NgoDisemba ngo-2016, uTammy Van Dyke, umama waseMinnesota, waxela esibhedlele ukuba unyana wakhe wazalwa ngo-2012 ngenxa yokuxuba umntwana okwenzekayo xa yena kunye nosana lwakhe bezigulane kwi-Abbott Northwestern Hospital. Unyana kaVanke wanikelwa omnye umama, owayesandula wazala amawele kwaye akazange aqaphele ukuba umntwana owanikezelwe wona wayengengunyana wakhe.
Omnye umama wayenomntwana kaVan Dyke kunye neeyure ezingaphezu kweeyure ezimbini waza wada wamncelisa ngaphambi kokuba iphutha lenzeke. Bobabini inkwenkwana kunye nonina owayenombele, kufuneka ukuba ahlolwe ngokubanzi kwi-HIV kunye nesifo sokubulala i-hepatitis, kunye nezinye izifo eziphathekayo zegazi ezingadluliselwa kumanzi omzimba. Uvavanyo olubanzi, oluye lwaqhutywa kunyaka wonke, oko ekugqibeleni kwashukumisela uVan Dyke ukuba aphikise esibhedlele. Wayebiza ukuba unyana wakhe (kunye naye) wayenomonakalo ngokomzwelo ekuxinekeni kokuzama ukujongana nayo yonke into.
Ibali likaVan Dkye liloyikisayo kwaye likhokelela kumbuzo wendlela abantwana ababethelwa ngayo esibhedlele rhoqo. Yintoni ongayenza ukugcina umntwana wakho ukhusele ngexesha lokuhlala esibhedlele?
Ukhuseleko olusanda kuzalwa kwiSibhedlele
Izibhedlele zithatha ukhuseleko lwabantwana abasanda kuzalwa. Uninzi lweeyunithi ezinabantwana phantsi, kubandakanywa abasebenzi kunye nokuhanjiswa kunye neNICU , iinqununu ezivalelwe, oko kuthetha ukuba akukho mntu ongangena okanye ahambe kwileyunithi ngaphandle kwemvume evela kubasebenzi okanye ikhowudi ekhethekileyo evumela ukuba bakwazi ukufikelela.
Ilungu losapho elikutyelayo emva kokuba usenomntwana, umzekelo, unokukwazi ukungena emgangathweni, kodwa ngeke ukwazi ukuhamba phantsi ngaphandle kokuvunyelwa kwamalungu. Bangacinezela iqhosha kwideskiti yomongikazi ukuze uvule umnyango emva kokuba uhlolisise isivakashi ukuqinisekisa ukuba akashiyi umntwana.
Esibhedlele, ukhuseleko olusandul 'usana luyabaluleke kakhulu. Izibhedlele zonke zilandela uhlobo oluthile lwenkqubo ejoliswe ekukhuseleni ukuxuba kunye nokugcina ukhuseleko lwabazali kunye nosana. Uninzi lweeyunithi zilandela inkqubo esebenzisa amaqhosha okuchonga afana nomama kunye nosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa, kunye neqabane elixhasayo. Naliphi ixesha umongikazi okanye omnye umntu osebenzayo ephuma egumbini kunye nosana, kufuneka aqale aqinisekise ukuba iinqununu ziyafana. Xa ebuyisela umntwana, inkqubo iphinda iphindwe ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana usekwe ngabazali abalungileyo. Ukuhlolwa kokubonakalayo kwamanani ebhanki kungasetyenziswa kwaye ezinye izibhedlele zixhobo zokusebenza zokukhangela ezisebenzisa iteknoloji ukuqinisekisa ukuba izibophelelo zihambelana ngokufanelekileyo.
Nangona iinkqubo ezibekwe endaweni, ngokucacileyo, iiphoso zenzeka. Izibopho ezisanda kuzalwa kunye neenqunu zingancinci kwaye iinqununu zinganqanyulwa okanye zisuswe ngokulula kunokuba ucinge, abasebenzi banokufumana i-lax kwaye bangahambisani nomgaqo-nkqubo ofanelekileyo, okanye abazali banokuphelelwa amandla ukuphawula ukuba utshintsho lwenziwe.
Oko okuthethwa ngamanani
Ngelishwa, akukho ndlela yokwenene yokwazi inani elichanekileyo leentsana ezitshintshwe ngengozi esibhedlele, kungakhathaliseki ukuba i-switch ishicilelo. Izibhedlele zingenakugcina umkhondo walezo zibalo kwaye ukuba zenza ntoni, zingafumaneka ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kuphela.
Ngaphezu koko, kunzima ukucacisa oko kukuthi "ukudibanisa" -ngaba ibala ukuba umhlengikazi wayezokwenza? Ngaba wayekuya egumbini, waqonda loo mpazamo?
Amanani adlulileyo ukususela kumashumi eminyaka adlulileyo, xa iteknoloji entsha ezama ukudalwa ithi iphutha lingenzeka ngokungabonakali njengowoku-1 kuzo zonke iingu-1 zokudluliselwa. Ngeenkqubo ezichanekileyo zokuchonga, sinokuqiniseka ukuba izinga liphantsi, kuncinci kunelo, kodwa kunjalo, lihlala liluvo oluhle ukuba uqaphele ngaphambi kokungena esibhedlele.
Into onokuyenza ukukhusela umntwana wakho
Ngaphandle kokungathandabuzeki, into enye enokuyenza ukuze uzikhusele wena kunye nosana lwakho esibhedlele, kufuneka uqaphele ukuba iimpazamo zenzeka kwaye zikhusele ngokusemandleni.
Cinga ngezi ngcebiso ezilandelayo:
- Ukucela ukuba iqabane lakho lingathethele kunye naziphi na iimvavanyo eziyimfuneko ezifuna umntwana wakho ukuba ashiye egumbini-oku kulungile ukukwenza kwaye akufanele uzive ucebile ngokucela.
- Ucela ilungu lomsebenzi ukuba lifanise iinqununu ngokuzwakalayo kuwe, endaweni yokujonga nje eyakhe.
- Beka umntwana wakho kwisambatho esicacileyo, i-cap, okanye i- swaddle ukuze aqondwe lula kuwe.
- Gcina umntwana wakho egumbini kunye nawe , endaweni yokumthumelela kwi-nursery, ukuba isibhedlele sakho sinalo.