Kuthatha ulungiso oluninzi ukudala utshintsho olungagqibekanga
Isikhathi sokubuyela esikolweni sihlala sisiprojekthi, kwaye sihamba kabini xa unomntwana (okanye abantwana) abaneemfuno ezizodwa. Njengomnye umzali, unempahla emitsha yokuthenga kunye neepakethi ezintsha kunye neebhokisi zeemini zokukhetha (ukusuka kumawaka enketho ekhona). Kodwa ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho eneemfuno ezizodwa, uya kufuneka ucinge ngemicimbi emininzi. Umzekelo:
- Kungenzeka ukuba ufumene ulwazi malunga neshedyuli yengane yakho kwaye waqonda ukuba ubuncinane ezinye zezikhetho kunye nezidingo ozikhankanyileyo kwintlanganiso yokugqibela ye- IEP okanye ye- 504 yintlanganiso ayizange ilandelwe.
- Kukho ithuba elihle lokuba umntwana wakho uxhalabele ngokungaqhelekanga ngokubuyela esikolweni, ngakumbi xa ebuyela esikolweni esikolweni, kwiklasi, okanye ngutitshala.
- Imfuno yengane yakho okanye imingeni ingaba yatshintshile ngaphezu kwehlobo, kwaye ungadinga ukunxibelelana nabasebenzi ngaphambi kokuba unyaka wesikolo uqale.
- Awunakuze udibane nomfundisi omtsha womntwana wakho, kwaye uyazi ukuba uya kufuna ulwazi malunga nomntwana wakho oya kwenza ubomi kube lula kubo bobabini notitshala nomntwana wakho.
Ukuba oku kuthetha ngathi imeko yakho (okanye ucinga ukuba "yinto embi ngakumbi kunjalo!"), Ezinye zeengcebiso ze-back-to-school zingaba luncedo.
1. Qinisekiswa ngokuqinisekileyo-Kwiindawo zokuhlala
Uhleli phantsi kunye nomcebisi wesikhokelo somntwana wakho, umphathi wecala, utitshala kunye nabagqirha ngoMeyi.
Uhamba ngayo yonke i-IEP yomntwana wakho. Uxoxe ngezinto ozikhethayo kunye namathuba, kwaye uya kwesivumelwano, Uhlaziye kwaye usayine i-IEP (okanye i-504). Ngoku, unokucinga ukuba yonke into echazwe kwi-IEP iya kufakwa kwaye iza kusekwa kumntwana wakho xa efika ngosuku lwakhe lokuqala lwesikolo.
Kodwa ke, ukucinga kungalunganga. Abalawuli besikolo banamakhulu abantwana ukuba bacinge ngako, kwaye ootitshala banabantwana abaninzi ukuba baceba. Nguwe kuphela onomdla wakho kumdla ophezulu kwoluhlu lwakho.
Ngaphambi kokuba uphindele esikolweni, qwalasela iqela lomntwana wakho , umphathi wecala, okanye umcebisi wesikhokelo. Hlola ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwindawo yokuhlala ebalulekileyo, kwaye qi ni sekise ukuba nayiphi na inkxaso evunyelweneyo iya kuhamba. Ukuba kukho imicimbi, kungcono ukuba wazi malunga nabo kwangaphambili, kwaye kukho ithuba lokuba iingxaki ezincinci zingabhekiswa ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho ahambe esikolweni.
2. Qhagamshelana Nomntu Ngomfundisi Wakho Wabazali kunye neengcali
Wena ungummeli kunye nenkxaso engcono yomntwana wakho, kodwa ukuba ootitshala bakho kunye nabagqirha abakwaziyo, banciphe amathuba okufikelela kwiingcamango baze bancede:
- Ukuba unako, misela ixesha lokuza esikolweni phambi kokuba iingcango zivule ukudibana kunye nokuthetha nabasebenzi bakho.
- Banike ngolwazi oluncinane malunga namandla akho kunye nemingeni yabantwana bakho, kodwa qaphela ukuba ungadluliswanga ngaphezulu kwabasebenzi besikolo njengoko bekulungele ukuqala konyaka.
- Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, mazisa wonke umntu ukuba ukhona ukuthetha, uzimisele ukujonga izinto ozikhethayo, kwaye unomdla wokubandakanywa kumava omfundi wakho. Nika idilesi yakho ye-imeyile okanye inombolo yefowuni ukuze ufikeleleke lula, kwaye ubuze malunga nendlela efanelekileyo yokudibanisa nabo.
3. Ukuseka uluhlu lokuHlola oluHloniphekileyo
Nangemva kokuba uye wanika wonke umntu isiqinisekiso esifudumele sokuba ukhona kwaye kulula ukusebenza naye, kunethuba elihle ukuba awuyi kuvala nawuphi na umntu esikolweni sakho somntwana kude kube yithuba lekhadi lombiko (ngaphandle kokuba kukho ingxaki enkulu dilesi). Kodwa ke, ufuna ukwazi indlela izinto ezihamba ngayo, zombini ukuze uxoxe nomntwana wakho malunga nosuku kwaye ngokunjalo unokukwazi ukulungisa imiba phambi kokuba ibe yingxaki yangempela. Indlela elula yokwenza oku kukunika uluhlu lokutshekisha okukhawuleza kwi-binder ebuyela emva nangemini yonke imihla. Buza ngokukhawuleza yeewe / yekho okanye imibuzo emfutshane impendulo okanye utitshala angaphendula xa umntwana wakho ekulungele ukuya ekhaya.
Umzekelo:
- UJohnny wadla isidlo sakhe sasemini
- UJaney wathatha izikhonkco zokuziphatha kakuhle ngo _________
- UBilly unenkathazo nge _____________
4. Ukubonelela ngeZiko lokuNceda ootitshala kunye nabasebenzi ukuba bancede abantwana bakho
Akukho mntu uyazi ngcono kunokuba wenza okusemandleni akho ekuncedeni umntwana wakho ahlale ezolile kwaye egxininise, ukulawula utshintsho olunzima, okanye ukusebenzisana noontanga. Ukuba sele usuqulunqe iindlela ezinkulu zokwenza oku, ngeendlela zonke, wabelane ngazo notitshala omtsha wakho kunye / okanye abasebenzi. Umzekelo:
- Usenokudala ibali lezentlalo elincinci elinceda umntwana wakho akhumbule ukuba abalekele kwishumi ngaphambi kokuqhuma.
- Utitshala wonyaka odlulileyo unokwenza ishedyuli ebonakalayo yokunceda umntwana wakho alungiselele utshintsho.
- Ingcali yomsebenzi wengane yakho ifumene i-toy ebonakalayo efanelekileyo yokunceda umntwana wakho ahlale egxile kwiklasi.
- Umncedisi wonyaka odlulileyo unokuba neentetho okanye iingcamango eziye zancedisa umntwana wakho ukuthi "ewe" kwiintsebenziswano zentlalo.
Ungacingi ukuba nabani na ovela kunyaka odlulileyo baye babelane nantoni na ngeli qela lonyaka. Endaweni yoko, yenza umsebenzi kwaye wenze oko ngokwakho!
5. Fumana kwaye ukhangele Ulwazi lwezoThutho phambi kwexesha
Umntwana wakho uza kufumana njani esikolweni? Uya kuthatha nini kwaye uza kuthatha i-van okanye ibhasi? Ngubani oqhubayo? Iyiphi indlela? Uhambo luya kuthatha ixesha elingakanani? Uphi na uhambo lokuthutha ekhaya? Ifika nini ibhasi okanye i-van, kwaye uya kukhetha kuphi umntwana wakho? Yonke le mibuzo kufuneka iphendulwe ngaphambi kosuku lokuqala lwesikolo. Kuhlala kunceda ukudibanisa nomntu okanye abantu abaya kuqhuba umntwana wakho, ngoko unako ukubanika ngolwazi olubalulekileyo oluyidingayo malunga neemfuno zomntwana okanye imingeni yakho. Ngaphambi kokuba isikolo siqale, hambisa umzila webhasi kunye nomntwana wakho kwaye uthethe ngenkqubo aza kuhamba ngayo ukuze ahambe kwaye aphephe ibhasi, eklasini, aze abuye ekhaya.
