Efana neRedirection
Ukuphazamiseka yindlela yokufumana umntwana omncinci onxulumene nokuhlaziya . Ukubuyiselwa kubandakanya ukuqeqesha abantwana ngokukhetha imisebenzi enokuthi isebenze njengendawo yokuphuma kuyo. Ukuphazamiseka kuquka ukuqeqesha abantwana ngokukhetha imisebenzi engahambelani nokuziphatha kwabantwana. Zombini iindlela zifanelekile eziselula, kodwa abazali kufuneka bakhethe ukuwasebenzisa ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo okanye ukufezekisa iinjongo ezahlukeneyo.
U mzekelo
Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho uzama ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba angene phantsi kwequla kumakhaya omngane ongekho umntwana, ufanele unqume konke owenzayo kwaye ufumane umsebenzi okhuselekileyo kumntwana, njengokufunda incwadi entsha okanye ukuphatha intlama yomdlalo kwindawo sihlalo o phezulu. Njengoko umntwana eqhuba kulo msebenzi, ungayifumana ikhitshi okanye ukhuphe indlela yokugcina ikhabhinethi ikhiyiwe.
Kuphi na ukuphazamiseka kuya kudlala? Yithi nje uhlambulule igumbi lokuhlala kwaye uza kuba neenkampani. Umntwana wakho ungena kwaye uqala ukulahla iibhakethi zamathoyizi. Unokukhawuleza unike umntwanakho umsebenzi ("Uya kuhamba ufumane i-hairbrush yakho, ngoko ndiyakwazi ukulungisa i-ponytails yakho?") Efuna ukuba aphume ekamelweni. Ufuna ukuba ayeke oko akwenzayo kwaye amenze ahambe ngendlela ehluke ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuphazamiseka ngokubhekiselele ekubuyiselweni
Injongo apha akuyi kubeka endaweni yokuphosa amatye (engafanelekanga) ngokuphosa iibhola (ezifanelekileyo), njengokulungiswa kwakhona.
Kunoko, ufuna ukuthabatha ingqondo yombane kunye nombane kude nomsebenzi ongafanelekanga. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokumxelela ukuba ayeke ukuziphatha okungafunekiyo, kodwa amaxesha amaninzi kunye nabantwana abaselula, oku akunakwanele. Ukumxelela "akekho" kunokubangela ukulwa nokuthanda, ukunyaniseka okanye ukubetha.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho amaxesha apho ungathanda ukusebenzisana nale nkwenkwezi okanye ukunyaniseka ukuze umntwana wakho afunde ukuba imisebenzi ethile ayisoloko yamkeleka (njengokutshiza okanye ukulimaza isilwanyana). Kuloo meko, ukuphazamiseka akuyona indlela efanelekileyo yokuqeqesha. Kodwa kula maxesha xa ufuna nje ukuziphatha ukuyeka okanye ungenalo ixesha okanye amandla okujongana nokuphazamiseka, ukuphazamiseka kuyindlela esheshayo yokusingatha imeko.
Ukuqhawula phezulu
Njengokuba kukho imeko ezininzi zokuba ngumzali, akukho nto ifanayo-ifanayo-yonke indlela yokuziphatha komncinci. Uqeqesho olunezixhobo ezininzi onalo, olulungileyo. Abazali banokufumanisa ukuba ngaphezu koko baxhomekeke kwindlela enye, indlela engasebenzi ngayo. Xa usebenzisa ukuphazamiseka, hlawula ingqalelo indlela impendulo yomntwana wakho ngayo. Yiba ngokulinganayo njengoko kunokwenzeka, kodwa qhubeka uguquguquka xa ufumanisa ukuba ukuphazamiseka akusebenzi. Unokuba ufuna ukuzama enye inqubo yobuncinane bokuqeqesha .