Kukho iinkolelo ezininzi ezithandwayo ezazisasazwa kubazali abatsha ngamalungu entsapho, abahlobo kunye namaxesha athile kunye nezingane zabo. Zininzi zale ngqungquthela nje 'zamabali endalakazi,' kwaye ngelixa zingenakonakalisa, zingadideka kumzali omtsha ozama ukufunda ukwenza okulungileyo kubantwana babo.
Iingoma 1: Uhlaza okanye i-Yellow Runny Nose ibonisa ukuba umntwana wakho unesifo seSinus kunye neemfuno ze-Antibiotics
Oku aqhelekanga.
Intsholongwane ye-sinus ichazwa ngokuqhelekileyo njengokuba nephunga eliluhlaza okanye eliphuzi eliphuzi elihlala ixesha elingaphezulu kweentsuku ezili-10 ukuya kwezi-14 ngaphandle kokuphucula. Ezinye izifo ezibangelwa yi-virus ziyakubangela ukuba impumlo eluhlaza, kodwa ngokungafani nokusuleleka kwe-sinus, ezi zifo aziyi kuphendula kwi-antibiotic.
Uninzi lwabazali baqonda umahluko phakathi kosuleleko olubangelwa yi-ntsholongwane kunye nosulelo olubangelwa yi-bhakteria, kwaye kuphela ukusuleleka kubaktheriya ukuphendula kwii-antibiotics. Kodwa abaninzi bakholelwa inkolelo yokuba impumlo eluhlaza eluhlaza ithetha intsholongwane ye-sinus, enokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho athathe ii-antibiotics ngokungadingekile. Ngoko khumbula ukuba ngelixa impumlo eluhlaza okanye ephuzi impumpoza ithetha ukuba umntwana wakho unesifo ngaphandle kokuba sele ihlala ixesha elingaphezulu kweentsuku ezili-10 ukuya kwezi-14, mhlawumbi mhlawumbi nje kubanda kakhulu okuya kuba ngcono. Kwaye kungenxa yokuba umntwana wakho uya kulungela ngokwakhe ukuba amayeza angasetyenziswa kwiintsholongwane zentsholongwane, kunokuba kungenxa yokuba asebenze kulezi zifo zentsholongwane.
Inkolelo-mfundiso yesi-2: Imfihlakalo iyingozi kuwe
Umkhuhlane ngokwawo awunobungozi okanye uyingozi kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba ubangele ubungozi bobuchopho okanye ezinye iingxaki. Nokuba i-seizures (i-seizure ebangelwa ngumkhuhlane) ayisoloko iyingozi. Umkhuhlane awusisifo. Esikhundleni salo, luphawu oluya kuhamba kunye nezifo ezininzi zobuntwaneni, ngakumbi izifo.
Ngokubanzi, kufuneka ubizele unobantwana bakho xa umntwana wakho uneminyaka engaphantsi kweenyanga ezintathu unesibindi sokushisa esingaphezu kwe-100.4 F, ukuba usana oluneminyaka engama-3 ukuya kweyinyanga engama-6 lunokushisa olungaphezu kwe-101 F, okanye ukuba usana olungaphezulu kweenyanga ezili-6 lunokushisa ngentla 103 F.
Kwabaninzi abantwana abadala, ayikho inombolo eninzi, kodwa kunokuba umntanakho usebenza njani. Ukuba umntwana wakho omdala uqaphele, usebenza kwaye uyadlala, akahlali kunzima ukuphefumla, kwaye uyadla kwaye alala kakuhle, okanye ukuba ukushisa kuhla ngokukhawuleza kunye nokunyanga kwekhaya (kwaye uvakalelwa kakuhle), akufuneki ukuba kubiza ugqirha wakho ngokukhawuleza.
Yingakho i-adage endala "yokutya ebandayo, i-fever fever" ayisebenzi. Ukuba umntwana wakho unomkhuhlane kwaye ulambile, makadle.
Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni ukuba umkhuhlane awusona kuphela uphawu lwesifo esibi. Nangona abanye abantwana behle ngobushushu be-104 F, abanye bangagula ngokufa kunye neqondo lokushisa lika-101 F okanye nangaphandle komkhuhlane okanye ubushushu obuphantsi. Ingakhathaliseki ukuba umntwana wakho unomkhuhlane, ukuba unomsindo kakhulu, udidekile, u-lethargic (akavuki lula), unokuphefumula ubunzima, unesifo esiphuthumayo kunye nesibuthakathaka, wenqaba ukutya okanye ukusela, usabonakalisa nangemva kokuba umkhuhlane uphuhliswe, unesifo esibi sekhanda okanye esinye isikhalazo (ukutshisa ukucoca, ukuba uhlambulukile, njl.), okanye ukuba unomkhuhlane kwaye uqhubeka kwiiyure ezingama-24 ukuya kuma-48, ngoko kufuneka ubize unobantwana bakho okanye ufune unyango ngokukhawuleza.
Inkolelo-mfundiso yesithathu: Umlilo ulungile kuwe
Nangona umkhuhlane luphawu lokuba umzimba wakho ulwa nosulelo, ukuhlahla umkhuhlane akuyi kuthatha ixesha elide ukugqithisa intsholongwane. Akudingeki ukuba uphathe umkhuhlane wengane yakho, kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi, umkhuhlane unokuphathwa njengendlela yokuthuthuzela. Ukunyanga komkhuhlane, ngakumbi xa kubangelwa usuleleko, akusayi kunceda umntwana wakho ukuba angcono nantoni na, kodwa kunokukunceda ukuba uzive ungcono. Ukuba umntwana wakho unomkhuhlane, ngokukodwa xa udidi oluphantsi, kodwa aluve lubi, ngoko akudingeki ukuba umnike umhlengahlengiso wemfiva.
Ukunyangwa komkhuhlane kunokubandakanya ukusebenzisa i-dose efanelekileyo yeminyaka ye-over-counter-counter-reducer, okubandakanya iimveliso eziqukethe i-acetaminophen (iTylenol) okanye i-ibuprofen (i-Motrin okanye i-Advil).
Ukuba umntwana wakho unentsholongwane, ukusebenzisa i-fever reducer akuyi kunceda umntwana wakho ukuba aphucule ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumenza abe ngcono. Kumele unike nomntwana wakho uninzi lwamanzi xa unesifo somkhuhlane ukuze angagcini. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba unyango lwentsholongwane luvame ukukunceda umntwana wakho azive engcono, ngoko ke ukuba unomkhuhlane, kodwa akabizi, ingakumbi ukuba umkhuhlane uphansi kwebanga, kwaye akudingeki ukuba uphathe umkhuhlane.
Ngaba ikhuselekile ukwenza enye i-acetaminophen kunye ne-ibuprofen? Ukuba usebenzisa isilinganisi esifanelekileyo seyeza ngalinye ngamaxesha afanelekileyo, mhlawumbi ikhuselekile, nangona kungekho uphando lokubonisa ukuba lunceda. Ingxaki kukuba kulula ukudideka kwaye unike umthamo owongezelelweyo omnye okanye amanye amayeza. Ukuba unomngcipheko we-fever reducers, bhala phantsi ishedyuli kunye namaxesha owanike amayeza ukuze iyeza elichanekileyo lihlala linikezwa ngexesha elichanekileyo.
Inkolelo-mfundiso ye-4: Iingxaki ezithintekayo
Umkhuhlane, isifo sohudo, ukuhlanza okanye i-diaper. Ayonyani. Ukuxubusha kungabangela ukukhuphaza kunye nobusuku bovuko kubantwana abathile, kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho uneminye impawu, ingakumbi umkhuhlane ophezulu, kufuneka ukhangele esinye isizathu, njengesifo sokusuleleka kwintsholongwane ka-viral, esiqhelekileyo ngexesha lezinyo abantwana ukungena. Amazinyo omntwana wakho wokuqala aza kuqala ukuza phakathi kweenyanga ezintathu nantandathu (ngokuqhelekileyo zinyanga ezintandathu). Amazinyo amabini angaphambili angaphambili aya kuba ngowokuqala ukungena kwaye oku kuya kulandelwa ngamanye amazinyo aphezulu kwiiveki ezine ukuya kweebhozo. Umntwana wakho uya kuqhubeka nokufumana amazinyo amatsha ade abe namazinyo akhe angamashumi amabini anesiseko xa eneminyaka emithathu ubudala, kunye nabantwana abaninzi bafumana amazinyo amane amatsha emva kweenyanga ezine.
