Ukukhokela Indlela Yokuziphatha Kwamantombazana Ngezixhobo
Njengokuba kukho imeko ezininzi zokuba ngumzali, akukho bukhulu bomntu obunjalo-yonke indlela yokuqeqesha abantwana. Uqeqesho olungakumbi oluluncedo lwakho oluluncedo. Abazali banokufumanisa ukuba ngaphezu koko baxhomekeke kwindlela enye, indlela engasebenzi ngayo. Zama ezinye zezi ndlela kwaye uhlawule ingqalelo ekuphenduleni komntwana wakho. Yiba ngokulinganayo njengoko kunokwenzeka, kodwa qhubeka uguquguquka xa indlela yakho yokukhetha ingasebenzi.Ukubuyisela
Ungasebenzisa yonke inzondelelo kunye namandla omncinane wakho owenza ukungalunganga kwaye uyisebenzise kakuhle. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho ulahla isanti kumdlali odlala naye, unomsusa kwi-sandbox kwaye unike ibhola esikhundleni. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana wakho usenokwenza into afuna ukuyenza (ukujikijela) kodwa uyiphendule ibe yindawo efanelekileyo.Ukuphazamiseka
Ukuphazamiseka kufana nokubuyela kumsebenzi kodwa kunokuba ugxile kwimisebenzi efanayo, khetha izinto ezingahambelaniyo okanye eziphambene nokuziphatha komntwana okubonisayo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho ukhetha kwi-strand evulekile kwindawo yokuhlala yombhoxo kwaye uyika ukuba uya kuwuqhawula, unokwenza umsebenzi wokupenda ngomnwe kwisihlalo esiphezulu. Oku kunika umntanakho into ejabulisayo ukuyenza kwaye unako ukulungisa okanye ukususa umbhoxo wokulungisa emva koko. Le ndlela isebenza kakuhle ngeendlela zokuziphatha ezingaqhelekanga ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa ukuba wena okanye abanye ufumane ukucaphukisa. Akuyona indlela efanelekileyo yokuziphatha okungathí sina okanye ukuphindaphinda amatyala afuna umsebenzi omningi.Ukungayithobeli
Ukungayithobeli kunokuba nzima ukukhupha, kodwa kunokusebenza ngokugqithiseleyo. Kukho amaxesha apho ukuqwalasela ukuziphatha okungafunekiyo kunempembelelo yokwenza kube nzima.Umzekelo, ukuba awuqhelekanga ngokuqhelekileyo, kodwa kwenzeke ukuba wenze njalo ngolunye usuku kunye nomncinci wakho uyaphinda, vumela uhambe. Mhlawumbi akusayi kuphinda kwenzeke ngaphandle kokuba wenze into enkulu malunga nayo.
Okanye ngaba abantakwabo bebhikisana kodwa akukho mntu utyhafisayo, kufuneka uzame ukungabandakanyeki ukuze bakwazi ukusebenza kwizakhono zabo zokuxazulula iingxaki kunye.
Ungakwazi ukuphelisa ukuvutha komsindo xa umntwana wakho eqonda ukuba awuyi kubuyiselwa impendulo efanayo. Njalo qiniseka ukuba ukhuselekile kwaye uyayihoxisa indlela yokuziphatha.
Iziphumo zendalo
Andiqinisekanga ukuba ngaba bazali le mihla bafumana ingcamango yokuba ubuntwana bamele banjengobunqabileyo kunye nokukhululeka kunokwenzeka. Ndicinga ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ukugqithisa ukuphendulela kwiimeko ezininzi ezixhaphakileyo zokuxhaphazwa kwabantwana ziza kukhanya. Ubunzima bokuphazamiseka nokungahambi kakuhle lunokuba ngumfundisi osebenzayo, nangona kunjalo, kwaye akukho ndlela ehlukumezayo xa usebenzisa ingqiqo. Yenza umntwana wakho abe nemiphumo yezenzo zakhe xa unako. Ungamlondolozi umntwana wakho konke ukubuhlungu okanye uzama ukwenza izinto zibe lula. Jonga ngononophelo ngalezi zihlandlo ezifundiswayo - ininzi yexesha awunakuze uphakamise umnwe ukuze usebenze. Misela nje ukunyanzela: "Ndakucela ukuba ufumane ithoyizi yakho kaninzi kwaye awuzange uyenze, ngoko ngoku ku-Grandma kuze kube sexesha elizayo."Iziphumo zeMveli
Akufuneki ukuba yendalo ukuba isebenze, kodwa qaphela. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uqala ukubeka kunye kunye nokusebenza kwakhe okokuqala. Abanye abazali abayithandi le ndlela kuba uvakalelwa njengesijeziso. Ndijonge ngaphezu kokufumana ithikithi elikhawulezayo. Kukho umgaqo apho kwaye ukuba andizange ndilandele, kufuneka ndihlawule ixabiso kwaye ndinokulahlekelwa ngamalungelo okuqhuba. Akuthathe ixesha elide ukuba abantwana bafunde oku. Yilungele kwaye ilungele.Sebenzisa "ukuba-ke-ke" iingxelo. "Ukuba uthatha ithoyilo lomntakwenu kude naye kufuneka uhambe kwindawo yokudlala," okanye "Ukuba uqhubeka uphonsa iindonga kwiwindow, siya kungena ngaphakathi."
Susa amalungelo okanye amathoyizi ukuba oku kukhuthaza umntwana wakho. "Awukwazi ukubukela uDora namhlanje uze ugqoke."
Kuphele ixesha
Ukuphuma kwexesha kungasebenza njengendlela yokuba umntwana wakho adibanise xa ehlutha. Inokukunceda ukuba ayeke ukuziphatha kakubi okanye aqale ukuziphatha ngendlela ongathanda ngayo. Injongo ephambili kukumnceda ukuba afunde indlela yokulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe kwaye le ndlela ingasebenza.Sebenzisa xa umntwana wakho engaphandle ubonisa umsindo okanye ungabikho kolawulo. Yithi, "andinakukuqonda xa ukhaluma," okanye "Ndiyayiqonda ukuba ucaphukile, kodwa kufuneka uzinciphe." Emva koko mkhombise umntwana wakho kwindawo ephumayo, umvumele ukuba aphinde abuyele xa ephinda aphinde alawulwe.
Ungasebenzisa ixesha elifutshane ixesha emva kokunika umntwana wakho isilumkiso malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe kwaye, ekuhambeni kwexesha, uya kufunda ukuba imithetho yakho ibalulekile kwaye uya kwenza ukhetho olungcono.