Umbuzo: Ndingayigcina Njani Umntwana Wethu onokuThabatha i-Diaper yakhe kunye neNdwangu?
Intombi yam enyangeni engama-28 isiqalile ukuqhuba isitimu samanzi. Kwiintsuku ezithile uyenqaba ukuphuma ebhodweni lakhe ngeeyure kunye nabanye angeke ahlale kuso. Ngoku uyenxiba ukugqoka impahla okanye i-diaper. Uya kwambatha ibhulukhwe yokuqeqesha kodwa unengozi. Akathandi ukuba ngumanzi okanye ongcolileyo kwaye uye wenyuka ekhwaza (kwaye wahamba) emva kokugubungela kwisikhumba sakhe.
Uyancedwa kwisihlalo kwaye ndicinga ukukususa ngaphandle kokuba ahlale kuyo kunye nezambatho zakhe. Ikhaya lethu liba yitya yangasese. Ndifuna iingcebiso zokugcina iimpahla zakhe. Ubonakala elungele ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi ngenxa yokuba akayi kushiya i-diaper kodwa siphumelele kakhulu.
Impendulo:
Ukungazilungeli Ukulungiselela Ukuqeqeshwa Kwamathambo
Kuvakala ngathi intombi yakho ishukunyiselwa ekufundiseni ubumbano ukulungela , nangona kunjalo, andicinga ukuba ukhona apho. Makhe ndibalise into oyenzele yona:
- Ngaba uya kuhlala kwi-potty - Eli liyinyathelo elifanelekileyo lokuqala kwaye kaninzi lubonisa intshisekelo ekuphumeni, kodwa kungekhona ukuzimisela okanye amandla .
- Unokuzinyamekela ngokuzimeleyo - Kunzima ukwenza inkqubela phambili ngaphandle kokuba umntwana wakho anakho ukuziphazamisa, ngoko oku kulungile.
- Ayithandi ukuba angcolile okanye amanzi - Ufanele uqiniseke ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba xa ebeka ipee kunye ne-poo ebhodweni, unokukwazi ukuphepha yonke imiyalezo.
Kwaye akunakuphi na:
- Ngamanye amaxesha akayi kuhlala kwi-potty - Oku akusoloko kuthetha ukuphela kokuqeqeshwa kwamathambo, kodwa akusetyenziso oluninzi xa eqhubeka engahambi xa ehlala ebhodweni okanye xa eyanqabile ngokukuphepha.
- Unokugxotha ngokuzimeleyo kwaye udla njalo - Hayi, amandla akhe ububuthakathaka bakhe. Ikhono lokususa iimpahla ngokuqhelekileyo liba yinxalenye yecala elikhulu lokuqeqeshwa kwamathambo . Ngamanye amaxesha inxalenye yepuzzles enkulu kakhulu yokunyusa izakhono zezithuthi kwaye kufuneka iphathwe njengento ehluke ngokupheleleyo.
- Usebenzisa indawo yokuhlambela kwiindawo ezingafanelekanga njengesikhala sakhe kunye nezihlalo - Ukuba akaqondi ukuba wenza njalo, ezi ziganeko zizingozi nje ezenzeke ngokungahambiyo xa engenazo iimpahla. Ukuba uyayenza ngenjongo (njengokufihla kwikona ukuya khona) ngoko unokuba ngumqondiso wokuba ulungele ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kodwa uloyiko lobumbanyo. Kwimeko yakho, kuyavakala ngathi unengozi, nangona kunjalo.
Ukulungiswa kuNcedo
Ngoko ngokwenene, okwenzekayo apha akusiyo imeko yokuqeqesha ngamanzi , kodwa kunoko imeko yokuziphatha . Okokuqala, ndiza kumisa nayiphi na into yokuqeqeshwa kwamathambo ukuze ukwazi ukulungisa into eyenzekayo. Emva koko, ndifuna ukuba uqaphele ukuba zombini unemfuno ezahlukeneyo kwaye zombini izidingo zakho zivumelekile: Ufuna ukuzenza ukukhupha iimpahla zakhe. Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye akufanele idimazeke ngokupheleleyo. Uyamfuna ukuba agcine iimpahla kwixesha elininzi kwaye angasebenzisi yonke indlu yakho njengendlu yangasese.
Okokuqala, iNdlela eLawulayo
Makheke ukuba abe nexesha elithile elikhethiweyo ngosuku apho angakwazi ukuziphazamisa kwaye abe njengeze njengokuba ethanda. Abanye abazali banenhlanhla ukwenza oku kusasa ngaphambi kokugqoka. Abanye abazali bathanda ukwenza emva kokuhlamba ixesha ekubeni umntwana sele evele ehamba.
