I-Phobia yesikolo kunye neNdlela zoKuthetha
Ingaba umntwana wakho wesaba ukuya esikolweni? Abantwana abancinci abaninzi, malunga neminyaka emibini, bafumana uxhalabo oluqhelekileyo lokuxhatshazwa kwaye banokukhungatheka kwaye baxakeke xa behlukaniswe nabazali. Oku kuqhelekileyo kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kuyahamba kunye nenduduzo kunye nexesha. Kwiimeko ezimbalwa, olu xhalaba luhlala ixesha elide kwaye lunokubonisa inkxalabo enzulu. Abanye abantwana bavelisa ukwesaba kwexesha elide lokuya esikolweni.
Le meko ingathiwa ukukhutshwa kwesikolo, ukwenqaba esikolweni okanye isikolo esikolweni.
Abantwana abanesikolo esikolweni basoloko benokungakhuselekanga ngokomzwelo kwaye banobuhlungu. Basenokufuna ukuba babe kufuphi nabazali babo kwaye bazive bexhala xa behluke nabo. Imizwa yabo yokuxhalabisa ingabangela iimpawu zomzimba ezinjengentloko, isicathulo, okanye isisu esiswini. Abantwana abanesikolo esikolweni banokumelana nokuya esikolweni ixesha elide kwixesha elide.
Nangona i-phobia yesikolo ingaba nempembelelo enkulu kwimfundo yomntwana, akuqhelekanga. Kucingelwa ukuba phantse kwi-5 ekhulwini yabantwana bafumana i-phobia yesikolo ngethuba elithile.
Ngubani Ophuhlisa iSobia?
Olunye uphando lubonisa ukuba abanye abantwana baninzi kunokuba abanye babonise iimpawu zesikolo. Oku kubandakanya:
- Abantwana kuphela
- Abantwana abaselula kwiintsapho
- Abantwana abanezifo ezingapheliyo
Izimpawu Ukuba umntwana Wakho Unokuthi abe neFobia yesikolo
Abazali banokukrokrela ukuba i-phobia yesikolo inokwenzeka xa abantwana bebodwa:
- Ziba neempawu eziqhelekileyo zomzimba ezifana nesifo sesisu, isicupunu, ukuhlanza, isifo sohudo, okanye ukukhathala ngokweqile ngaphandle kwesizathu esibonisa
- Yiba nomoya wokuzila, ubambelele, okanye ubonise iimpawu zokuxhalaba xa ungekho kubazali
- Ngaba ukhathazeka ngokugqithiseleyo kokuba yedwa okanye ukwesaba okungenangqiqo
- Unobunzima bokulala kunye neziqhwaba
Izinto eziKongeza Ubungozi beFobia yesikolo
Isikolo esikolweni, okanye ukukhanyela isikolo, sinokuthathwa yimibandela efana nale:
- Utshintsho lobomi bentsapho efana nokuhamba, ukwahlukanisa, ukufa, okanye ezinye iziganeko eziphazamisayo
- Ukuba nomzali okhuselekileyo, kodwa okhuselekileyo
- Ukukhathazeka kwangempela kwokhuseleko lwamalungu entsapho
- Ukuxhaphazwa esikolweni
- Ukwesaba ngaphezu kobudlelwane obubi kunye notitshala okanye ontanga
- Ukholo olwenene okanye olucingelwayo lokugculelwa okanye ukuhlawulwa esikolweni
Ukujongana neFibia yeSikole sabantwana bakho
Abazali notitshala banako kwaye kufuneka bathathe amanyathelo okulungisa i-phobia yesikolo somntwana ukukhusela ingxaki engapheliyo, ede elide elinokuchaphazela kakhulu ukufunda nokukwazi komntwana ukukhula ekubeni ngumntu omdala ozimeleyo. Okokuqala, abazali bafanele ukuba umntwana ahlolwe ngugqirha wakhe ukuba aqinisekise ukuba kukho i-underlying, izizathu zonyango ezonyango ezibangelwa yimeko. Okwesibini, abazali kunye nomntwana banokusebenzisana nomcebisi wesikolo somntwana, utitshala, okanye isazi senzululwazi esikolweni ukukunceda ukufumana ingxaki ebangela ingxaki. Ababini, abazali kunye nabasebenzi besikolo bangavelisa isicwangciso sokungenelela sokwandisa ukuhamba esikolweni komntwana kunye nokunciphisa ukuziphatha kokungafuni.
Ukungenelela okunceda abantwana abaneFibia yesikolo
Eminye imizekelo yeendlela zokungenelela ezihlala zikunceda zibandakanya:
- Ukusebenzisa inkqubo yokuguqula ukuziphatha ukuvuza umntwana ngokuya esikolweni.
- Ukufumana iingcebiso malunga nayiphi na imicimbi yentsapho echaphazela ingxaki.
- Ukuba izisongelo zangempela zikhona esikolweni okanye kwindawo yokuhlala, njengokuxhatshazwa, ukuthatha amanyathelo okulungisa ingxaki. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba " iingcebiso ezimbi zokuxhatshazwa " zanda. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba akhulume ngokuxhatshazwa . Kunzima ukwazi apho uqala khona uze uqonde umfanekiso opheleleyo. Nazi iingcebiso ezili-15 zokuncedisa abantwana ukuba baphinde babuyisele amandla abo , kodwa unganqikazi ukubandakanya uchwepheshe. Ukuba umntwana wakho kunye nezizathu zokuziphatha kakubi, impembelelo ebomini bakhe inokuthi ingene ngakumbi.
- Ukuchonga utitshala okanye omnye umntu omdala othembekileyo esikolweni ukuhlakulela ubudlelwane nomntwana. Lo mntu unokuba ngumthombo kumntwana xa ejongene nokuxhalaba okanye iimfuno kunceda ngengxaki.
- Ukuqulunqa ukuba izakhono ezifundiswayo ezingekho kakuhle okanye ukukhubazeka kokufunda kubangela ingxaki. Ukwesaba ukungaphumeleli kuyisisiseko esisodwa sezizathu zezikolo zesikolo, kubantwana abenza kakuhle.
- Ukuqalisa umntwana ngosuku olufutshane nolusenokwandisa ixesha achitha kuyo ade akwazi ukunyamezela lonke usuku lwesikolo.
- Xa umntwana esekhaya ngenxa yokwala isikolo , ukuphepha izinto ezonwabileyo ezinokuthi ziqinise ukuziphatha kwenqatshwa esikolweni.
- Ukunceda umntwana ahlakulele ubuhlobo esikolweni.
- Ukubonelela ngokuqinisekileyo kumntwana ukuba uya kulungile, kwaye umzekelo wokuziphatha kwakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba awubonakali ngokungazenzisiyo iimpawu zokukhathazeka.
- Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana unamathuba okuphumelela esikolweni kwaye unokuzibandakanya kwiminye imisebenzi ayithandayo.
- Ukufuna uncedo lweengcali zempilo yengqondo xa i-phobia yesikolo ingaphuculanga ngokungenelela okanye kunzima. Olu luleko lufanele lubandakanye yonke intsapho xa kunokwenzeka njengentsapho ye-dynamics inokubamba iqela kuyo, kwaye iyakuthonyelwa yi-school phobia.
Imithombo:
I-American Academy yePediatrics. Ukuphepha kweSikolo. Ukuhlaziywa 11/21/15. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/health-issues/conditions/emotional-problems/Pages/School-Avoidance.aspx