I-Custody Custody Frequently Asked Questions

Ulwazi olufanelekileyo lokugcina umntwana lungakunceda ukulungiselela ityala lakho kwaye ekugqibeleni uzuze umntwana. Apha, uza kufumana imibuzo engaphezulu kwama-20 malunga nabazali ngokukhusela abantwana ukukunceda ukuba ufumane ukuvalelwa kwengane ngokuzithemba.

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Uthini umahluko phakathi kokugcinwa komthetho kunye nokugcinwa komzimba?

Ukugcinwa komthetho kubhekisela kumandla okwenza izigqibo egameni lomntwana wakho, kanti ukugcinwa komzimba kubhekisela kwindawo apho umntwana ehlala khona. Ngokwenene, umzali unako ukugcinwa ngokusemthethweni ngaphandle kokugcina umzimba. Cinga zonke iinketho zokugcina umntwana ezikhoyo kuwe, kubandakanywa ukukhulisa abazali kunye nentaka yeentaka, ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo malunga naluphi uhlobo lokugcina ofuna ukulusebenzisa.

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Ingaba umama ongatshatanga kufuneka afake i-custody?

Amanye amabandla alindele ukuba oomama abangatshatanga bafake i-custody, ngelixa ezinye iimeko zivuma ukuba oomama abangatshatanga bazithobela ngokugcina abantwana babo. Funda phezulu kwimithetho yokugcinwa kwabantwana kwimeko yakho ukuze ubone ukuba ngaba ufuna ukufakela ngokusemthethweni iifowuni.

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Yiyiphi imithetho yokugcinwa kwabantwana kwimeko yakho?

Imithetho yokugcinwa kwabantwana ihluke kwilizwe ukuya kwilizwe. Ngoko ke, nawuphi na umzali ofuna ukufakela ukugcinwa komntwana okanye ukukhusela ibango lakhe lokugcinwa kwabantwana kuyakufuneka ajwayelane nemithetho yokugcinwa kwabantwana kwimeko apho umntwana ehlala khona.

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Iinkundla zinquma njani ukuba ngubani ogcinwe ngumgcini?

Zininzi izinto eziya kwisigqibo senkundla malunga nokuba ngumzali onikwe banikezelwe ngumntwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezo zinto zibandakanya iimfuno zabazali kunye nokukwazi ukubonelela umntwana, ngaphezu kwenkqubo yokugcinwa kwabantwana okwangoku kunye nolwalamano olukhoyo lomntwana nomzali ngamnye.

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Ziziphi ezinye izinto iinkundla eziqwalaselayo xa zikhetha ukugcinwa?

Kufuneka uye wazi ukuba iinkundla ziya kuqwalasela ukuba ngaba umzali ngamnye uya kukuxhasa ubuhlobo obusondeleyo bomntwana kunye nomnye umzali, ngaphezu kwexesha lomntwana, naziphi na iimfuno ezizodwa, iimfuno zezonyango kunye nezinye izinto ezifanelekileyo.

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Ziyintoni na inkundla zifuna ukuthandwa ngumntwana?

Iinkundla zifuna zonke izigqibo ezenzayo ukuze zibonise okulungileyo kumntwana, kwaye i-state nganye ichaza imilinganiselo yayo yokuchaza oko "into ephambili" okanye eyona nto ifanele ibukeke ngayo.

Nangona le migangatho iyahluka ukusuka kummandla ukuya kwimeko, iinkundla zeentsapho zicinga ukuba kusemgangathweni lomntwana ukugcina ubudlelwane kunye nabazali bobabini kunokwenzeka, ngokukodwa ukuba umntwana ube nolwalamano olusondeleyo kunye nabazali bobabini kuze kube ngolu hlobo.

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Ngaba ufuna ummeli womgcini wengane?