Kwinkoliso yabantwana abaninzi kubangela ukunyuka kwe-drooling kunye nomnqweno wokuhlafuna izinto ezinzima, kodwa kwezinye izinto, kubangelwa ubuhlungu obunzima kunye nokugwenxa kunye neentsumama zingase zithukuthele kwaye zithethe. Ukukunceda le nto unako ukuhlambulula ngamandla ummandla imizuzu embalwa okanye ufune ukuhlafuna ngokukhawuleza, okulukhuni. Nangona abaninzi abantwana abayidingi i-gels okanye unyango nge-acetaminophen okanye ibuprofen ngentlungu, unokuyisebenzisa xa kuyimfuneko.
Inkolelo-mfundiso yesi-5: Ufanele ubilise amanzi akho ngaphambi kokuba ulungiselele i-Bottle of Formula yakho
Eyona nto ingqinelanayo. Ukubilisa amanzi xa kulungiselelwa iifom zesana kwacetyiswa ngokubanzi kwaye kwacingelwa ukuba akufuneki. Ngomnyaka we-1993, ukuqubuka kwe-cyclosporiasis kumanzi angcolileyo eMilwaukee kwabangela ukuba izikhulu ziphinde zincome ukuba amanzi abilisiwe xa elungiselela ifomula yabantwana.
Ukuba uhlala kwisixeko esinamanzi ahlambulukileyo kwaye ulungiselela iibhotile enye ngexesha, emva koko ukusela amanzi okanye ukutyumba iibhotile kunye neengxowa mhlawumbi akudingekile. Unokusebenzisa la manzi ngaphandle kwipompo kunye neebhotile ziza kuhlamba ngamanzi ashushu asetophu okanye kwi-dishwasher. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba amanzi akho aphephile okanye ukuba usebenzisa amanzi asemgangathweni, kufuneka ubilise amanzi ngamaminithi amahlanu ngaphambi kokulungiselela ifom.
Inkolelo-mfundiso 6: Ukunika iCereal yakho yaseNtwaneni iya kumnceda ukuba alale ebusuku
Le ngenye yeengcamango eziqhelekileyo ezingafaniyo. Xa umntwana wakho eqala ukulala ngobusuku unokwenza ngakumbi ngokuphuhliswa kwakhe kwaye ube nexesha lokulala lokulala apho efunda ukulala yedwa, kungekhona ukuba ulambile okanye uzele. Yaye ukhumbule ukuba abaninzi abantwana abaqala ukulala ubusuku baze babe malunga neenyanga ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-4 ubudala.
Ubisi lwesibindi okanye umfanyana wefestile unikeza zonke iimfuno zesondlo somntwana ubuncinane ubuncinane kwiinyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6 zokuphila, ngoko ungahambi ngokukhawuleza ukuqala ukutya okusemgangathweni kosana . Ukuqala iziqhamo ezindala kakhulu kunokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho akhule ukutya kokutya. Iphepha lomathumbu wengane yakho alinakuqulunqwa ngokupheleleyo kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala kunye nokuzisa isisitye ngeli xesha kunokuba luninzi lokusingatha. Esinye isizathu sokunganiki ukutya okuqinileyo ngaphaya kweenyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6 ngokungenakuzenzela ukunqanda ukususela ekubeni iintsana ezincinci azikwazi ukukunika iimpawu xa zizele, ezifana nokuguquka okanye ukubonisa ukungabonakali. Isizathu sesithathu sokubamba kwizinto ezinqabileyo ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukugwinya izityalo ngokufanelekileyo phambi kweenyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6 kwaye oku kunokubangela ukukhahlela.
Inkolelo-mfundiso yesi-7: I-colic ibangelwa ngu ...
