Abazali Bangabandakanyeka Kakhulu KwiZikolo?

Iingcamango zokuxhasa ukuphumelela komntwana wakho esikolweni

Emva kweminyaka emininzi yokuzama ukunyusa ukubandakanyeka kwabazali ezikolweni, iziphumo ziqala ukuvela kuphando lwezemfundo . Iindaba ezilungileyo kwizikolo apho ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kuphakamileyo, kwaye iinzuzo kubantwana zikhuthaza. Xa abazali bebandakanyeka kwizikolo zezingane kunye nemfundo, abantwana banamabanga aphezulu kunye namanqaku okuhlolwa okulinganiselweyo, ukuziphatha okuphuculweyo ekhaya nasezikolweni, kunye nezakhono ezingcono kwezentlalo kunye nokulungelelanisa esikolweni.

Xa abazali beva ukuba badinga ukubandakanyeka esikolweni sabantwana babo, okokuqala isenzo sabanye bavakalelwa benetyala ngenxa yokuba bengabandakanyekanga kwiNkqubo yabazali-Mfundisi. Ukuba oko kukukhuthaza ukuba utyhale ixesha kunye namandla akho kwiqela lakho lomzali wendawo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuvuna inzuzo yale nqanaba yokubandakanyeka kwimfundo yengane yakho. Kodwa ngoJoyce Pollard weThala leeNcwadi lePhuhliso lweMfundo leNtshona- ntshona , indlela eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu yokuba unokubandakanyeka kwimfundo yengane yakho kukubonelela ngeendawo zokufunda ezicebileyo ekhayeni lakho ukuxhasa impumelelo yomfundi wakho. Eminye imisebenzi yokubandakanyeka kwabazali ezuze uphuhliso lwemfundo yabantwana kukuthetha nootitshala kunye nesikolo; xubusha ngemisebenzi yesikolo nomntwana wakho; kwaye, iliso kwaye ilungele umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo.

Uphando malunga noluntu lwabazali abandakanyekayo kwisikolo sabantwana bafumana ukuba abazali abafumana imfundo ephezulu kunye neengeniso baya kwiinkomfa zezikolo, ukuzithandela ezikolweni kunye nokuxhasa iziganeko zezikolo ukuphucula ukuphumelela kwabafundi babo.

Abazali kuzo zonke iinkalo zentlalo "banomgangatho wendawo yokudlala" kwimfundo yabantwana ngokuthatha ixesha lokubandakanya. Ootitshala banikela ingqalelo ngakumbi abantwana xa bezazi abazali babo ekutyelelweni kwesikolo. Ngoko, yenza kube yinto ephambili ekuya kuzo iziganeko zezikolo kunye neentlanganiso eziza kukunceda ukuqonda nokuxhasa imfundo yomntwana wakho.

Abazali abanomatasa banokuthi bathathe inxaxheba kwimfundo yabantwana babo? Fumana iingcamango ezikhawulezayo malunga neendlela zokubandakanyeka kunye nokuxhasa imfundo yezikole yomntwana wakho.

Yenza ikhaya lakho libe yindawo ecebileyo yokufunda. Ingxoxo yokutya, ukuhamba, imidlalo, ixesha lokufunda, imidlalo yezemidlalo, ulawulo olufanelekileyo, inhlangano yasekhaya, kunye nemigangatho yemihla ngemihla yonke inokufaka isandla ekuphunyezweni komfundi esikolweni.

Sebenzisa izixhobo kuluntu wakho ukubonelela ngemisebenzi yokucebisa umntwana wakho. Ukufunda okunolwazi kwiimyuziyamu, ukuzonwabisa, ukudanisa, kunye nezifundo zobugcisa, iinkqubo zemidlalo, iilayibrari, kunye neekholeji zemfundo yoluntu ziya kuphucula ulwazi lolwazi lomntwana wakho kunye nokukhuthaza umkhuba wokufunda ubomi.

Sebenzisa ikhomputer yakho ukucebisa nokuxhasa impumelelo yomfundi wakho. Qala ngokuqonda oko umntwana wakho afunda esikolweni kunye noko ukufundwa kwamandla kunye nezidingo zakhe. Jonga ngeencwadi zakhe zokufunda kwaye uzifundele ngamanqaku akhe okuvavanya ukuze ufumane izikhokelo zokufumanisa izixhobo ezifanelekileyo kwi-intanethi kunye nesofthiwe yokuphucula ukuqonda kwakhe ngezinto ezifundiswayo kunye nokulungisa apho ilahlekile khona.