6. Ukuqokelela ulwazi malunga neenketho zangaphandle kunye neentlobo ezizodwa
Ukuba umntwana wakho unesidingo esikhethekileyo, amathuba anengxaki yokukhumbula izivakalisi okanye ukwabelana ngolwazi malunga nemisebenzi yesikhashana okanye iziganeko ezizodwa zesikolo. Kodwa kaninzi le nkqubo engeyona yezemfundo yindawo engcono kakhulu yokuba umntwana wakho ahlole amandla, ahlangabezane nabahlobo, kwaye aqale ukuzonwabisa namava esikolweni. Kungenzeka kuwe ukuba ufike kwizintlu ezilungileyo, uthabathe iiflaya kunye neencwadana, jonga iibhodi zeencwadana, kwaye wenze ukudibanisa egameni lomntwana wakho.
Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokuba ingaba njani umntwana wakho angabandakanywa kwinkqubo ethile, imeyile okanye umnxeba umntu oqhagamshelana naye aze abuze. Kukho ithuba elihle lokuba bakwazi ukufumana iimfuno zomntwana wakho. Usenokukwazi ukubhalisa umntwana wakho kumsebenzi olandelayo emva kwesikolo ngaphambi kokuba unyaka wesikolo uqale.
7. Phatha izambatho ezintsha zezingane zakho, ii-Shoes kunye nezinye izinto
Abantwana abaninzi abaneemfuno ezizodwa banexesha elinzima ukuthetha izinto ezidlulileyo kunye nexesha elinzima ukulinganisa izinto ezintsha. Izambatho kunye nezicathulo zinokudala imiba engqondweni, kwaye ukuxhamla ngokomzimba kunokuba nzima ukuphula. Ngangoko kunokwenzeka (ubuncinane iiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba isikolo siqale), qalisa inkqubo yokuhlenga izinto ezidala kunye nokuthenga iimpahla ezintsha kunye neenkomfa zonyaka ozayo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, cela uncedo lomntwana wakho ekunqumeni xa into encinci okanye "inzala," kwaye ubandakanyeke kwinkqubo yokuthenga. Susa izambatho ezincinci ezisuka kumatshini wakho womntwana ukuze angayi kuhendwa ukuba azigqoke. Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba aphule iimpahla ezintsha phambi kokuqala kwesikolo.
8. Yakha iKhalenda yoNyaka weSikolo esitsha "kunye neShedyuli yoNyana wakho
Uninzi lwabantu aluxhalabele xa bekwazi ukuba balindele ntoni; Abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa azikho. Enyanisweni, abantwana abaninzi abaneemfuno ezizodwa bafuna iishedyuli zokunciphisa uxhalaba kwaye balungiselele utshintsho. Ngelixa ezinye izikolo zibonelela ngeeshedyuli kubantwana, abaninzi abenzi (okanye ukwenza njalo, akuncedi kakhulu!). Ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yobudala bomntwana kunye nekhono lakho, kuya kufuneka ukuba wenze iishedyuli zemihla ngemihla kunye neekhalenda zokunceda umntwana wakho angenelele kunyaka omtsha aze akhangele phambili kwiziganeko, iholide, njl.
9. Nceda Umntwana Wakho Ukhangelele uNyaka Omtsha
Ingakumbi umntwana wakho uyazi malunga noko kuza kulandelayo, bhetele uya kukwazi ukujongana nokuxhalabisa kwakhe. Ukuba unako ukwazi, cela umfundisi wakho umntwana ngemizuzu embalwa ngaphambi kokuba isikolo siqale xa edibana nomntwana wakho, umbonise apho uya kuhlala khona, uchaze apho uza kufaka ingubo yakhe kunye nesidlo sasemini, njalonjalo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, hamba ngemini yengane yakho kunye naye, ngoko unengcamango yokuba uya kuhamba, yintoni aya kuyenza, xa uya kudla isidlo sasemini, njalo njalo.
Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba achaze nayiphi na imibuzo enokuba nayo (Ngaba isikolo siya kunzima kum? Ngaba ndiza kuhamba?). Utitshala womntwana wakho kufuneka abe nehlu lodidi; unokuba ufuna ukuyijonga kuqala nomntwana wakho kwaye ubonise amagama abahlobo. Ukuba ubona abantwana kuloluhlu abaye babangela iingxaki zomntwana wakho ngaphambili, unokufuna ukuthetha notitshala ngale nto (ngaphandle kwengxoxo yomntwana wakho).
10. Hlola iNkqubo yoLwazi lwaBantwana bakho
Yintoni eya kufundiswa ngumntwana wakho kulo nyaka? Khangela ikharityhulam yesikolo sakho (kufuneka i-intanethi) okanye ubuze amagosa esikolweni ukuba abelane ngesilabhasi. Qinisekisa ukuba unolwazi, ukuze uncede umntwana wakho njengoko kuyimfuneko. Ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba iinkalo ezithile zekharityhulam zibonakala zicelomngeni, jonga kwiqela lakho ukuze ufumane indlela abazimisele ngayo ukulungiselela iimfuno zomntwana wakho. Ngoku lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuthintela isiseko kule miba, njengoko unokukwazi ukulungisa iingxaki ngaphambi kokuba zivele!
11. Idilesi enokubakho iingxaki eziphambili kwexesha
Ukuba umntwana wakho uhamba esikolweni ukuya esikolweni, okanye ukusuka kwisikolo esiphakathi ukuya kwisikolo esiphakathi, unokuba nemingeni emitsha yokujongana nayo. Okwaziyo malunga nale mingeni, bhetele ukwazi ukuba uya kumnceda ngaphambi kokuba kubekho ingxaki. Nazi ezinye ezimbalwa iingxaki onokufuna ukuzenza ehlotyeni kunokuba ulinde unyaka wesikolo ukuqala:
- Iifaki kunye neenkloko : Uninzi lwabafundi abaneemfuno ezizodwa banexesha elinzima kunye neepaslocks eziqhelekileyo. Esikhundleni sokusebenzisa "ukujika ngakwesokunene nakwesobunxele" kwesikolo, qwa lasela ukuthenga ishiyekhi esisebenzisa iinamba zokuqhawula okanye amaqhosha. Ngokuqhelekileyo kulula ukusetyenziswa. Ngaphandle koko, cela isikolo ukuba umntwana wakho angasebenzisa i-cubby evuliwe kunokuba i-locker (ngezinto ezingabalulekanga).
- Izambatho zokugqoka kunye nezitshixo: Ezinye izikolo zifuna abantwana ukuba bagcine iimpahla zokuzivocavoca ezikhethiweyo ezikolweni. Ukuba kunjalo, qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho unokukwazi ukulawula ukukhiya, ukubopha izitya, nokunye ukulawula izinto zakhe zokuzivocavoca. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, cinga ukubonelela umntwana wakho ngesitshixo sakhe, izitya zokukhwabanisa, kunye nokudonsa kwi-shorts shorts.
- Izabelo ezisekhompyutheni: Ezi ntsuku, ootitshala bathambekele ekunikezeni izabelo zasekhaya, izicatshulwa, kunye namabakala ngekhompyutha. Bangasebenzisa isofthiwe ejoliswe esikolweni okanye into efana ne-Google Docs ukuthetha nabafundi. Abafundi abaneemfuno ezizodwa banokuba nzima xa bekwazi ukuba bangene njani iphasiwedi, bafumaneke kwi-intanethi baze bagcine umsebenzi wabo. Ukuba umntwana wakho udala ngokwaneleyo kulolu hlobo lomngeni, kuya kufuneka uzenzele inkqubo ngenjongo yokumnceda.
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Kubafundi abaneemfuno ezizodwa, isikolo sinokuba ngamava amnandi kwaye anzima. Ngamanye amaxesha abazali banokuguqula iingxaki ezinokubakho nje ngokuzilindela ngaphambi kokuba zenzeke. Ewe, kufanele kube ngumsebenzi wesikolo ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana unako oko afuna ukuphumelela. Kodwa umgca: akukho mntu uyayikhathalelayo, oyiqondayo okanye omele umntwana wakho kunye nawe!