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Inomsebenzi omncinane, kodwa uyabaluleka!

Iholide zeholide zigugu olukhulu lwezinga. Ungalala, udle ukutya okungafaniyo, ubone iindawo ezintsha, tyelela abantu ongaboniyo kwixesha elide (okanye uchithe ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nabantu ngenkathi uhlala nabanye). Ngelishwa, ngelixa utshintsho luhlaziya abantu abaninzi, lunokuba lunzima kakhulu kubafundi abaneemfuno ezizodwa . Isiphumo: Ixesha elifanele lihlekise kwaye liphumle libe lucinezelekile kwaye lube lukhuni ngokomoya.

Ngethamsanqa, kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uceba iholide kunye neemfuno zakho ezizodwa zemfuno. Uya kufuneka ubeke umsebenzi omncinane (ikakhulukazi ngaphambi kwexesha), kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, wena nomntwana wakho baya kuzuza. Hhayi nje lo nyaka, kodwa kwiminyaka ezayo!

Ziziphi iimfuno ezizodwa abantwana abafuna ukuzisinda nokuphucula

Kwabantwana abaninzi abaneemfuno ezizodwa, isakhiwo kunye nokuhambelana kubalulekile kwimpumelelo yemihla ngemihla. Mhlawumbi nje kubalulekile ukuba indawo yokuhlala, ngokusemthethweni okanye engacwangciswanga, eyenza ukunciphisa imingeni yongqondo, ukunciphisa imithintelo embalwa, okanye yenza lula imisebenzi ethile. Ngokubunjwa, ukuhambelana, kunye nokuhlala endaweni, ubomi bulawulwa kakhulu. Ngaphandle kwabo, akuninzi kakhulu:

• Ulwakhiwo : Kubafundi abaneemfuno ezizodwa, ubomi bunokuba nzima. Basenokuba nzima ukuqonda iipatheni, ukuqonda ixesha lokudlula, okanye ukulawula iishedyuli zabo. Xa isakhiwo senziwe-ngohlobo lwama-alarm clock, i-class buzzers, imisebenzi yesiqhelo emva kwesesikolweni, kunye neendlela zokuhlwa-ubomi bunengqiqo. Kulula kakhulu ukusebenza kwihlabathi elihlelwe, liqikelele, kwaye liqheleke.

• Ukubambisana : Ukongeza kwisakhiwo, ukuhambelana kungenza abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa bazive belawula ihlabathi labo. Oku kunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalabisa, okuye kwenza ukunciphisa imiqobo kunye nokukhathazeka. Ukubambisana kuya kuhluka kwiintsana ezahlukeneyo, kodwa kunokuthi, umzekelo, ukutya okufanayo ngalunye, amavidiyo afanayo ngexesha elifanayo, uhlobo olufanayo lwesepha kwindawo yokuhlamba, imisebenzi efanayo, inqanaba lezandi elifanayo, okanye enye efanayo zivumba.

• Izibonelelo : Izikolo zinokubonelela ngeendawo ezisemthethweni zomntwana wakho ngeemfuno ezizodwa. Ngokomzekelo, bangasebenzisa i-incandescent kunezibane zokukhanyisa kwigumbi lokufundela ukunciphisa imingeni. Bangamnika ixesha elide lokugqiba iimvavanyo, okanye banikele ngeenkqubo zokuzivocavoca. Ekhaya, unokuxhasa umntwana wakho ngokuqinisekisa ukuba unokufikelela kwiTV xa ehla esikolweni. Unokunqumla zonke iitaki ngaphandle kwengubo yakhe. Okanye ungathenga ukutya okhethekileyo ukuze uqiniseke ukuba uza kuba neendlela ezondlayo eziza kufunyanwa.

Xa iimfuno zeemfuno zeemfuno ezizodwa zinezingane zikhona, ziyakwazi ukuphumelela kokubili ekhaya nasezikolweni. Ubomi bunokuba ngumngeni, kodwa ubuncinane bunokuphathwa.

Kodwa xa abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa bavakalelwa kukuba ubomi bunzima, bayazikhangela; xa bephumeza bona ngokwabo baxakeke ngokomzwelo, okokuba banokubakhoxisa abo banonophelo.

Kutheni ikhefu lingaba lukhuni lwabantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa kunye neentsapho zabo

Iholide, ininzi lethu, lithetha ukuyeka isakhiwo, ukuhambelana nokuhlala. Kuthetha ukuthabatha, ukuzama izinto ezintsha, ukuthatha ingozi. Kungathi ukuhlala nabantu abatsha okanye kwiimeko ezicelomngeni ezifana neendawo zokuhlala.

