Iintlungu ezimbalwa ngomhla wokuQala weSchools
Uyenze yonke uphando kwaye ukhetha isikolo esilungeleleneyo somntwana wakho. Ngobusuku bokugqibela , uqinisekisile ukuba umntwana wakho walala ngethuba lokuqala ukuze avuke ekulungele ukuya. Isikhwama esinezixhobo ezinjengamakhrayoni, iphepha kunye ne-glue stick ezilindile ngasemnyango wangaphambili. Okokubaluleka kokuqala kwelanga lokuqala kwesikhwama kuxhomeke kwikheritta, kwaye i- snack oyenzileyo ukwabelana neklasi ifakwe kwaye ilungele ukuya.
Usuku lokuqala lwezikole lokufunda selufikile, kwaye lixesha lokuba umntwana wakho aqalise uhambo lwezemfundo oluya kuchitha ixesha eliphantse malunga namashumi amabini anamashumi. Unokwenza njani lo mhla wokuqala wokuqala?
Yilungele Ukuthetha I-Goodbye Ngosuku Lokuqala Lwezikole
Ukuthetha umama kunye noyise, ingakumbi ukuba okokuqala ngephandle kwindlu kuphela, kunokuba nzima kubafundi abaninzi. Kwabanye inqaku elidala - bekunakekelwa kwintsuku iminyaka okanye nje banokuhamba ngokulula, ukuhamba ngokuhamba. Isibalulekileyo kukuqinisekisa ukuba ulungele ukuba umntwana wakho aye esikolweni. Ukuba unokungabaza okanye ukukhathazeka, umntwana wakho uya kukwamukela ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko, ngosuku olukhulu, gcoba ngobuso bakho kwaye uhlale ulungile. Oku kuza kubeka itoni enkulu kumntwana wakho kwaye kubenze baqonde ukuba ukuya esikolweni kuyinto abanokuyenza kwaye kufuneka bajonge phambili.
UkuLawula Iinyembezi
Okokuqala, zilungele ezinye iinyembezi .
Yiyo imeko eyenziwa kumaziko okufundela kuyo yonke indawo. Umntwana, ekhwaza, ebambe emilenzeni okanye emadodeni ebomini obuthandayo, enqabe ukukhangela eklasini, ngaphantsi kangako ukuhamba kuyo kuphela. Phola. Kuqhelekile. Abantwana kule minyaka bayaphumelela ekuziqheleni, ngoko ke xa befakwa kwimeko entsha, baqhelekile xa bekwesaba kakhulu.
Kwabanye abantwana, abakhalayo abaqaliyo bade bebona abanye abantwana besenza. Kuphantse kufana noxinzelelo kontanga - unokuzibona ukuba iingcinga zakha entloko yakho encinci: "Ukuba uyakhala, kufuneka kubekho into endimele ndiyikhathaze ngayo, nayo."
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukukhala abantwana akuyona into entsha kumfundisi wesikolo. Amathuba ayenayo inxaxheba ekujonganeni nale meko. Landela. Kwiimeko ezininzi, baya kukukhuthaza ukuba ushiye. Kuya kuba yinto enzima kunazo zonke oza kuyenza, kodwa isebenza. Izihlandlo ezithoba kwishumi, umntwana uyayeka ukukhala phakathi kwemizuzu emihlanu yomzali eshiya.
Uza kubuyela eklasini emva kweeyure ezimbalwa ukufumana umntwana wakho, onwabileyo kunye nomxholo weempawu abakwazi ukulinda ukukubonisa. Ukuba uthisha wasenkulumeni akanakufumana umntwana wakho ukuzola, baya kuba banxibelelwano. Thembela kumava abo kwaye uyazi ukuba banomdla omkhulu kumntwana wakho entliziyweni.
Ukufumana Umntwana Wakho Uhleli
Ukuba umntwana wakho useklasini ngaphambili, udweba olo tyelelo. Chaza izinto abanokuzikhumbula, nokuba ngaba zikhokelo okanye uhambo lokudibana nootitshala . Yithi izinto ezinje, "Hayi, zikho iibhloko ozidlalayo ngexesha lokugqibela esikuyo.
Ukhumbule indlela owakhile ngayo loo nqaba enkulu? Mhlawumbi unokukwenza kwakhona. "
Into ebalulekileyo malunga nosuku lokuqala lweenqanawa kukuba kukho lonke iqela labantu ekamelweni eliye lalinganayo into efanayo. Ukuba usebenza kunye njengethimba, kuba lula kakhulu kwaye kuthokoza ngakumbi. Bhekisela umntwana ukuba umntwana wakho ongasesikolweni angayazi ukusuka kwenye into okanye ummandla, okanye, ukuba engazi mntu, mncede enze umhlobo wakhe wokuqala. Hamba uye kumntwana kunye nomama wakhe kunye / okanye ubawo, bhekisela kumntwana wakho kwaye uthi, "Sawu, lo ngu-Isabelle. Siyathanda ngempela i-shirt yakho ye-Princess.
Ngaba sihlala apha kunye nawe? "Ngenhlanhla encinane, omnye umzali uya kuthatha ingcamango yakho aze azise umntwana wakhe.
Ukushiya yiNgxenye ebunzima kakhulu
Kukho i-non-no yeyona nto ecacileyo xa kuziwa ukuthetha ukulahla okungenza ukwahlula kunzima. Umthetho owodwa? Musa ukususa umntwana wakho eklasini. Yenza ukuba kunzima ukubuyisela kuye. Utitshala womntwana wakho uya kulunge kwicala lakho unika uncedo kunye noncedo.
Kungase kube nzima, kodwa ungagxothi xa umntwana wakho ephazamiseka ngumnye umsebenzi. Umntwana wakho kufuneka afunde ukuba isikolo yindawo ahamba ngayo ngaphandle komama okanye utata kwaye uthi ukuhleka yinxalenye yenkqubo.
Musa ukubuza ukuba kulungile ukuba ushiye kwaye ungenzi izithembiso ezinje, "Ukuba uhlala apha esikolweni, ndiza kukuthenga i-ice cream xa ndikunyusela." Oku kunokunyusa ukuziphatha xa egcina fumana oko akufunayo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho wenza kakuhle ngosuku lokuqala, lungela, awukho ngaphandle kwehlathi nje okwamanje. Abanye abantwana bahamba ngqo ukuya esikolweni njengokuba banokuzonwabisa kwaye wonke umntu unelisekile. Kodwa ke, ngaphandle kwayo, iiveki ezimbalwa ukuya kunyaka wesikolo, umntwana wakho angaqala ukukhala xa ushiya. Oku, kwakhona, kuqhelekileyo. Intshukumo yesikolo iphelile, kwaye umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba akayenawe. Qhubeka uzisa naye esikolweni uze umlahle njengoko kuchazwe ngutitshala. Nale iza kudlula.