Nciphisa ukukhathazeka kweSikolo koNcedo oluKhethekileyo lwabantwana

Kwabanye abantwana, isikolo sinokuba yindawo enesantya kunye neyoyikisayo. Abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa, ngokukodwa, banokuba neengxaki zokuqonda oko kukulindeleke kubo; unokujamelana nokukhathazeka kwentlalo, kwaye unokufumana umsebenzi udideka kwaye uxinzeleleke . Njengomzali, isiza sakho siyakuhlawulisa ngehashe elimhlophe kwaye ubulale ezo zintambo. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo, indlebe yokuphulaphula, ilizwi elivelwano, kunye ne-hug eqinisekisayo iya kuba luncedo olukhulu.

Nantsi indlela

1. Yazisa ingxaki. Ngaba ukuva, "Ungakhathazeki!" uncedo xa uxhalabile ngento ethile? Mhlawumbi awuyikuthuthuzela umntwana wakho, nokuba. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ongayenza kumntwana onenkxalabo yesikolo kukuvuma ukuba ukwesaba kwakhe kuyinyaniso kuye. Ukuba akukho nto, uya kuqinisekisa ukuba akayi kuyika ukuthetha nawe ngabo.
2. Buza, "Ziziphi izinto ezintathu ozikhathazayo kakhulu?" Ukwenza isicelo sakho sithile sinokukunceda umntwana wakho aqalise ukuhlenga ngeendlela ezinokukhathazeka kunye neemvakalelo eziphazamisayo. Ukuba akakwazi ukubiza izinto ezona zibuhlungu kakhulu , ngaba akuxelele naziphi na izinto ezintathu okanye izinto zintathu zakutshanje.
3. Buza, "Ziziphi izinto ezintathu ozivuyayo?" Uninzi lwabantwana lunokucinga ngento enhle, nokuba ihamba nje ekhaya ekupheleni kosuku. Kodwa amathuba omntwana wakho unayo izinto azifumanayo ngokuphathelele isikolo esicima nje ngezinto eziyingozi. Khupha izinto ezilungileyo ekukhanyeni.

1. Yenza enye indima yokudlala. Emva kokuba unemizekelo ekhonkco yeemeko ezibangele ukukhathazeka, nceda umntwana wakho abone enye indlela yokujongana nayo. Xoxa ngeziganeko ezinokwenzeka kwaye udlale inxalenye yomntwana wakho kwimisebenzi ethile yokudlala, uvumeleke ukuba adlale inxalenye yothisha ofuna ukuxhatshazwa okanye oxhatshazwayo naye. Isibonelo esifanelekileyo neempendulo ezifanelekileyo kunye neendlela zokujamelana nomntwana wakho.

1. Gcina imizila yoqhagamshelwano evulekile. Yenza umntwana wakho azi ukuba unokuhlala ekhuluma nawe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni. Akusoloko kuyimfuneko nokuba ibe nezisombululo kwiingxaki zakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuthetha nje ngezinto ezizwakalayo kunye nomntu omdala othembekileyo kwenza kubonakale kungasongela. Yaye ukuba loo nto iyancipha umntwana wakho, ufuna ukuba ngowokuqala ukwazi ngalo.
2. Qonda ixabiso lezinyembezi. Ukukhala kungabangela uxinzelelo olukhulu loxinzelelo. Ikhupha iimvakalelo ezimbi kwaye inciphisa uxinzelelo. Kunzima ukubona umntwana wakho ekhala, kwaye isisiseko sakho sokuqala sinokumnceda ukuba ayeke ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa emva kokuba zonke iinyembezi ziphuma, umntwana wakho unokuba nomoya ovulekileyo wokwamkela nokuthetha. Nika ubungqina obumnandi novelwano, kodwa vumela ukukhala kuqhube inkambo yayo.
3. Melana nomnqweno wokulungisa yonke into. Kukho iimeko apho abazali kufuneka bathathe inyathelo. Ukuba umntwana wakho eklasini enzima kakhulu okanye enenkathazo kuba i-IEP ayilandelwa, kukho amanyathelo onokuyithatha. Ukuba utitshala okanye umfundi ofunda naye uyahlukumeza umntwana wakho, uya kufuna ukulandelelana naloo nto. Kodwa uyafuna ukumfundisa ukuba ezinye izinto ebomini kufuneka zijongane nazo, nangona zithi ziyanca. Yenza kuphela into ephukile kakhulu.

1. Yazi ukuba ufuna nini uncedo. Uninzi lwabantwana lunenkxalabo yesikolo kwinqanaba elithile, kwaye abanye banokuziva becala kwaye badibana. Lube nini kuba yingxaki enkulu ngokwaneleyo ukufuna uncedo lobugcisa? Ezinye iimpawu zokubheka ziinguqulelo ezinkulu kubahlobo, isitala seengubo, ukuthanda umculo, ukulala nokutya, isimo sengqondo nokuziphatha. Ukuba usungule ulwalamano oluhle nomntwana wakho kwaye ngokukhawuleza akafuni ukuthetha, oko kukubonakalisa inkathazo.

Iingcebiso

1. Beka ixesha kunye nendawo efanelekileyo yokuthetha nomntwana wakho, ingaba emotweni, ekuhambeni, ngexesha lokudla, okanye ngaphambi kokulala. Abanye abantwana baya kuziva bekhululekile kwindawo yokuzimela eyimfihlo kunye neengqalelo zakho ezingabonakaliyo, kodwa abanye bangamkela ukuphazamiseka okuthile ukunciphisa ubunzima bokuthetha zabo iimvakalelo.

1. Qaphela ukuba zonke iintsana ziziva zizixhala ngesikolo, nokuba zibonakala ziphumelele kwaye zingakhathazeki. Ukukwazi oku akuyi kunciphisa uxhalaba lomntwana wakho, kodwa kunokunciphisa lakho.
2. "Ukukhulula Umntwana Wakho Ukukhathazeka" yincwadi enhle yokufunda ngakumbi malunga noxhala kunye nendlela yokuyikhupha.
3. Akukho xesha lokuthetha? Zama enye yeethuba ezilishumi zokuthetha. Emva koko fumana iindlela ezininzi zokwenza lo nyaka unyaka ongcono kakhulu.
4. Ukuba isikolo ngokwenene siyindawo enobungozi kumntwana wakho, kufuneka ukhangele ezinye iindlela.