Kwiimeko ezininzi, kucetyiswa ukuba ubuncinane bathathe inxaxheba ekubonisaneni kwamahhala kunye negqwetha ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo. Ukuba iindleko zixhalaba, qhagamshelana noNcedo lwezomthetho kwilizwe lakho okanye uthathe inxaxheba kwiklinikhi yomthetho ekhululekile enikezelwa kwisikolo somthetho esiseduze.

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Ngaba kufuneka ufake ifayile yokugcina umntwana?

Ukufakela ukugcinwa kwengane kubhekisa ukuzithetha enkundleni. Nangona uye waqhubeka nale nkqubo ngaphambili, kucetyiswa ukuba ufune isiluleko sommeli osemthethweni webapho, ngokukodwa ukuba uyazi ukuba umlingane wakho okanye umlingane owayeseshanda naye ufune ukumelwa ngokomthetho.

Enye inketho kukuba ugqwetha likuncede ngeemviwo ezifunekayo kwaye kukuncede uzilungiselele ukuzimela enkundleni.

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Ngaba kufuneka ufune umyalelo wokugcinwa komntwana okwethutyana?

Amaqela amaninzi afuna i-oda yokugcina abantwana ngexesha lesithuba phakathi kwehlukaniso lomtshato kunye nomtshato. Kukho nezinye iimeko apho icebiso lokugcinwa komntwana okwethutyana lucebisekile, njengokugula komzali, ukulaliswa esibhedlele, okanye inkonzo yempi. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kucetyiswa ukuba abazali babeke ukugcinwa kwexesha elifutshane nomzali womntwana okanye nomhlobo othembekileyo okanye isihlobo.

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Kuthekani ukuba ngaba uphumelele kwaye unako ukufikelela kwisivumelwano sokugcina ngasese?

Ukuba unako ukusebenzela isivumelwano esilungileyo sokugcina umntwana ngaphandle kweenkundla, kufuneka usebenze kunye negqwetha ukuba ube nephepha elenziwe, isayinwe, kwaye lifakwe enkundleni.

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Uthini umahluko phakathi kokuxolelana kunye nokubambisana?

Ulwahlulo oluphambili kukuba isivumelwane esifikelelwe ngokuxolelana asibopheli enkundleni, kanti isivumelwano esifikelelwe ngokubambisana sibophezela. Zombini iinkqubo zikhethwa ngokukhethekileyo kwinkqubela yokukhusela abantwana.

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Ngaba kufuneka uzame ukuxazulula ingxabano yakho ngokuxolelana?

Ulwalamano luye lunceda ezininzi izibini eziye zaqala ukuxhatshazwa, kunzima ukukhusela abantwana. Kwiintlobo ezininzi zeentsapho, ukuthetha nomlamli ofanelekileyo kukufanele ixesha kunye nemigudu, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kuvumela ukuxhatshazwa okufanelekileyo ukuba kufumaneke ngokukhawuleza.

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Ufanele usebenze njani ityala lokugcinwa kwabantwana bamazwe ngamazwe?

Naliphi na umzali oza kulwa nemfazwe yamazwe ngamazwe okugcina ulondolozo kufuneka acinge ngokusebenza kunye negqwetha elinamava okugcinwa kwamanye amazwe. Unokukunceda ekusebenziseni uMthetho wokuThuthwa koMntwana wokuThuthukiswa koMntwana (UCAPA) ukuba uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho akaphepheli ekuthinjweni kwabazali, kunye nokuthetha ngeendlela ezifanelekileyo zomthetho zomhlaba wonke.

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Ziziphi iimeko apho iinkundla ziza kuguqula umyalelo wokugcina umntwana?

Ezinye iindawo zibeka iimeko ezithile kwiimeko zokugcinwa kwabantwana ekuvunyelwene ukuguqulwa kwimithetho yokugcina abantwana. Ezinye zezizathu eziqhelekileyo ukuba kutheni inkundla inokuqwalasela isicelo sokuguqula ukugcinwa kwabantwana kufaka ukufuduswa, ukhuseleko, ukufa komzali kunye nezinye izizathu ezifanelekileyo zokubuyisela kwakhona umyalelo wokugcina umntwana okhoyo.