Ekubeni ukususa izambatho kubonakala ngathi yingxenye yesibheno kwintombi yakho, ndiza kuceba ixesha apho sele egqoke khona kwaye le mfuno izalisekile kuye.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba lixesha elikhethiweyo, qinisekisa ukudibanisa kunye nomsebenzi owaziyo endaweni yendawo engabonakaliyo engayiqondi. Ngaloo ndlela, xa eqala ukuthatha iingubo zakhe kwixesha elingagqibekanga, unokuthi kuye, "Akunjalo. Ungasusa iingubo zakho emva kwekusasa." Oku kwenza indlela engcono kunomncinci kunokuba, "Beka iimpahla zakho kwakhona! Akusi-10:30."
Ukuphelisa i-home-as-toilet inkcazo, xelela ukuba ukuba ufuna ukuhlala ehamba, akayi kukhanda okanye aphephe indawo apho ngaphandle kwebumbi okanye i-diaper.
Emva koko, qiniseka ukuba usekufuphi kwaye umxelele ukuba ukulungele ukukunceda ukuba ufuna. Mkhumbule kwigumbi elinokucocwa lula ukuba kunokwenzeka (ityil okanye imithi elukhuni-yile, i-carpet-boo) kwaye unamathele kwixesha elibiweyo. Imizuzu engamashumi amathathu yindawo yokuqala yokuqala. Ukuba usebenzisa indlu yokuhlambela naphi kodwa i-potty okanye i-diaper, kufuneka abuyele iimpahla zakhe. Ukuba uyala, khumbula ukuba ungumzali kwaye unokhetho.
Yimisa phantsi Xa Izinto Ziba nzima
Ndidla ngokuva abazali bethetha ukuba umntwana wabo "wenqaba" ukwenza into ethile. Ngokuqinisekileyo ndiyayiqonda indlela enamandla ngayo intsapho yomntwana onokuthi ibe yinto enzima ngayo nje ukutshatyalaliswa kwayo kwaye ugweme umdlalo. Ngomzuzu, oko kubonakala kusebenza. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, kunjalo, akukho nto kwaye yenza uqeqesho lube nzima. Le ngenye yezihlandlo apho wenza oko unokukwazi ukulungiselela iimfuno zakhe, nangona kunjalo, kufuneka ahloniphe imigaqo oyifake kuyo.
Amaxesha ambalwa okuqala kufuneka abuyele iimpahla zakhe, kungekuhle ukuba kulunge, kodwa ukuba uya kulandela, akuyi kuba ngumzabalazo ngalunye ixesha kwaye ekugqibeleni uya kuthobela imithetho yakho. Gxininisa ukubeka iimpahla zakhe kwaye ungagxininisi kwengozi. Mbeke iingubo kuye ukuba akayi kuyenza ngokwabo kwaye aqhubeke ewabuyisela. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ekugqibeleni uyaqonda ukuba unzulu kwaye akusiyo ixesha lokuhamba nge-naked.
Yintoni Okumele Yenze Ukuba Izinto Ziya Kuqala
Ukuba uzama ukusebenzisana nemithetho, unokufuna ukwenza izinto zibe nzima kuye. Ndandibona ezinye iipasjama kweli veki ziyingxenye enye kwaye zihlala ngoba i-zipper isemva. . Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kunceda kwimibandela ojongene naye ebusuku.
Amanye amaqhinga:
- Ukubeka iimpahla kumva ukuze kunzima ukususa
- Ukutshintshela kwiibhanti zengubo njengeziqeshana kunye nezikhuselo zingakhuseleka ngakumbi
- Ukusebenzisa iteksi yokudoba ukukhusela i-diapers okanye ukufihla i-zippers kunye nezibophelelo
- Ukugqoka umntwana wakho kummandla osondeleyo ngokuhamba nge-naked - cinga ukukhanya okulula okanye nje itanki ephezulu kunye ne-diaper engafanelekanga - ngethemba lokuba inkululeko (kwiimpahla ezithintekayo) iya kulawula.
Enye indlela yokwenza ukuthotyelwa kulungele ixesha lakhe xa ukongeza ixesha lokuphuma ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Njalo xa enqaba ukubeka iingubo zakhe xa eceliwe kwaye kunye nantoni naxa ethatha ingubo yakhe ngaphandle kwexesha lakho elikhethiweyo, mbeke iingubo zakhe kwaye ugxininise ixesha lokuphuma. ( Funda kabanzi malunga nendlela yokwenza umsebenzi wokuphuma ixesha apha .)
Emva kokuba unike ezi zizombululo, uya kufuneka udibane kunye nezidingo zakho. Ixesha liphinde lisekho ecaleni lakho lokuba ulungelo lwalo lokutshabalalisa olutsha luza kulugcoba kungekudala, ukutshintshwa ngenye enye into ebalulekileyo yokuzimela. Kodwa ukuba kusekho ingxaki emva kokuthatha le nyathelo, unokufuna ukucinga ngokufuna iingcebiso zengcali. Oku kuyinyaniso ngokuthe xa intombi yakho ibonakala ingokwenyama kwaye ixinekile ngokweempahla. Umboneleli wakho wezempilo unokukuthumela kumntu ohlala kuyo ukuze ancede ukuba unqume ukuba umntwana wakho ubandezeleke ngxaki yokulungisa ingxaki okanye enye into.