Ayaziwa yintoni ebangela i-colic, kodwa akuqhelekanga ukuba ivela kwiintlungu zesisu, ukunyuka kwe-formula, insimbi kumfomfesane wabantwana okanye i-gas. Kuyaziwa ukuba iintsana eziqhelekileyo zinethuba elibhekiselele ekupheleni komhla oqalayo xa zimbini ukuya kwiiveki ezintathu ubudala kwaye ukuba le nto ingaba yindlela yabo 'yokuvuthela umqhubi' okanye ukujongana nokuvuselela okuqhelekileyo kwimihla yabo. Kungenzeka ukuba iintsana kunye ne-colic zithinteka kakhulu kulolu hlobo oluqhelekileyo lwemihla ngemihla. Kwakhona kwaziwa ukuba iintsana kunye ne-colic ayinayo iimoya ezinzima kwaye azixhomekekanga xa zikhula.
I-Colic ingxaki eqhelekileyo, echaphazela i-10 ukuya kwi-25% yazo zonke iintsana. Kuchazwa nje ngokuba ukukhala okungapheliyo kwintsana ephilileyo neyondle kakuhle. Ngokuqhelekileyo iqala malunga nee-iveki ezimbini ukuya kweyesithathu, zihamba kwiiiveki ezi-6 ezidlulileyo kwaye emva koko ziphucula ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye zigqitywe zodwa zinyanga ezintathu ukuya ezine. Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ze-colic kukuqala ngokukhawuleza kokumemeza nokukhala okungapheli ngaphezu kweeyure ezimbini ukuya kweyesihlandlo. Iintsana kunye ne-colic ziya kubonakala ngathi zinentlungu kwaye kunzima ukudizela. Ngexa belila baya kuthi badlule i-gesi eninzi, baveze imilenze yabo kwaye isisu sabo singabonakala lukhuni okanye sithintekile. Uninzi lweentsana kunye ne-colic zinomnye okanye amabini episodes alolu hlobo lokukhala ngalunye usuku. Phakathi kwezi ziqendu, bahlala benza kakuhle.
Ngaphandle kokuba umntwana wakho ahlaziye okanye i-formula ye-allergies, akukho mayeza okwenza i-colic ihambe. Amanye amathiphu ekuncedeni ukujongana necolic yinto ecacileyo ngokwayo iquka ukuqinisekiswa kunye namanye amalungu omndeni ukuba le ngxaki ebunobunzima ehlala ihlaziya ngokwayo ngaphandle kwefuthe lexesha elide. Ezinye izinto onokuzame ukuzithuthuzela umntwana wakho ziquka ukukhwabanisa, ukukhwela, ukugubungqa ngesigqi, ukuhamba okanye ukuhamba, ukuhlamba okufudumalayo, ukucula, izandi zesigxina, ukuxubusha, okanye ukusebenzisa i-pacifier, ukuguquka kwe-winding okanye isitulo eshukumisayo. Akukho nanye kula ma nyathelo asebenza kubo bonke abantwana, kodwa unokuzama enye okanye ezimbini ngelo xesha ufumane oko kusebenza kumntwana wakho.
Ukuba akukho nto isebenza, kulungile ukubeka umntwana wakho phantsi kwaye amvumele ameme ixesha elifutshane. Khumbula njalo ukuba kwakungekho nto oyenzayo okanye ongayenzanga loo nto eyabangela ukuba umntwana wakho abe ne-colic kwaye njengesigqibo sokugqibela uzama ukuthatha ikhefu ngokuba nelungu losapho okanye umhlobo uncede unakekele umntwana wakho.
Inkolelo-mfundiso ye-8: Umntwana wakho ufuna i-Vitamin Multi-Daily
Kuqikelelwa ukuba i- multivitamin yansuku zonke inikwa ama-25 ukuya kuma-50% wabantwana base-United States, nangona oku akusoloko kunyanzelekile kuninzi lwabantwana abanesidlo sokutya, nokuba ngaba umntwana wakho uyidla . Abanye abantwana abanesidlo okanye abasondeleneyo, isifo sesibindi okanye ezinye iingxaki zonyango ezingapheliyo, ingakumbi ezo zikhokelela kwi-malabsorption ye-fatbs, njenge-cystic fibrosis, ingafuna i-vitamin ne-mineral supplementary to prevent the deficiency.
Iintsana zokuqala kunye nabantwana abancinciweyo kuphela, kunye nekhanda elimnyama okanye ukukhanya okukhawulezileyo ekukhanyeni kwelanga, banokudinga i-vitamin supplements. Kananjalo, abantwana banokufuna iimfomflethi zokuncedisa xa bengaphuzi amanzi aphuculweyo.
