Umntwana osemncinci uchitha malunga neeyure ezisi-9 ngemini esebenzisa imidiya ngokuzonwabisa kwabo, ngokwemibiko ye-Common Sense Media. Ngethusa, abo bafana abatsha bachitha imali engaphantsi kwemizuzu eyi-10 ngosuku bethetha nabazali babo.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ngexesha leeyure ezisi-9 zokusetyenziswa kwamaphephancwadi wakho umntwana usebhankelwe kunye namawaka emilayezo malunga nomzimba 'ococekileyo'.
Ezi zibonakaliso ezingabonakaliyo nezingenakufumaneka ezingabonakaliyo zingonakalisa umonakalo wakho womzimba xa ungayilumkanga.
Imiyalezo yeMidiya Intsha ifumana malunga nobukhulu
Iimifanekiso, iintengiso, amaphephancwadi, kunye neewebhusayithi zibonisa abantu abalungileyo njengento efanelekileyo. Imizekelo engaphantsi kwemizimba kunye neemifanekiso ezifingqiweyo zokuphelela zikhona yonke indawo. Iimveliso zokutya kunye nezinto zokuhle zithumela umyalezo oba mncinci kunye nokukhangayo kukubalulekileyo kwintlalo kunye nempumelelo.
Isiphumo singabonwa kubantwana beselula. Uphando lubonisa abantwana njengabancinane njengama-3 bakhetha iziqwenga zemidlalo ezibonisa abantu abancinci ngaphezu kwalabo abameleyo. Kwaye ngo-10 ubudala, ama-80% amantombazana aseMerika sele edla.
I-Media Media kunye nokufuna ukufezeka
Akusiyo nje imidiya yemveli eyenza intsha engaphantsi kwengcinezelo ukuba ibe yincinci kwaye ihle. I-media media ingaba nempembelelo enamandla kunomfanekiso wakho womntwana.
Abaninzi abaselula banqwenela ukuqinisekiswa kwiontanga kunye neendaba zoononophelo zentlalo yindlela esheshayo yokuba bafumane impendulo.
Ingaba i-selfie ye-Instagram isithuba sokutshatyalaliswa kwentsha, okanye ibukela imifanekiso yabanye eyaziqhayisa nge-"gap gap" yabo kwiTumblr , iimpembelelo zentlalo zinokuba namandla kakhulu.
Abanye abatsha bachitha iiyure bazama ukuthatha i-selfie kwindawo efanelekileyo. Abanye bajonga ukubonakala kwabo ngokusekelwe kwindlela abaninzi abathanda ngayo iifayile zabo zamuva ze-Facebook ezifumanayo.
Ingxelo esondeleyo, iontanga zontanga ziyakumlutha kulabo abanokuzithemba kwabo kuxhomekeke kwimibandela yeendaba zentlalo.
Ngelishwa, intsha inokufumana ukugxekwa ngokukhawuleza kunye neengxelo ezingenangqondo kumajelo asekuhlaleni. Ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyberbullying kungaba yingozi kumfanekiso womzimba weselula.
Iziphumo zoMzimba oMbi
Ingcinezelo yokuba yincinci ibe nemiphumo emibi. Uphando ludibanise ukuvezwa kwemifanekiso yamagqabi angaphantsi kwamandla omzimba aphantsi kwamandla omzimba kunye nokunciphisa ukuzithemba. Kuphando oluqhutywe ngu-Girlguiding, isiqingatha samantombazana aneminyaka eyi-16 ukuya kweyesi-21 besithi baya kuhlinzwa ukuphucula imizimba yabo.
Umzimba omzimba ongalunganga unokukhokelela kwimiphumo embi kakhulu. Nangona abanye abatsha bakhula ukuphazamiseka kokutya, abanye bafumana uxinzelelo. Uphononongo luka-2009 lwafumanisa ukuba intombazana eyayingenakuvuyela ukubonakala kwayo yayisengozini enkulu yokuzibulala.
Abafana kunye neZitho zoMzimba
Akunjalo nje amantombazana aphantsi kobugcisa bokungabonakali. Abafana bahlaselwa ngemifanekiso ye-pack pack ayisithupha kunye nezihlunu ezinkulu. Ama-superheroes kunye namanani amanyathelo abonisa ezo zihlobo zomzimba ezingenangqiqo kwaye aqale ukuthumela abafana imilayezo engafanelekanga.
Ukuphishekela umzimba ophelileyo kuthatha inkohlakalo kumakhwenkwe.
Amakhwenkwe amantombazana angalwela umzimba ophelileyo ngokutya okanye ngokuzilolonga. Basenokuhlakulela iingxaki zokutya okanye iingxaki zempilo yengqondo ezivela kwisimo somzimba esisweleyo.
Indlela yokulwa neMidiya yeMidiya yeeMiphumo emibi
Akunakwenzeka ukuthintela umntwana wakho ukuba angabikho bombarded imifanekiso yeendaba ezonakalisayo ngexesha lonke. I-Smartphone kunye nezixhobo zobugcisa ezongeziweyo zithetha ukuba umntwana wakho uza kubona i-edited version of beauty everywhere. Kodwa unokufundisa umntwaba wakho ukuba abe nolwazi lokufunda.
- Sebenzisa imizekelo yangempela . Jonga i-TV kunye kunye nokuyeka imiboniso kunye neentengiso ukuthetha ngomyalezo othunyelwayo. Jonga amaphephancwadi ndawonye kwaye nixoxe ngemifanekiso engenangqiqo.
- Thetha ngemigudu yokuthengisa . Xoxa ngabathengisi bamacandelo ukuthengisa iimveliso. Ncedisa umntwana wakho ophantsi kwimiyalezo malunga nendlela umkhiqizo oya kumnceda ngayo.
- Gcina iingxoxo malunga neempawu zomzimba ezingekho emzimbeni . Xoxa ngeengxaki ezinobungqina obuphantsi kweemodeli kunye neenkwenkwezi zeenkwenkwezi ezingaphezulu. Xoxa ngemilinganiselo eyingozi kwaye engafanelekanga abantu abaninzi abayifumanayo ukufumana le mizimba yomzimba, nangona ixabiso eliyithatha kwimpilo yabo.
Yenza ezi zihloko zibe yingxenye yeengxoxo eziqhubekayo endlwini yakho. Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahlakulele umfanekiso omzimba ophilileyo kwaye uya kunciphisa impembelelo echaphazelayo imidiya kunye nemidiya yoluntu.
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