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Unokulungiselela njani ukuva

Kufuneka usebenze nommeli wakho wokugcina umntwana ukuba ahlele isicwangciso senkundla nganye. Xa unako ukulungisela phambili, uqiniseke ngakumbi ukuba uza kuvela enkundleni. Khumbula kwakhona ukuba izinto ezincinane ezifana nendlela ozigqoka ngayo inkundla kunye nokusetyenziswa kwakho kwetyala elifanelekileyo le-courtroom kuya kuphazamisa umgwebi wakho ngombono wakho njengomzali.

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Ungayilungiselela njani uvavanyo lokugcina umntwana?

Khumbula ukuba ulwalamano lwakho nomntwana wakho yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba ufuna ukuba umhloli ujonge. Ngoko musa ukuzivumela ukuba ube nexhala lokuba uthando lwakho olucacileyo kunye nenkxalabo kumntwana wakho alukhanyeli. Ukongeza, gcinani engqondweni ukuba ukubonakala kubalulekile. Qinisekisa ukuba ikhaya lakho licocekile kwaye lihlelekile, kwaye zama konke okusemandleni akho ukuba ube nguwe xa uphendula imibuzo yomhloli.

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Ngaba kufuneka sifake isicwangciso sozali kunye neenkundla?

Amanye amazwe afuna izicwangciso zabazali, ngelixa abanye bengenzi. Funda imithetho yokugcinwa komntwana kwimeko yakho ukuze ufumanise ukuba i-state yakho idinga abazali ukuba bafake icebo lokuzalwa labantwana kwinkundla yentsapho. Kufuneka uqikelele nokubhala isicwangciso sozali, nangona kungenakudingeka, kuba kuya kukunyanzela wena kunye neyokude ukwenza izigqibo ezicingayo malunga nendlela oceba ukusebenzisana ngayo ekukhuliseni abantwana bakho ndawonye.

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Ngaba iimfuno zakho zeemfuno ezizodwa ziya kunikwa nayiphi na ingqalelo?

Ewe, inkundla iza kuthatha ingqalelo iimfuno ezizodwa zemntwana, ngakumbi apho iinkonzo zonyango kunye / okanye zophuhliso zenza kube nzima kubazali ukwabelana ngesondlo. Iinkundla ziya kuqhubeka zifuna ukubona ukuba abazali bazimisele ukusebenzisana kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana unako ukufumana ubudlelwane obuqhubekayo kunye nabazali bobabini.

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Ngaba abagwebi baxhaswa ngabazali kwiimeko zokugcina abantwana?

Inkundla ayivunyelwe ukucwasana noobawo enkundleni. Kukho amanyathelo amaninzi, nangona kunjalo, apho umama anikezelwa khona ngokubalulekayo kuba ude waqhawula umtshato njengomncedi oyintloko. Oobawo abanqwenela ukuwunqoba abantwana kufuneka balungiselele ukuzibonakalisa njengomzali ongcono ngaphandle kokuba bafikelele kwijaji njengokuba bashaya omnye umzali okanye bazama ukunciphisa ubuhlobo bomntwana naye.

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Ngaba izityholo zobundlobongela basekhaya zizakwenzakala kwam amathuba okuwina?

Iinkundla ziyanqikazela ukunika abantwana ithuba lokugcinwa komntwana kunoma yimuphi umzali owenza ubundlobongela basekhaya kumntwana okanye nakwamanye amalungu entsapho. Ngoko ke, baya kuphanda ngokucophelela nayiphi na into etyholwa yintlondi yobundlobongela ngaphambi kokuba enze isigqibo sokugcina umntwana. Abazali abaye batyholwa ngokunyanisekileyo kufuneka bafune ukumelwa ngokomthetho kwaye basebenzisane nazo zonke iinkalo zophando.

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