Ngokuqinisekileyo ithetha ukuba iinkqubo, iishedyuli kunye nokuhlala zibekwe eceleni ixesha elide. Esikhundleni sezinto ezinokuzithuthuzela ekhaya nasezikolweni, umntwana wakho ngokukhawuleza kulindeleke ukuba aphathe ihlabathi leengxabano, kunye nokulindela okungekho ngaphaya kwamandla omntwana onomsebenzi olawulayo , onokuqonda, onokwenzakala, ezentlalontle, kunye / okanye imingeni enomdla.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, abaninzi abantwana bayakwazi ukuphendula utshintsho. Kodwa cinga ukuxelela umntwana wakho ngeemfuno ezizodwa, ngomzuzu wokugqibela, ukuba uya kulindela ukuba:

• ukwabelana negumbi nomzala uBilly odlala umculo omkhulu
• udle ukutya engathandi ngaphandle kokukhononda
• uchithe ixesha elongezelelweyo elwandle okanye kwindawo yokudlala nangona umdlalo weTV owuthandayo

• ukujamelana ne-bug bites okanye ukushisa ilanga, nokuba xa bechithwa okanye bebuhlungu
• Hlala uhlala kwindawo yokutyela ixesha elide okanye ngaphezulu, nangona bakugqibile ukutya kwabo kudala
• kuba mnandi kubantu abayithandi kakhulu
• uthi "ewe" kwimisebenzi engabhenxanga kuye

Kwinqaba, abantwana kufuneka bakwazi ukulawula le nqanaba lokulindela. Kubantwana abaninzi, akunakwenzeka.

Ngenxa yokuba iindwendwe ezihamba ngeeholide zingathumela abanye abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa kwiimvakalelo ezingokomzwelo, abanye abazali bayaphula ikhefu zentsapho ngokupheleleyo. Abanye besabisa ukuphumla, bazi ukuba abazalwana babo, oogogo nomkhulu, okanye abangaziwayo baya kugweba baze bagwebe umntwana wabo, kunye nommeli, umzali wabo. Kwaye abanye banamandla ngokuphumla, ukunyanzelisa iimfuno zabo ezikhethekileyo ukuba "banamise," kunye nokudala izinto ezintle kunye nokuxhalabisa kwixesha lokuphila.

Ngenhlanhla, akukho nanye kwezi zikhetho ziyimfuneko. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ube neeholide enentsapho enokubakho kwangaphambili, ukulungelelanisa kunye nokuguquguquka.

Iingcebiso Zeholide Elikhulu Ngeemfuno Zakho Ezizodwa

Iimfuno zakho ezizodwa zifuna izakhiwo zomfundi, ukulungelelanisa kunye nokuhlala. Unqwenela intsha, ukuzithemba, nokuphumla. Unako ukufumana zombini? Impendulo nguyebo, kunye nemida embalwa. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokwenza ukuba zisebenze.

