Kulungile, ngoko kwiminyaka siye saxelelwa ukuba ukuba nesondo ekugqibeleni kokukhulelwa kuya kusinceda sizise abasebenzi. Yindlela eqinisekileyo yomlilo yokwenza umsebenzi. Andikwazi ukukuxelela inani labasetyhini abakhulelweyo ndiyazi ukuba ngubani ozimisele ukwenza nantoni na (kwaye ndiyithetha nto) ukuzisa abasebenzi ngaloo ndawo. Ngoku kukho isifundo malunga nesihloko sonke esithi ayiyinyaniso.
Kodwa linda! Olunye uphando luthi luyinyaniso.
Ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba kunzima ukuxelela ukuba zeziphi izitatimende zinyani. Inyaniso yembandela kukuba kunzima ukuthetha. Usuvele usebenzisana nabasetyhini ekupheleni kokukhulelwa, ngokobuchwepheshe banokuba nabantwana babo nantoni na. Ngoko xa balala ngesondo kwaye banomntwana kusasa - ngaba ngaba isondo? Okanye ngaba oko kwenzeka ntoni na?
Kuphi na oku kunzima ukuthetha. Nantsi into endinokukuxelela yona: Ukulala ngesondo kunye neqabane lakho okanye ujonge i-orgasm (yedwa okanye kunye) yindlela elula yokunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Iyancomeka. Uninzi omama kunye noodade babika ukuba ukulala ngesondo kwenza ukuba bazive besondele. Ingaba kuzisa kubasebenzi okanye akunjalo, kutheni ungalalani ngesondo?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, unganinika uluhlu olude lwezizathu zokuba ngaba besetyhini abakhulelweyo bangenakufuna ukulala ngesondo: kakhulu kakhulu, bebuhlungu kakhulu, beziva bekhathele. Akukho nto yendalo , ukunyamezela nothando akuyi kusebenza malunga nokuba bekukhona into ozimisele ukuzama.
Ukuba sengqondo ekhululekile kwengqondo ngokuqinisekileyo kunceda inkqubela phambili yomsebenzi ngokukhawuleza xa iqalile. Amama amaninzi athi ukulala ngesondo kubancedisa ukuba balele. Kwaye ukudibanisa kunye nomlingane wakho kungenza into enhle ngokwenene xa ulungiselela ukujongana nomzali.
Ngoko, ndinokuthembisa ukuba uya kuba nosana ukuba ulala ngesondo xa ukhulelwa?
Ingaba unako? Kuqiniseke. Kwimi inzuzo ibonakala iyongezelela ngesondo ekugqibeleni ukukhulelwa kuyinto entle kwaye inokubangela ukuba abasebenzi-kakuhle, yiyo i-cherry phezulu!
Ukuba udinga ukuba umntwana azalwe ngenxa yenkinga yezokwelapha kunye nawe okanye umntwana, uya kufuna ukufumana indlela ukuba inyulo inomsebenzi ophezulu emva kwayo. Ezi zinokuthi zenze iindlela zokutyalwa kwemvelo ( isib. Ukuvuselela iimbumba, ioli ye-castor , njl.), Iindlela zokutyalwa kwezonyango (umz. Ukuphula isangxo samanzi, i-Pitocin, njl) okanye ukudibanisa iindlela zokufakelwa. Ugqirha okanye umbelethisi uya kukuxelela ukuba ngaba kunjalo. Ngamanye amaxesha bacebisa iindlela zendalo ngokweentsuku ezikhokelela ekufakweni kwonyango.
Ndishiye ingcaciso malunga neengcamango zakho nokuba ingaba ngesondo ekukhulelweni kwexesha elide kubangela abasebenzi.
Funda ngakumbi: Iinkqubo zokukhutshwa kweNdalo | Izikhundla zesondo ngokukhulelwa
Umthombo:
UKavanagh J, Kelly AJ, Thomas J. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokokuvuthwa komlomo kunye nokuqulunqwa kwabasebenzi. I-Cochrane Database yoHlolo oluPhezulu lwe-2001, iNqaku 2. Ubugcisa. Inombolo: CD003093. INGXELO: 10.1002 / 14651858.CD003093
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