Ukuzala ngokusemgangathweni ngokuqinisekileyo sihloko esixutyushwa kakhulu. Kukho abo bazibuza ukuba kutheni umfazi we- anesthesia wayeza ku "bulawa" ngenxa yokungabi nantlungu yokuphucula amayeza ekusebenzeni. Kukho abanye abangaqinisekanga oko bakufunayo baze bangene kwaye bazame ukuzalwa okungenakuzaliswa . Kwaye ke kukho amabhinqa awazi kakuhle into abayifunayo - intlungu yokubakho emsebenzini.
Nazi izicatshulwa zezizathu ezithatyathwa ngumfazi ukuba ziphephe iilwimi zentlungu ebasebenzi:
1. Akukho Mngcipheko kuNyana
Oomama abaninzi abakhethiweyo ukuba babe nokuzalwa okungavunywanga kwenza oko ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukuthatha ingozi yemichiza emsebenzini. Bakhathazeka ngenxa yeengxaki ezinokuthi zenzeke xa kukho unyango oluchaphazelekayo. Ngoko bakhetha ukunqumla iyeza zentlungu ngenxa yokuzalwa kwabo. Ezinye iziyeza zentlungu zingandisa umngcipheko wokubandezeleka komntwana okanye ezinye iindlela zokungenelela. Abanye oomama bakhupha ngaphandle kwezi mngcipheko.
2. Abasebenzi abangabanjwanga
USusan wayengumama endisebenza naye kunye nabantwana bakhe abane. Wathi uthe waqesha i- doula ukuze amncede aphephe iyeza. Ndambuza ukuba kutheni engazange afune unyango lwamayeza. Impendulo yakhe kukuba wayefuna ukuphepha isigaba se-c esingadingekile. Wayevakalelwa kukuba ukuzalwa okungenamntwana kuye kwasusa enye yengozi ngokunciphisa ithuba lokuba uya kufuna iimpawu zentlungu kunye nezinye iyeza, okuvumela abasebenzi ukuba bathuthuke ngokuqhelekileyo.
Uninzi lwexesha lezemisebenzi lisebenza nje ngokukhawuleza, ukukhawulwa kwesinye ngexesha. Kukho ixesha lokungenelela, kodwa kukho nexesha apho ukungenelela kudibanisa ukuxutyushwa kweengxaki ezinokuthi zibandakanyeke.
3. I-Mindset yemvelo
Kukho ezininzi iintsapho ezikholelwa ekwenzeni yonke into engqondweni. Oku kungaquka ukutya okunempilo, ukuzisebenzisa, ukuphepha iimichiza ezingenasidingo kwaye ngokubanzi uphila ngendlela enempilo.
Xa kufika ixesha lokubeletha umama olandele le ntanda-ntliziyo unokukholelwa ukuba le yendalo yokwandisa impilo yakhe yangoku. Kananjalo naye unokukhetha akhetha olwabelana naye ngenkolelo yokuba ukukhulelwa kuyinkqubo yemvelo, kungekhona yonyango.
4. Ayikwazi ukufumana iMithi
Kukho nabasetyhini abangenakho ukufumana amayeza enhlungu ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Basenokungakwazi ukuba ne- epidural ngenxa yokulimala kwangaphambili komgudu okanye ezinye izizathu . Mhlawumbi imithi yeentlungu ze-IV ayikho inketho ngenxa yokugula okanye kwimiba yokuxilwa kwangaphambili. La mabhinqa akanayo ukhetho lwangempela kodwa ukufumana indlela yokusebenza ngaphandle kweyeza. Basenokufuna inkxaso eyongezelelweyo.
5. Ulwaphulo lokuzalwa kwangaphambili
Efanelekileyo okanye engalunganga, abanye abafazi bakhetha ukuzala ngaphandle kwemithi yelihlungu ngenxa yamava okuzalwa kwangaphambili. Mhlawumbi babenomdla wecala ngaphambili kwaye abazange bahlaziywe ziziphumo. Okanye mhlawumbi babenokuzalwa okungenakuzaliswa kwangaphambili kwaye babe namava amaninzi kwaye banqwenela ukuphindaphinda loo mava kulokhu kuzalwa. Indlela owabeletha ngayo ngaphambili iya kuba nefuthe ekukhetheni kwakho ukuba unokuzalwa okanye ungazalwanga ngokuzenzekelayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwangaphambili.
Umsebenzi ngumlingani omkhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha ucebe ukufumana unyango kwaye utshintshe ingqondo yakho okanye kwenzeka okuthile kwaye abayikhethwayo kuwe.
Ngamanye amaxesha uyacwangcisa ukuphepha imishanguzo, kwaye ivuselela ibe yindlela ekhethekileyo kuwe. Ingqondo evulekile ibalulekile ekusebenzeni.