Iindlela ezilishumi zokuphucula ukuziphatha komntwana wakho

Izicwangciso ezizodwa zemfuno ezizodwa

Abaninzi bethu baqala ukukhulisa abazali ngendlela esabazali ngayo, kwaye silindele ukuba abantwana bethu basabele ngendlela esenza ngayo. Abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa , nangona kunjalo, banokusiphosa ijika. Ukuba iindlela zokuzama kunye neyinyaniso zomama nobawo abazinqumanga kunye nonyana kunye nentombi yakho, lixesha lokwenza utshintsho. Izicwangciso ezilishumi apha zingaphikisana nento okhokelwa ngayo ekukholweni malunga nokukhulisa abantwana, kodwa abantwana abangabalulekanga bafuna ingqiqo ekhethekileyo.

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Qala ngokuHlaliswa koBume

Cinga ngemilinganiselo emibi njengemfihlelo, i-ordunnit eyinkimbinkimbi ngeenkcukacha kunye neenjongo kunye nobomvu. Ngubani onoxanduva? Benza ntoni? Xa, kuphi, kwaye kutheni kwenzeka? Ukuhlaselwa kwisigqibo esifanayo ngaso sonke isikhathi xa umntwana wakho ephosakeleyo unjengokubamba umnqamle naluphi na ixesha apho kubulawa ukubulawa. Ukuze uqalise, funda "Kutheni I-Kid My yenzayo?" kwaye ube ngumcuphi womcuphi ongcono.

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Sebenzisa Ishadi Lendlela

Cinga ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kuqonda / ukuthobela / ukunyamekela ngetshathi yokuziphatha? Ukuba ucinga malunga nenkqubo yemveli yokufumana umvuzo, unokuthi ulungile. Kodwa ngobuncwane obuncinane, kufuneka ukwazi ukuza neketshi okanye iskimu eshukumisayo esifanayo esiza kunika umntwana wakho isizathu sokuba mnandi ngakumbi. Ukuze uqalise, funda "Indlela yokwenza uMsebenzi weeKhathalelo zoKhuseleko" kwaye ulungiselele enye kwiimfuno neemfuno zomntwana onzima.

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Khetha Iimfazwe Zakho

"Kutheni kufuneka yonke into ibe yinto enjalo ?" Into enokuthi ubuye wabuza umntwana wakho ixesha okanye elishumi, kodwa umbuzo ufanele uzibuze yona, nawe: Kutheni yonke into imele ibe yinto enjalo? Ngaba yonke imfazwe oyikhethayo iyakufanelekela ukukhetha? Gxininisa kwiinjongo ezibalulekileyo kunye neemfazwe onokuyina. Ukuze uqalise, funda "Ukukhetha iinqwelo zakho" kwaye ucinge ngeendlela oziphathe ngayo ngokwenene ekutshintsheni.

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Bala ukuya ku-10

"Omnye-ababini-abathathu" unokuba ngumlingo kwabanye abantwana, kodwa abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa bangadinga ixesha elide ukwenza konke okucwangcisiweyo kunye nokucwangciswa kwemoto kuthatha ukuhamba ngokuthula ukusuka kwixesha elidlulileyo ukuya kwixesha elilandelayo. Ukunyanzelisa umba ngokukhawuleza kathathu-manani kuya kuphelisa ekukhohlakaleni nasekuziphatheni okubi - kwaye oku kuvela kuwe. Ukuze uqalise, funda "Bala ukuya ku-10" kwaye uzame isicwangciso esinika wonke umntu igumbi elincinci lokuphefumula.

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Gcina enkulu "Bag of Tricks"

Ukuphazamiseka kancinci kubakho konke okufunekayo ukukhupha ukuziphatha okubi. Ukuba nexesha eliqhubekayo, kwaye lihlaziywa rhoqo, ukubonelela ngezinto kunye neengcamango zokuguqula umntwana wakho kungenza umehluko phakathi kwe-whiny, fussy, ixesha lokuxhamla kunye nokuzonwabisa, okuhlekisayo, okwanelisayo. Ukuze uqalise, funda "Yithwala iBig yeTricks 'uze uqalise ukugcwalisa isikhwama sakho okanye isikhwama se-diaper ngezinto ezithembekileyo okanye zikhuthaze umntwana wakho.

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Beka Iinjongo ezifumanekayo

Akukubi ukuba nomdla kumntwana wakho, okanye ukuba nethemba eliphezulu. Kodwa ukuba ubeka ibha ephakamileyo rhoqo kunokuba umntwana wakho angakwazi ukufikelela, udala isipiliyoni esipheleleyo sokungaphumeleli. Ukuphula iinjongo ezinkulu kubantwana kukunceda ukwakha kwimpumelelo.

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Gcina umkhondo weenguqulelo

Utshintsho lukhohlisayo kubantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa, kunye nabazali babo abaxinezelekileyo, nabo. Kungcono ukucinga ukuba utshintsho oluthile lomsebenzi ngokuphambi kokubhekisana nokuphazamiseka okungenakukupheka okwenzeka emva kokungahambi kakuhle. Ukuze uqalise, funda "Indlela yokwenza ishintsho" kwaye ucinge ngokuvumela ixesha elongezelelweyo, izilumkiso kunye novelwano njengoko uhambisa umntwana wakho ngosuku lwakhe.

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Yithetha Oko Uthethayo

Uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho akafumani imifanekiso yentetho kunye nelizwi lezwi kunye nokuqwengqa, ukhuthaze abanye ukuba bacace ngoxhulumaniso lwabo ... kodwa xa kuziwa kokubeka umthetho ekhaya, ngaba ngezinye iixesha uwela iintobe ezifanayo? Ukuqhagamshelana okucacileyo kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe kunabani na. Ukuze uqalise, funda "Yithetha Oko Ushoyo" kwaye qinisekisa ukuba izilindeleke zakho zibonakaliswe kumntwana wakho njengoko zinjalo kuwe.

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I-Scout Time-Out Spots

Ixesha lokuphuma lingaba sisixhobo esinempilo kubantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa, kodwa ukuthumela umntwana ekamelweni lakhe xa igumbi lakhe apho afuna khona ukuba lingabonakali, kwaye akunakunceda xa usendalini okanye esitolo okanye epakini . Njengoko kunye nayo yonke into, uya kufuneka ube nobuchule. Ukuze uqalise, funda "Iiphuzu ezi-10 eziphezulu zexesha lokuphumla" kwaye ukhethe osebenza kumntwana wakho okanye ekugqugquzela ukuba ucinge.

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Qhubeka Ukhangela iNdlela engcono

Ukuba ufumene iqhinga elisebenzela umntwana wakho, likhulu! Jabulela umva wokuba nobuchule bomzali ngelixa liqhubeka, kuba utshintsho olutsha olutsha luya kufuna indlela entsha. Ukufunda iincwadi zokubeletha ezibhekiselele ngqo kwiimfuno ezizodwa ziyakwenza ukuba ube neengcinga kunye nezicwangciso ezintsha. Ukuze uqalise, funda izibuyekezo kwiKlabhu yeNcwadi yabazali abaHlengiweyo kwaye ukhuthaze kwiingcali kunye nabazali njengawe.

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