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Ugqirha wakho ukhuthaze ii- egg donor IVF , kwaye ugqibe ekubeni ulandele le ndlela ukuya kubazali. Kodwa uya kufumana phi umnikeli weqanda? Unokwenza njani isigqibo?
Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba akudingeki ukuba uziqaphele ngokupheleleyo. Ugqirha wakho wokuzala kunye nomcebisi oqhelana nomncedisi wonyango wokunceda kufuneka ancede usebenze ngeendlela ozikhethayo.
Ndiya kufumana phi i-Egg Donor?
Nantsi imithombo eqhelekileyo yokufumana umxhasi weqanda. Unokwakheka kwelinye lazo, okanye ucinge ngamanani ambalwa phambi kokuba ukhethe ukhetho olulungelelanisa intsapho yakho.
Iklinikhi yakho yokuzala : iklinikhi yokubonelela ngemithi yakho ye-IVF ingaba neenkcukacha zabaxhasi ngokwazo.
Ezinye iiklinikhi ziza kusebenza kunye nabaxhasi beqanda sele ziyinxenye yenkqubo yazo, kwaye aziyi kuvumela izigulane ukuba zisebenzise i-arhente.
Xa usebenzisa umxhasi weqanda ehambelana neklinikhi yakho, unokuhlawula ngaphantsi ngaphaya kokungena kwi-arhente. Nangona kunjalo i-pool yakho yabaxhasi abanokuyikhetha kuyo ingancinci.
I-agency yanikela ngeqanda : Kukho iinombolo zee-arhente ezinezoshishino zodwa ezifumana abaxhasi abanokuzixhamla kunye nokuzixhuma kubazali abacetywayo.
I-arhente ingaba yindleko ngaphezu kokuhamba kwiklinikhi yakho, kodwa i-pool yakho yabaxhasi inokuba yinto enkulu. Basenokukwazi ukukunceda ufumane umntu onempawu ezithile.
Ibhanki leqanda : Ngokubhekiselele kwimeko kwindawo yokunikezelwa kweqanda, ibhanki leqanda linganika ithuba lokunciphisa i-egg floral IVF.
Ngebhanki leqanda, umnikeli sele sele ehamba nomjikelezo wemivuzo, kwaye amaqanda akhe apheliswe.
Ibhanki yeqanda yindlela encinci yindleko ngomjikelezo wonyango (ngaphandle kokusebenzisa umntu owaziyo ngokwakhe).
Nangona kunjalo, amaqanda athatyathwa kwaye anqabile kakhulu ngaphambi komjikelo wakho. Oku kunokwenzeka okanye akunakuchaphazela iziphumo zakho zokuphumelela.
Kwakhona, umgangatho webhanki yeqanda kunye namaqanda aqhwabayo ahluka kakhulu. Okwangoku, iibhanki zeqanda azidingeki ukuba zishicilele amazinga okuphumelela.
Esinye isibini esingenasifo (IVF Egg Sharing) : Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba nesinye isibini esincinci sibe ngumnikeli weqanda.
Kule meko, kuya kuba esinye isibini esithile kwiklinikhi yokuzala ehamba nge-IVF, kodwa ayikwazi ukuvelisa i-ovarian.
Umbhangqwana ongenabantwana onika amaqanda awo unokukwazi ukufumana isaphulelo esincinane kwi-IVF cycle yabo ngokuthi "ukwabelana ngeqanda" kunye nesibini isibini.
Imilinganiselo yempumelelo iyahluka, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba akuyi kuba namaqanda okwaneleyo womjikelezo we-IVF kunye nabazalwana abafuna amaqanda abanikeli. Ukuba oko kwenzeka, umnikeli uqala kuqala kwiiqanda ezikhoyo.
Ngaba Umhlobo wam / Uhlobo Lwam Uncedo Lunikela Ngamaqanda Akhe Kum?
Umhlobo okanye isihlobo anganikela amaqanda akhe, ukuba uyadlula ukuhlolwa kwengqondo kunye nezokwelapha ezifunekayo kubo bonke abaxhasi beqanda.
Inzuzo yokuba nelungu lentsapho linike amaqanda ayo kukuba umntwana uya kuba noxhumano lwezofuzo kumama, nangona kungenjalo ngqo. (Ngokuqinisekileyo umniki-mali unokuvela kwintsapho yomlingane wesilisa, kodwa amaninzi amalungu omndeni aya kukhutshwa ngokuzenzekelayo ngenxa yemingcipheko yemvelo kunye neengxaki zokuziphatha.)
Kwakhona, ukuba ilungu losapho okanye umhlobo ungumnikeli weqanda, banokuhlala beqhagamshelana nomntwana. Abayi kuba ngumzali womthetho okanye umzali, kodwa babe nobudlelwane.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye izinto ezingalunganga zokusebenzisa umntu owaziyo njengomnikeli.
- Ubunzima bezomthetho iingxaki, ngakumbi xa umnikeli enquma ukucela umngeni "ungumzali wangempela" okanye ukuba isibini esilindelekileyo siqhawule umtshato
- Iziphumo zengqondo, ingakumbi ukuba izigqibo eziqhelekileyo ziya kubazali zixakeke kwiminqweno yabaxhasi
- Uxinzelelo lweemvakalelo, kubandakanywa iimvakalelo zentukuthelo, umona, ukuzisola, okanye ukudabuka (ukuba umjikelo ungaphumeleli)
- Umnikeli ongeke abe ngowona khetho oluhle ngokubhekiselele kwimpumelelo ye-IVF, xa kuthelekiswa nomnikeli ohlolwe yiklinikhi okanye i-arhente
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba intsapho okanye umhlobo akaqhelekanga ukufumana i-honorarium yomnikelo. Le mali ivela kumntu ongenasiphelo okanye isibini esingaphantsi kweklinikhi. (Kungenxa yoko i-egg donor IVF kunye nomnikeli owaziwayo ayibiza kakhulu-akumele uhlawule umniki-mali ngexesha neengxaki zokunikela.)
