Uphononongo olutsha olupapashwe ngoJuni 2012, lwabonisa ukuba abafundi besikolo esiphakeme e-United States babenentuthuko ebonakalayo kwiminyaka emibini edlulileyo ekuphuculeni iimpawu ezinobungozi zolutsha ezinxulumene neyona nto ebangela ukuba bafe ebudeni babo, ukuphazamiseka kwemoto. Abaninzi abaselula bayaphakamisa kwaye bancinci batywala kunye nokuqhuba . Kodwa, umkhuba omtsha wokuthetha okanye ukuthumela ngefowuni kwiifowuni zabo ukongeza izinga lokufa kwentsha.
I-teknoloji iye yazisa ingozi emitsha kwindawo yokuxhatshazwa njengomnye wabashumi abathandathu ababikwe ukuxhatshazwa nge-imeyile, amagumbi okuxoxa, ukuthumela imiyalezo ngokukhawuleza, iiwebhusayithi okanye ukuthumela imiyalezo kwiinyanga ezili-12 ezidlulileyo. Ukusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa ze-Marijuana kuphakanyisiwe kwaye kusetyenziswe intsha yabesini ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokutshaya ugwayi. Ingxelo nayo yonke imingcipheko yongcipheko yolutsha ingabonakaliswa apha, iNkqubo yoLondolozo lwengqondo yokuLungelwa koLutsha: i-2011 Inkqubo yeSizwe yeMngcipheko wezeMpilo kunye neziPhumo zezeMpilo ngo-Sex. Kuxhalaba kubazali ukuba abafundi abaninzi bezikolo eziphakamileyo kwilizwe lonke bayaqhubeka beqhuba ukuziphatha okubabeka engozini kwiingxaki zempilo. Abazali bafanele baqaphele ukuba kukho iindlela ezithile zokuziphatha ezinobungozi ezinokuthi zifumaneke phakathi kwabafundi besilisa kunabantwana besifazane. Ngokweengxelo kubafana:
- kunqabile okanye akalokothi agqoke amabhande evili;
- kunqabile okanye akalokothi agqoke iinqununu zemoto;
- benzakaliswa ngelixa besetyenziselwa, badlala imidlalo, okanye bakhuthele;
- ukuqhuba emva kokusela utywala ;
- isixhobo sokuthwala;
- umpu ophetheyo;
- ukuthatha inxaxheba kunye nokulimala kwimfazwe emzimbeni;
- isikhali esithwala impahla yesikolo;
- esongelwa okanye esenzakaliswa ngesixhobo esikwipropati yesikolo;
- ekulweni ngokomzimba kwipropati yesikolo;
- ukusetyenziswa kwecuba langokutsha;
- benzisa i-cigar yangoku;
- utywala obukhulu;
- ukusetyenziswa kwentsholongwane kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamathambo;
- tyenziswa kwekhocaine;
- heroin yokuphila, i-steroid engekho mthethweni, kunye nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi ezijoyiweyo;
- ukuqala ugwayi, utywala kunye nentambo ye-mariju phambi kweminyaka eyi-13;
- ukutshaya iteksi, utywala kunye nentambo ye-marijuana kwipropati yesikolo, ngamanye amaxesha kuthethwa ngamanani 420 ;
- kunikwa, kuthengiswa, okanye kunikwe iziyobisi ezingekho mthethweni kwisakhiwo sesikolo;
- ukuqala ukulala ngesondo ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-13 ubudala;
- Ukuba nabalingane bobulili abane ngexesha lokuphila kwabo;
- ukusetyenziswa kotywala okanye ukusebenzisa iziyobisi ekugqibeleni ukulala ngesondo;
- iqabane lawo lingasebenzisi iipilisi zokulawula ukuzala ngaphambi kokulala ngokwesondo; kwaye
- esengozini yokugqithisa ngokweqile kunye nokugqithisa.
Ngokwahlukileyo, abafundi bebhinqa babekho amathuba kunokuba abafundi besilisa baxele:
- ukuphoqeleka ukuba ulalane ngesondo;
- uziva uhlungu okanye ungenathemba;
- iimpawu ezinxulumene nokuzibulala;
- iqabane lawo lingasebenzisi ikhondom ekugqibeleni ngokwesondo;
- ukusela <3 iziglasi / imini yobisi;
- ukuzila ukutya ukunciphisa umzimba okanye ukulawula inzuzo;
- ukuthatha iipilisi zokutya, i-powders, okanye i-liquids ukuze unciphise umthamo okanye ulawule inzuzo;
- ukuthatha i-laxative okanye ukuhlanza ukuze unciphise ubunzima okanye ulawule inzuzo;
- ukungathathi inxaxheba kwimisebenzi eyenziwa ngamandla okanye ngokulinganayo;
- ukungathathi inxaxheba ekuqiniseni imisebenzi; kwaye
- ukungabandakanyeli kumaqela ezemidlalo.
Ukufumana ulwazi oluninzi malunga nokuziphatha komngcipheko wolutsha, tyelela ezi zixhobo:
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