuza imibuzo, luphawu lokuba ulungele ulwazi oluninzi. Kubalulekile ukumnika iimpendulo ezifanelekileyo.
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Abantwana abaziqondi imali okanye ezoqoqosho. Ushishino malunga nokulamba komntwana kunokukhuthaza imibuzo engenamacala afana neyo, "Kutheni abazali babo bengena kwivenkile kwaye bathenge ukutya okunye?"
Phakathi kweminyaka emi-5 no-8, abantwana bakulungele ukufunda iinkcazo ezilula malunga nobuhlwempu. Zama ukuthetha into enje, "Abanye abantu abakwazi ukufumana imali eyaneleyo yokuthenga ukutya okanye ikhaya ukuba bahlale kulo."
Kule minyaka awudingi ukunika iingcaciso ezininzi malunga nezinto ezinokuthintela umntu ukuba athole umvuzo onokuphila. Ingxoxo malunga nokukhubazeka, ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi, kunye noqoqosho oluhlwempuzekileyo lungalinda kude kube seminyaka okanye kwiminyaka yeshumi.
Thetha naTweens kunye nentsha malunga neengxaki eziphantsi
AmaTweens kunye nentsha banakho ukuqala ukuqonda ezinye zezizathu zokuba kutheni ubuhlwempu. Thetha ngezinto ezibangela ubuthathaka, njengale:
- Umngcipheko wembuyekezo phakathi kwabantu abazizityebi nabahluphekileyo
- Ukungabikho kwemisebenzi ehlawula umvuzo owaneleyo
- Ukungabi nemfundo
- Iindleko eziphezulu zezempilo kunye nokunakekelwa kwabantwana
- Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi nokugula kwengqondo
- Ukukhubazeka
- Uqhawulo
- Intlupheko yelizwe
Ukongeza kokuthetha ngezizathu zobumpofu, xubusha imiphumo. Ukubonelela ngengcaciso elula yeenkonzo zorhulumente kunye nezibonelelo ezenziwe ukuba zibancede abantu, kodwa zixubushe nokuba kunzima kangakanani ukuba abantu baphume kwintlupheko.
Ukunyamekela Imiyalezo oyithumelayo
Izinto ozenzayo, kunye nezinto ongazizenziyo, ziya kuthumela imiyalezo yengane yakho malunga nabantu abahlala kwintlupheko. Umzekelo, ukuba uhamba ngaphaya kwe-panhandler ngaphandle kokubambisana, umntwana wakho unokucinga ukuba abantu bangenamakhaya bangaphantsi kwakho, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba uchaze ukuba kutheni ungabanikeli abantu abangahambiyo kwisitalato.
Yithi into enje, "Andiyi kunika abantu imali ngenxa yokuba andiqinisekanga ukuba baya kuyisebenzisa njani. Kodwa ndingabathengela ukutya ngamanye amaxesha. "Okanye, cacisa ukuba unikela ngemali kwiinkqubo ezinceda abantu abangenamakhaya abanokudla ukutya kunye nendawo yokuhlala yokuhlala kuyo.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba ugweme ukuthumela umyalezo obonisa ukuba umsebenzi onzima unqanda intlupheko. Ukuba uthetha izinto ezinje, "Ndisebenza nzima ukuze sikwazi ukuhlala kwindlu enhle," umntwana wakho unokugqiba abantu abahluphekileyo kufuneka babe novila.
Yenza Umntwana Wakho Ubandakanyeke ekuncedeni
Ukunikezela ngemali kwi-charity akunakufundisa umntwana wakho ngokubanceda abanye. Kodwa, ukubandakanya isandla sakhe sokuqala ekuncedeni abantu abasweleyo kunokumnceda aqonde kakuhle indlela anokujongana ngayo nendlala.
Yenza umntwana wakho abandakanyeke ekunikezeni ezinye zeemidlalo zakhe okanye iimpahla ezingasetshenziswanga kwabanye. Mcele ukuba akhethe izinto eziza kunika kunye nokuthetha ngendlela onokukunceda ngayo abanye abantwana abazali babo abangenakukwazi ukuthenga amathoyizi okanye iimpahla. Yiza nomntwana wakho kwisitoreji ukuthenga ukutya kokutya kokutya. Mcele ukuba akhethe imveliso enomthi okanye eyomileyo onokuyinika iintsapho ezingenakho ukufumana ukutya.
Xa umntwana wakho ebona ukuba unokuthatha amanyathelo okwenza umehluko, unokuziva ephefumlelweyo ukwenza izenzo ezininzi zenceba kwixesha elizayo.
Xoxa ngoLondolozo olunayo
Ukuthetha ngentlupheko kunokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho abe nexhala. Unokukhathazeka ukuba uya kuphelelwa ukutya okanye ukuba ungabi nakhaya ngenye imini. Ngoko kubalulekile ukuthetha malunga naziphi na izikhuselo onokuzenzayo endaweni.
Ukuba unomhlobo okanye isihlobo onokukunceda ukuba ungeyilungu lakho, tshela into efana nale nto, "Sinokuhlala sihlala noTogo xa sasingenalo ikhaya lethu." Okanye uchaze ukuba kukho iinkqubo zikaRhulumente ezikhoyo unceda abantu abanako ukufumana ukutya.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, njengomntu omdala, uyazi ukuba nakwiindawo zokukhusela ezingcono. Akunakuze ufanele uhlangabezane nekhefu elishiya intsapho yakho enesidingo esikhulu, kodwa sonke sijamelene naloo nto.
Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ngayo abantwana bakho ibaqinisekisa ukuba uhlala ukhona ukuba uyabathanda kwaye uyabakhusela kwaye, kungakhathaliseki ukuba iimeko zakho zithatha phi, uya kuhlala uhlala. Ukwabelana nantoni ngaphaya kwelo, ngokukodwa nabantwana abancinci, banokuba baninzi kakhulu ukuba baphathe.
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