1. Khetha isicwangciso seeholide oza kuhlala nawe nomntwana wakho. Ukuba unomntwana onemfuno ezizodwa, iholide ye-adventure ye-freeform engenakho isicwangciso esisisiseko yiresi yentlekele. Ukuba u-spontaneity ubalulekile kuwe kodwa umonakalo kumntwana wakho, cinga ukuthatha ikhefu elilodwa lokuzonwabisa, okanye ukuqesha umntwana ngosuku xa uya kuhlola. Ngenye indlela (nangaphezulu), lungiselela umntwana wakho nge-adventure evulekileyo evulekileyo eyandisa i-horizons ngaphandle kokumkhathaza.
2. Gcina kulula. Cinga ukuhlala endaweni enye kunokuba ujikeleze. Gcinana nomsebenzi omnye ngosuku. Kutheni ubhinqa wonke umntu xa iqondo lonke liphumla?
3. Shiya ixhala lakho ekhaya. Kuthekani ukuba umntwana wakho eneemfuno ezizodwa enze ngokubanzi kuluntu? Kuthekani ukuba umama-mkhwenkwe uthetha nge-snide malunga nezakhono zakho zomzali? Kuthekani ukuba omnye wemisebenzi oyicebileyo kakhulu kumntwana wakho? Inyani le nto kukuba ezimbalwa kule micimbi inzulu ngokwaneleyo ukuchitha ikhefu, ngoko kutheni uchithe ingqondo yakho kwangaphambili?
4. Yiba nendawo efanelekileyo yokubuyela kuyo . Iintsapho ezininzi ziyakuthanda ukuya eholide kunye. Nangona oko kungonwaba ngeemfuno ezizodwa zomntwana, kunokukwazi ukufumana umonakalo. Enye into efanelekileyo kukuthi "ewe" kwintsapho ehoxayo, kodwa "cha" kwimbono yokuba uhlala kwindlu enye. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuba umntwana wakho adinga ukuphuka okanye ufuna ukudala isakhiwo esifana nesimo esinjengekhaya ungakwenza ngaphandle kokudala isiphepho senkcazo okanye izinto eziphazamisayo.
5. Cwangcisa ubuncinane imisebenzi embalwa umntwana wakho ayayithanda . Iimfuno ezininzi ezikhethekileyo abantwana bathanda isiko kunye nokuphindaphinda. Nika kuloo nto inxalenye encinane yeholide yakho. Yithi "ewe" ukuba udlale ikhosi efanayo ye-putt-putt kwakhona, okanye ube ne-ice cream efanayo kwindawo enye, nokuba ngaba "meh". Ukuba neziganeko ezikhethekileyo ukuba zikhangele phambili nazo zinokukwenza kube lula ukufikelela kwiimeko ezinzima.
6. Ukuzisa indawo yokuhlala. Ukuba uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho uya kubambana ngaphandle komdlalo weTV ozithandayo kwaye awuqinisekanga malunga nokufumana ikhebula, kulethe iDVD neDVD kwi-inshurensi. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna iimathoyizi ezivakalayo, amashishini akhethekileyo, imithwalo, ukutya, okanye izinto zokuthuthuzela, ubazise. Ukuba umntu ekubuza imibuzo okanye ebonisa ukuba ungumntwana wakho, ungawahoyi. Abazi iimfuno zomntwana wakho ngendlela oyenzayo.
7. Soloko unesiCwangciso B. Umntwana wakho eneemfuno ezizodwa unokuba nexesha elibi ukwenza umsebenzi othile, okanye unokungafani ngokupheleleyo kwaye abe nomsindo. Ukuba izinto ziyahlukana, yenza isiCwangciso B endaweni ukuze amanye amalungu eqela lakho angayi kuvala ukuba usuku lwabo luye lwachithwa. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba abanye abantwana bafakwe kwiqela, bayazi kwangaphambili ukuba ngubani omdala oza kubamba iimfuno zakho ezizodwa zemfuno kwaye uya kuthatha inxaxheba kuyo yonke iqela. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukushiya kusasa, yenza isicwangciso apho uza kuhamba khona nendlela oya kuhlangana ngayo emva koko.
8. Hlalani nilungile omnye komnye. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ucwangcise njani ngokucwangcisekileyo, kunokuba nethuba elihle lokuba umntu uzakufuna ukutshintsha izicwangciso zakhe zokufumana abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, qiniseka ukuba bobabini abazali baphenduka bahlala ekhaya, beshiya ivenkile ngokukhawuleza, okanye bajongane nezihlobo ezigwebayo. Yenza okusemandleni akho ukuba uqiniseke ukuba wonke umntu, abazalwana kunye nabazali baquka, bafumana ithuba lokuzonwabisa ixesha bekwenza oko bathanda. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ukuba bafumane ilungu leentsapho ezikhethekileyo, kodwa oko akufanele kungonakalise ikhefu.
9. Lungiselela ama-vacation-mates. Ukuba uhlala ekhefu kunye nabahlobo okanye izalamane ezingayazi kakuhle umntwana wakho, ziwanike iintloko malunga nento enokuyilindela, into enokuyenza ukuze wenze lula ubomi wena nomntwana wakho, indlela yokubandakanya umntwana wakho, kwaye Yintoni enokuyenza xa kwenzeka into ethile. Inqaku le-imeyli yindlela efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana ngolwazi ngendlela engacwangciswanga kunye neyiyo. Qhubeka ukukhanya: "Ngezinye iinkhathi uBilly unquma ukutya ibhotela ye-peanut kunye ne-jelly esikhundleni sesidlo esilungisiweyo. Nceda ungacasuli: ungumpheki omkhulu, kodwa ukutya ukutya okuqhelekileyo kunokunceda u-Billy uzizwe ekhaya kwindawo engaqhelekanga."
10. Yiba nezimo. Ukuba umntwana wakho eneemfuno ezikhethekileyo uyathukuthela xa ebanjwa emvula, cinga ukuyeka ukuphuma ukuze imvula iphelile. Ukuba unomhla omkhulu, cinga ngokusondeza nokuba ishedyuli yakho ithi ixesha lokubuyela ekhaya.
11. Lungiselela umntwana wakho ngeemfuno ezizodwa. Oku mhlawumbi isiluleko esibalulekileyo kule nqaku! Umntwana wakho eneemfuno ezizodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukwazi ukuphumla kwaye ujabulele ikhefu nawe xa ekulungele.

Nazi ezinye izicwangciso zokulungiselela umntwana wakho kwiholide:

• Yakha "ibali lezentlalo" uchaza apho uya khona noko uza kwenza ntoni. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, sebenzisa iifoto zangempela zabantu kunye neendawo. Yifunde kunye ekuqaleni kwaye rhoqo.
• Thetha ngezicwangciso zakho nomntwana wakho, ukwabelana kunye nokugxininisa okulungileyo. Gcina njengento elula njengoko kuyimfuneko. Ngokomzekelo, "xa sifika elunxwemeni uya kuza kunditshitshisa!"
• Cinga ukusebenzisa inkqubo yokuvuza ngokuziphatha okuhle. Ngokomzekelo, "Ukuba unako ukuhlala nathi kwivenkile de kube yilapho wonke umntu eqedile, unokubukela isiqendu sesiboniso sakho seTV."
• Yiba nesicwangciso kwimihla ngemihla, kwaye uhambe phezu kwesi sicwangciso sakusasa. Sebenzisa iishedyuli ezibonwayo ukunceda umntwana wakho enze ingqiqo kwaye akhumbule oko ucinga ngako.

Ekugqibeleni: Hlaziya! Khumbula ukuba useholide. Inqaku elipheleleyo kukuzonwabisa. Ngoko uphumule, yenza okusebenzayo, kwaye khumbula ukuba isimo sakho esihle, sikhululekile sinokwenza konke umehluko!