Nangona unako ukunika umntwana wakho i-multivitamin eneminyaka elifanelekileyo ukuba wena okanye wakho wezilwanyana unomuzwa wokuthi umntwana wakho ufuna enye, mhlawumbi kungcono ukuzama ukufikelela kwimfuno yakhe yansuku zonke okanye isibonelelo sosuku ngalunye ngokumnika ukutya okunokulinganisela. Ukutya ukutya kunye nenani elincinci leenkonzo eziphakanyiswe yiPiramidi Yokutya iya kunika umntwana wakho ngesibonelelo samhla ngemihla samaninzi amavithamini kunye neemaminerali.
Inkolelo-mfundiso ye-9: I-Mobile Walker Walker iya kunceda umntwana wakho afunde ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza
Ngokuqhelekileyo, akufanele usebenzise i -walker ye-baby walker , njengoko ayiyi kukunceda umntwana wakho afunde ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye anokuba yingozi xa wenza umntwana wakho ehamba naye. Abahambahambayo abahamba ngesitishi banokuphepha. Ukuba usebenzisa i-walker yeselula, qiniseka ukuba indawo leyo ibonakaliswa ngumntwana kwaye ingabikho kwizitebhisi, kwaye umntwana wakho uphathwa rhoqo ngamaxesha.
Inkolelo-mfundiso ye-10: Ufanele / awuvumelekanga ukuba abantwana bakho balele ebhedeni lakho
Azikho iindlela ezichanekileyo okanye eziphosakeleyo zokubeka umntwana wakho ukuba alele kwaye ukuba wena kunye nosana lwakho ujabule nomsebenzi wakho wangoku kwaye kufuneka uzinamathele kuwo. Nangona kunjalo, akulungile ukuba umzabalazo wokubeka umntwana wakho embhedeni, ukuba uyaxhalaka kakhulu kwinkqubo, unqabe ukulala okanye ukuba uyavuka kangangokuba yena okanye amanye amalungu entsapho apheli ukulala ngokwaneleyo.
Inkolelo-mfundiso 11: Awufanele unike uMama okanye ezinye iimveliso zobisi kumntwana wakho xa egula ngenxa yokuba iya kukhulisa umveliso we-Mucus okanye wenze utywala
Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku akuyinyaniso, ngaphandle kokuba umntwana wakho enobisi obunzima. Xa umntwana wakho egula, ungamvumela ukuba adle ukutya kwakhe okuqhelekileyo njengokuba enyamezelekile. Ukuba umntwana wakho akafuni ukutya ngoko unako ukuzama ukutya okuqhelekileyo kwe- BRAT (ubhanana, ilayisi, i-applesauce, kunye nesinyosi) kunye nokutya kwamanzi kwaye uqhubeke nokutya kwakhe njengoko uya kukunyamezela.
Inkolelo-mfundiso ye-12: Unokuxelela ukuba Umntwana unamatheko nje ngokumjonga
Le ngqungquthela eqhelekileyo eyenziwa ngabagqirha, kodwa ayiyinyaniso. Ngelixa abaninzi abazali bexhalabele nge-strep throat xa umntwana wabo enesifo se-throat (tonsillitis), kukho ezininzi iintsholongwane ezibangelwa izifo ezibonakala zifana ne-strep. Ukuba umntwana wakho unesifo somqala nge-fever kunye nomvu obomvu, ukuvuvukala komhombo okanye iitoni ezinemibala emhlophe, kufuneka abonwe ngugqirha wakhe ukuze ahlolwe i-strep throat. Ukuba iimvavanyo ze-strep ziphazamisekile, ngoko intsholongwane yengqondo yomntwana wakho ibangelwa yintsholongwane kunye ne-antibiotics ayiyi kusebenza. Iintsholongwane zentsholongwane yomlomo wakho zivame ukuphucula iintsuku ezimbini ukuya kwezintathu ngaphandle kokonyango.
Uninzi lwezifundo zibonise ukuba oogqirha kunye nabanye abaqeqeshi bezempilo bachanekile malunga nesiqingatha sexesha xa bacinga ukuba umntwana unemida emva kokuvavanya umzimba. Ngoko ukuba umntwana wakho waphathwa rhoqo xa ebonakala ngathi unemigca, ngoko unokugonywa okanye ukuphathwa kakubi kunye namayeza anesiqingatha sithuba.
