Zonke izibini zihamba ngexesha lokuguqulwa phambi, ngexesha nangemva kokulahleka . Abahlobo abanakuze babonakale bekwiphepha elifanayo, kwaye ukucaphukisa okuqhelekileyo kunokunyuka ngokukhawuleza. Unokuziva ngathi umtshato wakho uzimisele ukuchithwa ngamanye amaxesha.
Ukuba uye waya kunoma yimaphi amaqela enkxaso, funda nayiphi na iindaba zokungabikho kwi-intanethi kwi-intanethi, okanye uqale ukuva amabali abucala kuwo onke amabhinqa ebomini bakho ongazange ukwazi ukuba uphumelele ekulahlekeni kokukhulelwa, sele uqaphela ukuba amava onke .
Nangona kukho ukuphendula okufanayo kwintlungu, kungekhona wonke umntu uya kubafumana ngendlela efanayo, okanye umyalelo ofanayo.
Amanqanaba amahlanu okuxakeka
Mhlawumbi sele usuvile ngeMigangatho emihlanu yeNdabuzelo kwaye ngokungathandabuzeki wawuziva ngathi yonke imvakalelo ekhuselekileyo ukusuka ekulahlekeni kwakho kokukhulelwa - ukujikela kwisigaba ukuya kwisiteji esaneleyo ukuze uzenze udizzy. Intukuthelo, ukudabuka, ityala, ixesha lovuyo kunye nezihlandlo ezimbalwa apho ingcamango yakho yokuqala ayengayikho malunga nosana lwakho olulahlekileyo. Ngokufanayo, mhlawumbi uya kuqonda ezininzi zezi mvakalelo kwiqabane lakho. Ingxaki iqala ukufika xa uziva izinto ezahlukeneyo ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo.
Ukulahleka kokukhulelwa ngenye yezo zihlandlo xa wena kunye neqabane lakho nifumana intlungu ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo. Kungakudideka kuwe njengoko uzama ukuxhasana xa uhlala kwindawo ezahlukeneyo ngokwasemoyeni.
Kukho ixesha eliqhelekileyo uninzi lwezono zamabini amaqabane emva kokulahleka kokukhulelwa, kwaye ngamnye unokukholelwa ukuba omnye ulawule ngandlela-thile.
Ngoko yintoni enye indlela efanelekileyo yokuphepha ukuvalelwa kweemvakalelo?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu bafihla iimvakalelo zabo komnye nomnye, nangona kungenasisiseko ngenxa yecala, inzondo okanye ukucinga nje ukuba amaqabane abo ayazi ukuba azizwa ngaphandle kokufuna ukuthetha. Thetha omnye nomnye, thetha nabanye abantu abaziyo ukuba uyintoni na.
Ungalindelanga ukuba umntu awazi into engaphakathi xa ungahlanganyeli.
Nantoni na oyenzayo, musa ukukhawuleza. Ukudabuka kuthatha ixesha, kwaye akukho zihlandlo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unokuva okanye uxinzelelo onokuziva. Qhubeka uthetha kwaye ukhumbule ukuba kuya kuba neentsuku ezilungileyo kunye nosuku olubi, kwaye akukho nto ephosakeleyo ngokuba nomhla obileyo nangemva kokuba ucinga ukuba "ungaphezu kwayo."
Nika omnye inkululeko inkululeko yokujongana nale ndlela ngeendlela zakho ezikhethekileyo, kodwa ungesabi ukunyaniseka ngemvakalelo yakho, nangona ukuba iqabane lakho libonakala lisezingeni elithile.
Sivame ukuthintela ukuthetha ngokukhulelwa kwesisu kunye nokulahleka kokukhulelwa kuba kwenza abantu bangakhululeki. Unokuziva ukuba ulindele ukulibala oko kwenzeka okanye ukufihla imemori. Kodwa umsebenzi weentlungu uquka ukukhumbula. Ezinye izinto onokuzenzayo: zinika igama lakho umntwana, ukhanyise ikhandlela lokuzalwa ngosuku lwakho okanye umkhosi wokukhulelwa kwakho, unike isithandwa kwintsapho yakho, hlwaba umthi, okanye ubhale "Siyakuthanda" i-helium ibhaluni kwaye uyikhulule esibhakabhakeni.
Musa ukwesaba okanye ukuhlazeka ukufuna uncedo lobuchwepheshe. Yintoni ojongene nayo yiHARD. Musa ukuzihlawula okanye wena okanye iqabane lakho ukuba awukwazi ukwenza yedwa. Iqela leenkxaso , umcebisi okanye umphathiswa angakunceda, iqabane lakho okanye bobabini njengesiqabane ukuba nisebenzele intlungu yenu kwaye niphume ngamandla njengeqela.