Ukuphendula kwabazali ngokuqhelekileyo kwiNqanaba lokukhubazeka kwabantwana

Usizi kunye nokukhanyela kubonisa ukuphendulwa kokufunyanwa kwengxaki yomntwana

Ukufunda ukuba umntwana wakho unokukhubazeka ukufunda kungokuba yinto ebalulekileyo yokukhathazeka ebomini kubazali , kodwa akufanele udibanise kwiindaba zokuxilongwa . Awukwazi ukuhlangabezana kuphela, kodwa ungathatha amanyathelo okunika umntwana wakho unyameko olungakumbi ukuba asebenze ngokukhubazeka kwakhe.

Ngaphambi kokuba uqhubeke phambili, kunjalo, unokuziva uvakalelo oluvela ekuphumuleni ukuphelelwa yithemba kunye nayo yonke into ephakathi koko emva kokufumanisa umntwana wakho unokukhubazeka kokufunda . Abanye abazali abaphenduli nje kuphela kodwa basuka kwimvakalelo enye ukuya kwelinye, kuxhomekeke kubukhulu bokukhubazeka, izakhono zabo zokujamelana, kunye nokukwazi kwabo ukusebenzisana nabatshati okanye amanye amalungu entsapho ukuba banike abantwana babo iimfuno ezizodwa inkxaso ngenkxaso .

Nazi iindlela eziqhelekileyo zokufunda ukuba umntwana wakho unokukhubazeka ukufunda. Unokuhlangabezana nanoma yiyiphi na nayo yonke, mhlawumbi kwithuba lemizuzu.

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Ukulahlwa

Ukulahlwa kukwala ukuvuma ukuba umntwana wakho ukhubazekile. Abazali ekuphikeleni bangenza izizathu zokubekwa kwezikhalazo zemfundo kubafundi abafuni ukuvuma ukuba ukukhubazeka kubakho. Basenokuthi ulwaphulo lwezikole lusetyenzela ootitshala okanye umlingane esikhundleni sakhe. Basenokumangalela umntwana ukuba uvila okanye angavumi ukuvumela iinkonzo ezizodwa zemfundo ukuba zinikezelwe.

Kutheni ukuphika kwenzeka? Kuyatshitshisa kakhulu abanye abazali ukuba baqonde ukuba ukhubazekile. Ukulahlwa ngokuqhelekileyo ngumqondiso wobutya obunzulu obunzulu bokuthi ukukhubazeka kuthetha ukuba umntwana uya kulahleka ebomini, odla ngokuba ngumnye ukwesaba okukhulu komzali.

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Intukuthelo

Intulo ngumzala osondeleyo wokukhanyela ngenxa yokuba isekelwe kwintswelo. Abazali abacaphukile ngokukhubazeka komntwana bangabonisa iminwe kwabanye. Ingqumbo yabo ingavela ngendlela yokugxekwa, inkolelo yokuba inkqubo yesikolo ayikwazi ukukhonza umntwana ngokwaneleyo, kunye nexesha elinzima kunye nobunzima kwiNkqubo yeMfundo ye-Individualized Plan (IEP) .

Kutheni kuvele umsindo? Njengokuphika, umsindo uvame ukusekwa koyiko lokuba umntwana wakho akayi kuphumelela ebomini. Ngokusoloko kwakha ukwesaba ukuba akukho mntu unako okanye uya kunceda.

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Usizi

Intlungu yintsikelelo enamandla abazali abaninzi abavakalelwa ngayo xa befunda umntwana wabo ukhubazekile. Intlungu ingenzeka ngenxa yokuba umzali akhathazeke ngekamva. Intlungu iyakwenzeka ngokuphindaphindiweyo ebomini bomntwana eneemfuno ezizodwa xa engaphumeleli ukufezekisa iinjongo ezihlukeneyo kunye nemigangatho yoluntu yenkcazo eyenziwa ngabanye abantwana.

Kutheni kuvela intlungu? Njengeminye imvakalelo, intlungu inokusekelwe ekubeni ukwesaba ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kuphumelela okanye ukuba uya kuba nexesha elinzima ebomini.

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Uncedo

Uncedo luya kuba yinto yokugqibela ukuba ulindele ukuba abazali bazive xa befunda umntwana wabo ukhubazekileyo, kodwa uncedo luya kwenzeka, ngokuqhelekileyo ngenxa yokuba ukukhubazeka ngokusemthethweni kokukhubazeka kunika abazali inkcazelo yeengxaki zabo abantwana abajamelene nazo. Abanye abazali bayaxinwa ngenxa yokuba ukuxilongwa kokukhubazeka kunako ukufumana umntwana ukuba afumane indawo yokuhlala ekhethekileyo kunye nemfundo ekhethekileyo phantsi koMgaqo-nkqubo weMfundo oZodwa.