Inkolelo-mfundiso 13: Ufanele uqale ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo xa umntwana wakho _______ inyanga elidala
Nangona abaninzi abantwana babonisa iimpawu zokulungela ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi phakathi kweenyanga ezili-18 kunye neminyaka eyi-3 ubudala, akukho xesha elimisiweyo ekufuneka uqale ngalo. Xa uqala ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kunento eninzi yokwenza ukulungeleka komntwana wakho nokulungelelanisa umzimba, kunye nexesha apho oku kwenzekayo kuyahluka kubantwana abahlukeneyo. Izibonakaliso ukuba umntwana wakho ulungele ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi ziquka ukuhlala omile ubuncinane iiyure ezingama-2 ngelo xesha, ukuhamba ngokuhamba rhoqo, ukukwazi ukulandela imilayezo elula, ukungaxhatshazi ngeentluphe ezingcolileyo nokufuna ukuba utshintshwe, ucele ukusebenzisa sihlalo okanye indlu yangasese, kunye nokucela ukugqoka iimpahla zangaphantsi. Kufuneka kwakhona ukwazi ukuxelela ukuba umntwana wakho uza kuhamba okanye ahambe ngokunyakaza ngesibonakaliso sakhe, ukunyamezela okanye oko akutshoyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uqalile ukukuxelela ngokuba ne-diaper engcolileyo kufuneka umdumise ngokukuxelela kwaye umkhuthaze ukuba akuxelele kwangaphambili ixesha elizayo.
Inkolelo-mfundiso ye-14: Ukusohlwaya kunye nokuLawula Zizinto ezifanayo
Isiyalo asifani nesohlwayo. Kunoko, uqeqesho lufanele lwenze okungakumbi ngokufundisa, kwaye lubandakanya ukufundisa umntwana wakho ngokufanelekileyo kokungalunganga, indlela yokuhlonipha amalungelo abanye, iziphi izimo ezamkelekileyo kwaye ezingekho, ngenjongo yokuncedisa ukukhulisa umntwana oziva ekhuselekile kwaye ethandwa , ukuzithemba, ukuzimela kwaye uyazi indlela yokulawula iimpembelelo zakhe, kwaye ngubani ongagxininiswa ngokugqithiseleyo kunye neengcinezelo eziqhelekileyo zobomi bemihla ngemihla.
Kufuneka uqonde ukuba indlela oziphatha ngayo xa uqeqesha umntwana wakho uya kunceda ekufumaneni ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuziphatha njani okanye akwenze kakubi kwixesha elizayo. Ukuba unika emva kokuba umntwana wakho ephindaphindiweyo, uba ngumdla okanye unomsindo, ngoko uya kufunda ukuphinda le ndlela ngenxa yokuba uyazi ukuba ekugqibeleni unokunika (nangona kuphela kanye ngexesha elizinike lona) . Ukuba uyomelele kwaye uyaguquke ngoko uya kufunda ukuba ayihlawuli ukulwa nokukwenza oko ekugqibeleni uya kufuneka enze. Abanye abantwana, nangona kunjalo, baya kuziva ukuba bawunqobile xa beyeka ukwenza into ababengafuni ukuyenza nangemizuzu embalwa.
Yiba neendlela zakho zokuziphatha kunye nendlela ohlwaya ngayo umntwana wakho. Oku kusebenza kubo bonke abanonophelo. Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana bavavanye imida yabo, kwaye ukuba awuhambisani noko imida ingakanani, uya kuba nokukhuthaza ukuziphatha kakubi.
