Uphuhliso oluneminyaka emihlanu ubudala lubangele ukugqithisa ngokomzwelo kunye nokuphikisana. Kule minyaka, abantwana abaninzi basasaza ixesha elidlulileyo elide elidlulileyo leminyaka yokufunda kunye ne-"school big" isigaba sokuphuhliswa esizayo.
Umntwana oneminyaka emihlanu unokukwazi ukubonisa ukuzithiba okungakumbi kunomncinci, kwaye uninzi lwaba bantwana kulo nyaka luyakwazi ukuhlala ixesha elide kwigumbi lokufundela nokuphulaphula imiyalelo yomfundisi.
Ngexesha elifanayo, umntwana lo nyaka usefunda ukulawula iimvakalelo zakhe, kwaye uya kuhlala eselungelelanisa ukutshatyalaliswa kwezinto ezincinci njengengilazi yobisi.
Ukuphuhliswa Kwemvakalelo yezingane ezineminyaka emi-5 ubudala
Amazwi kunye neemvakalelo
Eli lixesha xa abaninzi abantwana beqala ukucacisa iimvakalelo zabo ngendlela enentsingiselo. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana oneminyaka emihlanu unokuthi, "Andiyithandi xa ndiza kulala ngethuba lokuqala." Abantwana ngokuqhelekileyo banesiva, yaye oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala obona umhlobo osizini unokuthi, "Ndiyaxolisa ukuba udidekile." Ukuba umntwana lo mdala uphazamisekile malunga nento ethile, unokumxelela nje oko akucingayo, kwaye uthethe into enjengale, "Ndiyadumala kuwe, Mama."
Ukugxeka abanye kunye nabo
Abaninzi abaneminyaka emihlanu ubudala baya kubonisa izinto abazibonayo ezihlukileyo okanye ezingalunganga ekuziphatheni kwabanye kunye nokubonakala kwazo. Ngexesha elifanayo, abantwana beli minyaka banokubaluleka kakhulu kwaye banokuba nzima ngabo ukuba bacinga ukuba benze iphutha okanye bengenzi umsebenzi omhle ngento ethile.
Ngokufanayo, unokubona abantwana abaneminyaka emihlanu bebonisa ukuzithemba (unokuxelela abantwana abancinci malunga nazo zonke izinto angayenza ngoku njengengane "enkulu", umzekelo), kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukuwa xa eqonda ukuba akakwazi ukwenza into njengoko wayefuna.
Ukuzimela
Njengamaninzi amaninzi kule minyaka, abantwana abaneminyaka emihlanu ubudala baya kuba nomnqweno wokuzimelela yonke into ngokukhetha iimpahla zabo zokutya ukutya ezithile.
Kubantwana kule minyaka, kuya kubakho iinyembezi kunye neentlungu zoxinzelelo, njengoko umnqweno wokuba yinkwenkwe enkulu kunye nokuzimelela ngakumbi akunakuze kube njalo ngenxa yokuba bengenakulungele ukuphuhlisa imisebenzi ethile okanye imisebenzi. Abazali abaninzi beenkulisa bayazi, ezi zimemezelo zokuzimela ziyakwazi ukudala imfazwe yokuthanda.
Ngexesha elifanayo, abantwana abaninzi kulo nyaka baya kuqhubeka befuna i-cuddles kunye ne-induduzo, kwaye baya kufuna ukuba "babied" rhoqo ngezikhathi-umzekelo abazali abanokulindela ukufumana amazinga ahlukeneyo kwiminyaka embalwa ezayo.
Kuthiwani Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Akadibana Neziganeko Ezinzima?
Ukuba umntwana wakho unenkxalabo yokuphuhliswa ngokomzwelo, unokuthi nje uhlakulele ngesantya sakhe. Kwezinye iimeko, nangona kunjalo, iingxaki ezihambelanayo okanye ezinzima kunye nokulawulwa kwemimandla zingabonisa ukuba uphuhliso okanye umbandela omele ulungiswe ngawo. Ukuba unomdla, khuluma nomntwanantwana wengane yakho kunye notitshala ukuba ufumane ukuba ngaba iingxaki zakho zifanelekile.
> Imithombo
> Amacandelo okuLawula nokuLawula izifo. Iimpawu ezibaluleke kakhulu: umntwana wakho ngeminyaka emihlanu.
> Abazali bePBS. Umtsalane wokuphuhlisa abantwana: wakho oneminyaka emithandathu ubudala.