Ngaphambi kokuba umhlobo okanye ilungu lentsapho livume ukuba lihlolwe njengomniki-mnikelo, kufuneka baqonde oko kubandakanyekile ngaphambi kokuba bazinikele kwinkqubo.
Kuthiwani Ngokubeka I-Ad Ad yakho kwi-Egg Donor?
Ezinye izibini zikhetha ukufumana umxhasi weqanda ngokubeka okanye ukuphendula iintengiso zakho . Qaphela ukuba oku kunokuba yingozi. Kukho abakwa-scammers ngaphandle bekhangela ukukhohlisa abazali. (Kukho abancinci abakhangela ukukhohlisa abaxhasi bamaqanda abanikelayo.)
Kukho iimeko apho ukufuna umnikezeli weqanda ngeentengiso zakho kukukhetha okulungileyo. Mhlawumbi ukhangele umntu othe ngqo: umzekelo wase-Harvard ongumYuda-wase-Asia.
Ukuba uya kuzama uhambo lomntu siqu, qhubeka uqaphele. Cinga ukuba kuya kuba ngcono ukuqesha i-arhente ukufumana isicelo sakho esithile, endaweni yokujonga ngokwakho.
Yiyiphi impawu ekumele ndiyiqwalasele xa ikhetha umnikezi we-egg?
Ukugqiba ukuba yeyiphi na umnikeli weqanda ukuba ukhethe yinkqubo yomntu okanye ngezinye iinkqubo zengqondo. Iingcebiso eziqhelekileyo kunokuba ukhethe umnikezi weqanda onokuvakalayo kwiprofayili njengomntu onokuthanda ukuba ngumhlobo naye.
Kodwa ngaba umnikeli weqanda ozwakala ngathi ungumhlobo opheleleyo ukhokelela kumntwana onjengomnikeli?
Akunakwenzeka ukuthetha. Ihla ukuya kumbono we-nature versus ukukhulisa.
Ukukhetha umxhasi weqanda onomlinganiselo opheleleyo we-SAT kwaye waphumelela phezulu kwiklasi yakhe eHarvard akuthethi ukuba umntwana wakho oza kuxhaswa ngumncedi uya kulandela indlela efanayo. Hayi akunjalo.
Ezinye izinto abazali abanokuziqwalasela ziquka:
- jikelele impilo kunye nokuphila komniki-mali
- imbonakalo yomzimba
- Ukubonakala okubonakalayo kumama ohlosiweyo
- Abamakishi beengqondi (amanqaku e-IQ, izikolo ze-SAT, iikholeji eziya kuzo, njl.)
- umdlalo
- unxulumano lwenkolo (ingakumbi ukuba abazali abazimisele ukuba bangamaYuda)
- Ubuntu kunye neenkcazelo zokuzilibazisa ezinikezwa ngeprofayili yenkxaso
Yiyiphi imigaqo ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe? Akukho mpazamo ephosakeleyo okanye eyiyo.
Esi sihloko esihle ukuxoxa kunye nomcebisi oqhelene ne-IVF kunye nemiba yokuzala.
Ngaba Siza kudibana ne-Egg Donor yethu?
Ngaphandle kokuba usebenzisa umhlobo okanye ilungu lentsapho, akunakwenzeka. Kodwa akuphelelwanga ngokupheleleyo kumbuzo.
Ezinye iikliniki kunye nee-arhente zinikeza "izaziwa" okanye "ziyaziwa" zivumelwano.
Kule meko, unokudibana nomnikeli phambi komjikelo wakho. Kukho nokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba nohlobo oluthile lolwalamano oluqhubekayo emva kokuba umnikeli okhulelwe umntwana ezalwa. Olu lwalamano lunokuthi lube ngolwazi olubhaliweyo okanye lunokuquka ukuxhamla ubuso nobuso.
Ezinye izivumelwano eziziwayo ezixhasiweyo zivumela umnini-mntwana ozinikeleyo ukuba axhumane nabaxhasi babo kwixesha elizayo, ukuba bafuna. Oku akuthethi ukuba umnikeli kunye nabazali abajoliswe kuyo baya kudibana okanye baqhagamshelane ngenye indlela.
Kutheni ukhetha umxhasi owaziwayo?
Kamva ebomini, abanye abantwana abaxhasiweyo (kunye nabazali babo) banqwenela ukuba bayazi ngakumbi ngomniki-ncedisi owanceda abazise kule hlabathi. Inkontileka yesivumelwano esinikiweyo esivumelekileyo ivumela enye indlela yokuqhagamshelana.
I-note-ebalulekileyo yecala: ngenxa yokutshintsha imithetho kunye nemibutho yabucala enenjongo yokuxhuma abaxhasi kunye nenzala yabo, kukho nokuba kungenzeka ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho unokuphelisa intlanganiso okanye ukuphulaphulwa kumnikeli kwixesha elizayo nangona uqale wagqiba ukusebenzisa umnikeli "ongaziwa".
Ngokomzekelo, iRejista ye-Donor Sibling Registry inceda ukudibanisa inzala kubanikazi babo bofuzo kunye nakumnikeli. Oku kunokwenzeka ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na isivumelwano esasayinwe.
> Imithombo:
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> Abazali nge-Egg Donation.
> Ukuzaliswa kweThathu: I-Sperm, i-Egg, ne-Embryo Donation kunye ne-Surrogacy. Umbutho waseMelika weMithi yokuzala.