Inkolelo-ngqungquthela 15: Ukuba umntwana wakho wenza kakubi eSikolweni kwaye unesiNgqiqo esifutshane kwaye uyasiphazamiseka ngokukhawuleza, ngoko unako ukunyamekela ukungahambi kakuhle
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba intsha iphumelele esikolweni, kubandakanya ukungabi nentsholongwane yokwenza kakuhle, iingxaki ekhaya okanye ngontanga, imikhuba emibi yokusebenza okanye izakhono zokufunda, iingxaki zengqondo kunye nokuziphatha, ukukhubazeka ukufunda (ezifana nedyslexia ); ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okanye ngaphantsi kweengcali zengqondo kunye nezinye iingxaki zonyango, kuquka ukuxhalaba nokuxinezeleka. Kubalulekile ukufumana isizathu sokusebenza komntu oswelekileyo, ingakumbi ukuba uyaphumelela, kwaye uza kunye nesicwangciso sonyango ukuze akwazi ukwenza konke okusemandleni akhe kunye nokukhusela ukuphuhliswa kweengxaki ngokuzithoba, ukuziphatha iingxaki kunye nokuxinezeleka.
Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukubona ukuba iingxaki zezingane ezikolweni zibangelwa ezinye iingxaki zezokwelapha, ezifana nokudakumba, okanye ukuba ezinye iingxaki ziqaliswe ngenxa yokusebenza kwabo esikolweni. Abantwana abangenzi kakuhle esikolweni banokuba phantsi koxinzelelo oluninzi kwaye baya kuphuhlisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokujamelana nale ngxaki. Abanye bangaphinda bavelele iimvakalelo zabo, ezinokukhokelela ekusebenziseni iingxaki kunye neendlela zokuziphatha okanye kuba yiklasini. Abanye abantwana baya kufaka iimvakalelo zabo kwaye baza kuvelisa izikhalazo ezicwangcisiweyo zentsholongwane okanye iintloko. Uvavanyo olusisigxina ngumqeqeshi onolwazi oluqhelekileyo luyimfuneko ngokubanzi ukuze uhlolisise kakuhle abantwana abaneengxaki ezinzima. Xa uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho unenkinga esikolweni, kufuneka ulungiselele intlanganiso kunye notitshala wakhe ukuxoxa ngxaki. Ezinye izixhobo ezinokuba luncedo kubandakanya ukuthetha nomfundi weengqondo okanye umcebisi okanye isifo sezingane.
Inkolelo-mfundiso ye-16: Abantwana kunye ne-Adolescents Musa Ukuxinezeleka, kwaye Ukuba Benzayo, Akunjalo Abafuna Unyango
Ukudandatheka kwabantwana kuye kwangexesha elide kube yingxaki yezempilo.
Ukunyanzeliswa kwabantwana kunokuthi, xa kungaphathwa kakubi, kuthintela ukusebenza kwesikolweni kunye nokufunda, ukusebenzisana nentlalo kunye nophuhliso lwentsapho eqhelekileyo, ukuzithemba kunye nokuthengwa kwezakhono zobomi, ubudlelwane bomzali nomntwana kunye nokuziva komntwana kunye nokuthembela, kunokukhokelela ekusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi, iimpazamo eziphazamisayo, ubundlobongela nobudlova, iingxaki zomthetho, kunye nokuzibulala. Ngokwe-American Academy ye-Pediatrics, ukuzibulala yimbangela yesithathu yokufa kwabantwana nakwishumi elivisayo, nje emva kweengozi kunye nodlova. Ngaphezu koko, ukucinga okudandathekayo kunokuba yinxalenye yobuntu bokuphuhlisa ubuntu, ukushiya imiphumo yesikhathi eside kubomi bonke bomntwana.
Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zokudakumba ezichazwe kubantwana nakwishumi elivisayo zibuhlungu, ukungakwazi ukuvuya, ukukrakra, ukukhathala, ukungazinzi, ukungabi nantlonelo kunye nokuhlaliswa kwezenhlalakahle. Abantwana banokuthi banokuthi bafumane ubunzima beempawu zomzimba (umz., Izilonda zesisu kunye neentloko), ukuxuba, ukukhathazeka kunye nokwesaba okukhulu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantwana abaselula babonisa iingcinga ezingathembekiyo, ukuguquka kwesisindo, kunye nokulala ngokweqile emini.
Inkolelo-mfundiso ye-17: Ufanele umxhathise i-Picky Eater yakho Ukugqiba isidlo saKhe
Ayonyani. Ukunyanzelisa umntwana ukuba adle xa engalambile yindlela efanelekileyo yokukhuthaza iingxaki zokutya ngexesha elizayo.