Hlangana noMhla woTitshala

Ukutyelela kwakho kokuqala konyaka ngokuqhelekileyo ngemini ngaphambi kokuba isikolo siqale xa umntwana wakho efumanisa ukuba ngubani na utitshala wakhe, kwaye ngabaphi na abahlobo bakhe abakwikamelo lakhe kulo nyaka!

Senza lo mhla wokuzonwabisa ukuze sivuyiselwe ukubuyela esikolweni. Abazali bafumana ithuba lokudibana nootitshala kwaye babone igumbi lokufundela apho umntwana esiya kuchitha khona iintsuku zakhe. Thatha ixesha lokujonga iincwadi zezifundo zomntwana wakho; utitshala unokukuvumela ukuba uwahambise ekhaya. Ziqhelise ngezinto ezifundiswa ngumntwana wakho ukuba azilungiselele iingcamango zakho zasekhaya. Ukuba isikolo sakho asinayo "Hlangana noMhla woLutitshala," qhagamshelana nomlawuli wesikolo ukujonga ukuba kukho indlela onokuqhagamshelana ngayo notitshala womntwana wakho ngaphambi kokuba kuqale ixesha.

Yenza Uninzi Lweenkomfa Zabazali

Leli thuba lokubuza imibuzo kunye nelizwi naziphi na iinkxalabo onayo malunga nomntwana wakho.

Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, cinga ngezinto ezimbini okanye ezintathu ofuna ukuxoxa ngazo notitshala. Thatha incwadana kwenkomfa ukuze ukwazi ukufumana ulwazi olubalulekileyo utitshala anikezela ngalo ngamanqaku okuvavanywa komntwana wakho, umsebenzi wesikolo, inxaxheba kwinqanaba kunye nesimo sengqondo, ukulungiswa koluntu kunye nekharityhulam. Buza uthisha indlela onokukunceda ngayo umntwana wakho ukuba afinyelele iinjongo zezinga lebanga lomntwana wakho. Qiniseka ukuba ukhumbule izinto eziphathekayo uthisha athetha ngayo ngomntwana wakho ukuba umxelele xa ufika ekhaya!

Uninzi ootitshala banayo i-akhawunti ye-imeyile kule mihla. Ukuba uthisha wakho ngumntwana we-teknoloji, mnike idilesi yakho ye-imeyile kwaye umcele ukuba axhumane nawe xa kukho ingxaki okanye ukuba ufuna nje ukukwazisa okuthile ngomntwana wakho. Mbuze ukuba unokuqhagamshelana naye nge-imeyile xa unemibuzo malunga nomntwana wakho esikolweni.

Amaqela omzali, enoba ahambelana namaqela okukhuthaza abafana ne-PTA okanye ukuba asebenza njengamaqela angaqhelekanga kunye namaziko azimeleyo, anike ixesha, amandla, kunye nemali ukubonelela isikolo izibonelelo kunye namathuba onke izikolo ezifuna ukuxhasa izinga eliphezulu lokuphumelela.

Kunzima kubazali abasebenza nzima ukuba baye kuzo zonke iintlanganiso okanye bathathe inxaxheba kuyo yonke ikomiti okanye isiganeko esixhaswe yiqela labazali. Amaqela omzali ahlakaniphile ahlula umsebenzi ukuze kungabikho mntu ophazamisayo. Ukuba ixesha leentlanganiso lishiya ebomini bakho, iya kwiintlanganiso zokuqala nezokugqibela zonyaka, ubuncinci, ukwenzela ukuba uyazi oko kucebelwe. Khetha umsebenzi okanye isiganeko esisebenza kuwe kwaye wenze inxalenye yakho ukuxhasa iinjongo zeqela.

Amaqela omzali anika abazali ilizwi kwiikolo zabo zendawo. Baxhasa izikolo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ezifana nezenzo zokuzithandela, iziganeko zokuxabisa ootitshala, kunye nokuxhaswa ngemali kwizakhono zokufundisa ezifunekayo.