Abadala abaneminyaka emihlanu Bakulungele Ukwandisa uLuntu lwaBantu
Kukho iintsuku apho wakho oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala wayeseyingane, ehamba ngokukhawuleza ekudibanisaneni nomdlali kunye nokubandakanya kwizinto ezibizwa ngokuba "ngumdlalo ofana." Okwangoku, nokuba umntwana wakho uyintlankqalazi yentlalo okanye intshontsho enomtsalane ngakumbi, uya kwandisa kunye nabanye abantwana, nokuba ku-nursergart okanye kwimini yokudlala .
Uya kuqala nokwandisa ubudlelwane bakhe nehlabathi ngokubanzi njengoko eqonda ngokubanzi malunga nehlabathi elikujikelezile. Nantsi umfanekiso oqhelekileyo wokuphuhliswa kwentlalontle eneminyaka emihlanu.
Bahlobo
Ubuhlobo buqala ukubaluleka ngakumbi kubantwana abaneminyaka emihlanu. Umntwana lo mdala angaqala ukukhangela abahlobo abathile abakhethiweyo kunye neenjongo zokubambisana ngokubambisana nabantwana ababini okanye abathathu. Abazali bamele baqaphele ukuba le nto ingabonakaliswa yile ngqungquthela inokuthi ifake kunye nokwehliswa kwezinto, ngoko ke kufuneka bahlale bejonge amehlo kwiiiklasi kunye neqela lokudlala. Kwaye kuba buhlungu njengoko kunokucinga, inyaniso kukuba ukuxhatshazwa kunokwenzeka kwi-nursergarten .
Ukuziphatha kunye neMithetho
Abantu abaneminyaka emihlanu baqala ukuqonda umahluko phakathi "kokunene" kunye "nokungalunganga." Baya kuba nako ukuqonda ingqiqo yemithetho kwaye baya kufuna ukuwalandela kwaye nceda abantu abadala.
Ngelo xesha, uneminyaka emihlanu ubudala unokuzama ukutshintshe imida njengoko uzama ukuzama izinto ezintsha kwaye azenzele izinto ezithandayo kunye nokuthanda kwakhe.
Njengokuba kuthiwa "ngamabini anesabisayo," oku kungaba yisigaba apho ubona ukuxabana nomntwana wakho njengoko evavanya ukulinganiselwa kwakhe.
Ubudlelwane
Abadala abaneminyaka emihlanu baqala ukuphuhlisa indlela abahlobo bezobudlelwane babo basebenzisana ngayo kwaye banokubuza imibuzo eninzi malunga nobani otshatileyo kunye nobani umntakwenkwenkwe okanye umntakwabo.
Baya kuba nomdla ngakumbi ukwazi ukuba amalungu abo entsapho ahlobene njani kwaye baya kubuza malunga neentsapho zabo zabahlobo.
Ukunika, Ukukwabelana kunye novelwano
Abaninzi abaneminyaka emihlanu ubudala baya kuthanda ukunika nokubelana (kunye nokufumana!). Le nto yinto enoba abantwana abancinci bayelungele ukuyenza, kodwa ezintlanu, xa abantwana abaninzi besetyenzisweni apho badibanisa nabahlobo nabalingana nabo, ukukwazi ukuxhalabisa abanye, ukwabelana, kunye novelwano kuya kudlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu ekusebenzisaneni kweentlalo zentlalo .
Ixesha Lodwa
Njengoko abantwana bekhula, abanye ngokusemthethweni badinga ixesha elilodwa ukuba badlale kwaye bahlale bebodwa. Oku, kwakhona, kuya kuba yikhono elibalulekileyo , ngokuninzi nokufunda indlela yokusebenzisana kakuhle nabanye kubalulekile ekuphuculweni kwezempilo kuluntu.
Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Akayihlanganisi Lezi zinto ezibalulekileyo
Abantwana bakhula kumaxabiso ahlukeneyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amantombazana aya kuphuhlisa izakhono zentlalo kunye nezentlalo ngokukhawuleza kunokuba amakhwenkwe. Noko ke, ubunzima ngeemeko ezibalulekileyo, nangona kunjalo, lunokubonisa ukuba ngumngeni uphuhliso olufunekayo. Ukuba ukhathazeke ngokuphuhliswa kwengqondo komntwana wakho, fika kumntwana wezingane kunye notitshala kunye nokwabelana ngeengcamango zakho.
Emva koko, ukuba kufanelekile, cinga ukuthatha inyathelo.
> Imithombo
- > Amacandelo okuLawula nokuLawula izifo. Iimpawu ezibaluleke kakhulu: umntwana wakho ngeminyaka emihlanu. KwiWebhu. 2017.
- > Abazali bePBS. Umtsalane wokuphuhlisa abantwana: wakho oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala. KwiWebhu. 2017.