Indlela efanelekileyo yokukhusela iingxaki zokutya kukufundisa abantwana bakho ukuba bazondle ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, banikeze ukhetho olufanelekileyo kwaye bavumele ukuvavanya. Ixesha lokutya kufuneka lizonwabe kwaye lihle kwaye akusiyo umthombo womzabalazo.
Iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo zivumela abantwana bakho ukuba baphuze ubisi oluninzi okanye iJusi ukuze balambile izilonda, baxinze abantwana bakho ukuba badle xa bengalambi, okanye baqine ukuba badle ukutya abangafuni.
Ngexa ufanele unikezele ukutya okufanelekileyo ngokufanelekileyo imihla ngemihla, kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni ukuba baninzi abantwana baya kudla enye okanye ezimbini ukutya rhoqo ngosuku. Ukuba umntwana wakho unesidlo sakusasa kunye nesidlo sasemini, ngoko kulungile ukuba akafuni ukutya okutya kakhulu. Nangona umntwana wakho mhlawumbi uyazithemba ukuzama ukutya okutsha, kufuneka uqhubeke unikezela amanani amancinci kanye okanye kabini ngeveki (enye isipuni seembotyi eziluhlaza, umzekelo). Ininzi abantwana baya kuzama ukutya okutsha emva kokuba banikezwe ngamaxesha angama-10-15.
Inkolelo-mfundiso ye-18: Ukusohlwaya ngokobuGwenxa kuyindlela efanelekileyo yokuLawula
Kufuneka uphephe isigwebo. Ukupaka akuzange kubonakaliswe kusebenza ngakumbi kunezinye iindlela zokuqeqesha kwaye kuya kwenza ukuba umntwana wakho abe nomsindo kwaye abe nomsindo aze amfundise ngamaxesha amkelekileyo ukubetha abanye.
Inkolelo-mfundiso 19: Umele Ugcine Umntwana Wakho NgeNkulumko okanye ngokuThuthukiswa kweMoto ngenxa yokuba mhlawumbi uya kukhula ngaphandle kwayo
Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho akadibana nentetho yakhe eqhelekileyo okanye ukuphuhlisa ulwimi, ukuba unengxaki enkulu yokuphuhlisa ingxaki yokuva, okanye unengxaki yokusebenza kwesikolo, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba ukuva kwakhe kuhlolwe ngovavanyo ngophando. Kwakhona, akwanele ukuba bacinga ukuba umntwana wakho uyaliva ngenxa yokuba uyasabela kwisibetho esikhulu okanye insimbi kwiofisi yegqirha okanye kuba ufika xa umbiza ngekamelo elinye.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali baqala ukucinga ukuba kukho ingxaki ngentuthuko yentetho yabantwana kunye / okanye ukuva, kwaye le nkxalabo yabazali inokwanela ukuba iqalise ukuvavanya. Ukongeza kwindlela yokuvavanya ngokuvakalayo kunye novavanyo lophuhliso lwabahlengikazi, abantwana abalukhohlisayo ulwimi kunye nolwimi kufuneka bahanjiswe kwinkqubo yokungenelela abantwana (abantwana abangaphantsi kwe-3) okanye kwisithili sekhaya (kubantwana abangaphezu kwe-3), ukuze Ukuvavanywa kunye nokunyanga kunokuqaliswa ngumbhali wezengqondo (ukuba ubonisiwe) kunye / okanye umlomo weengcali / ugqirha.
Ukuxilongwa kwangaphambili kubalulekile nokuba umntwana wakho enokubambezeleka kweemoto ukwenzela ukuba unyango luqaliswe, kwaye ugqirha wakho uya kukubhekisela kwinkqubo yoNyaka yoLutsha lokuNcedisa ukuba umntwana wakho akadibana nexesha elifanelekileyo leemoto ezinkulu, ezifana nokuhlala okanye ukuhamba.
Inkolelo-mfundiso 20: Ufanele uhlale uhlala okanye ungafanelanga __________
Kukho izinto ezimbalwa omele uhlale uhlala kuzo okanye awufanele uyenze xa unyamekela umntwana wakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kufuneka uthembele izilwanyana zakho, kwaye ukuba oko wenzayo kusebenza kakuhle, ngoko uhlala unamathela kuyo. Ukuba iindlela okanye iindlela zakho azisebenzi, zama enye into okanye ufumane uncedo.