Uncedo lokwenza isigqibo malunga nokufakwa kwamathambo
Abazali bamawele bajamelana nesigqibo esinzima malunga nabantwana babo. Ngaba kufuneka babe kunye kwiklasi efanayo okanye bahluke kwiiklasi ezahlukeneyo? Akukho mpendulo ecacileyo, njengoko yonke idilesi yamamawele ehlukileyo, kwaye ukhetho "oluchanekileyo" luyahlukahluka unyaka nonyaka. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali baphoqelelwe ukuba benze isigqibo ngeenkqubo zemigaqo yesikolo. Ukuba uzama ukugqiba ukhetho olungcono kwiamawele akho, qwalasela ezi zizathu ukugcina amawele ndawonye kwiklasi efanayo.
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Iqinisekisa i-Experience Contistent Experience ExperienceNgaphambi kokuzalwa, amawele adibene kunye kwindawo efana nayo. Emva koko bachitha iminyaka embalwa yokuqala yobomi babo ndawonye, bajikelezwe ngabantu abafanayo, baxhamla indawo efanayo kwaye bahlala namava afanayo. Kuphela nje oko bakulindele kwaye bajwayele. Ukufakwa kwiiklasi ezahlukeneyo kunokukhokelela ekubeni nomona, ukudimazeka, ukhuphiswano kunye nokulwa. Ngomfundisi ofanayo kunye nabafundi ofunda nabo, banandipha amava anemfundo eqhubekayo, bafunda into efanayo ngexesha elinye.
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Kukho kuphela iCandelo elilodwa kuphelaNgamanye amaxesha kukho iklasi eyodwa kuphela kwiklasi yobudala. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kuyimeko kwizikolo ezincinci ezizimeleyo, okanye mhlawumbi kwiziko lokufundela okanye i-kindergarten setting. Kwiiprogram zeentsuku-ntsuku, kunokukho iklasi enye yokusa kunye nezinye iikhosi zamasemini. Kwiimeko ezifana nalezi, kunengqondo ukuba abazali babeke amawele abo ndawonye kwiklasi efanayo. Ngamanye amaxesha kunesizathu esichukumisayo sokubahlukanisa , apho abazali baya kufuneka bafune ezinye iindlela, mhlawumbi bazibeke kwizikolo ezahlukeneyo okanye iinkqubo ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa ukuba akusiyo imeko, makheke ukuba imeko imisele ukhetho; ukuba kunye kunye nesona sigqibo esona sigqibo.
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Yinto Elula Kakhulu YentsaphoBonke abazali bafuna into ebhetele kubantwana babo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha into ebhetele ukuba abantwana baxhomekeke kwinto efanelekileyo kuyo yonke intsapho. Ngabantwana ababini okanye abangaphezulu kwibanga elifanayo ngelo xesha, ngamanye amaxesha ukulungelelanisa yisona sizathu esihle kakhulu sokugcina amawele ndawonye kwiklasi enye, kunye neesethi esinye sezikhundla, iimvavanyo kunye nootitshala ukuba baqhubeke. Akuyona inkinga yokuzingca, okanye ivila. Kunoko, umcimbi wokukhetha imeko enika ulawulo olufanelekileyo lweenkonzo zeentsapho. Musa ukuphazamisa okanye ukuphika ukubaluleka kobuchule bokubazali okanye uzive ukuba uthatha indlela elula. Amawele omzali anzima ngokwaneleyo, kwaye ukuba ubagcina kwiklasi efanayo bahlangabezana neemfuno zabo kunye neyakho, ngoko kuyona nto ikhethekileyo.
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Elinye i-Twin ifuna enyeUlwalamano phakathi kwamawele luyinkimbinkimbi. Njengabantu ngabanye, bafana, kodwa bahluke. Xa umntu onamandla, omnye unokuthi abe buthathaka. Baye bathembele kunye kwaye baxhathane. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngakumbi xa bebancinci, omnye unokufuna enye. Xa kungekho mntu, omnye uya kumsekela. Kwiimeko ezininzi, oku kuguqulwa kuya kutshintsha kwaye kuguquke njengoko amawele ekhula kwaye ekhulile njengabantu ngabanye. Kodwa ekwenzeni isigqibo malunga nokufakwa kwamagumbi okufundela kwikamva eliseduze okanye elikhawulezileyo, yinto ebalulekileyo yokuqwalasela. Ngamanye amaxesha yinto ebangela ukuhlukana. Kodwa ukuba ukuhlukana kunokuvelisa umonakalo kwiwele elifunayo, kholosa isiza sakho ukuba bahlale ndawonye. Kuya kuba nexesha lokunqoba ukunyuka phantsi kwendlela.
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AbayiKhuphiswanoNgenxa yokuba bahlala befaniswa baze baphile njengabantwana bakwixesha elifanayo, amanye amawele angakhuphisana kakhulu. Kodwa abanye abaninzi abangekho, umzekelo, inkwenkwana / intombazana efana nezobulili ezahlukana ngabo. Amawele ekhuphiswano kwiklasi elifanayo anganciphisa ukuqhuba kwabo ukuqhubela phambili, ukufuna ingqwalasela eyongezelelweyo, ukuphumelela kwezemfundo, okanye ukuhlala kwezentlalo. Kodwa ngamamawele angenayo le ngqiqo yokhuphiswano, okanye abo bakwazi ukuwuhambisa kwiziphumo ezintle, ukwabelana ngeklasi kungabangela inzuzo kubafundi bobabini.
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Abaphazamiseki Ngamanye AmanyeXa amawele akwazi ukusebenza ngokuzimeleyo ebusweni bunye, ukuba kunye kunye kwiklasi efanayo kunokuba yimeko efanelekileyo. Kwamawele ambalwa, ubukho bomntakwabo-wabo umhlobo ukususela ekuzalweni-kunokubangela ukuphazamiseka nokukhusela ukufunda okunempumelelo. Kodwa kwabanye, ukwahlukana kunokuba nefuthe elifanayo, kubathintele ukuba bagxininise kwizifundo zabo kuba bahlala bebuza ukuba yintoni enye eyenzayo kwenye indawo.
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Ivumela Abazali Ukuba Bandakanyeke Ngokubanzi kwimfundo yaboNgokutsho kwe-PTA kazwelonke, xa abazali bebandakanyeka, abafundi bafezekisa ngakumbi. Inceda abantwana bakho xa unako ukuzithandela kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kwimfundo. Ukuba nabafundi abaninzi kwiiklasi ezahlukeneyo kwibakala elifanayo banokungavumeleki kubazali abafuna ukunika ixesha labo esikolweni. Unyulela njani uhambo oluya ensimini? Nguwuphi u titshala o kunceda? Liliphi iklasi lokufunda? Yiyiphi iklasi yokubonelela iikhokheki ngosuku lokuzalwa kwamawele? Ukuba namawele akho kwiklasi enye iyavula amathuba okubandakanyeka kwabazali, iinzuzo ezingenakuphikiswa. Ukuba ngaba umgomo wakho ukuba ngumzali osebenzayo, ochaphazelekayo, ukuba namawele eklasini efanayo ulula lula inkqubo.
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Bafana neendlela zokufunda ezifanayoAbaphandi baye bafumanisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokufunda, iindlela abantu abazenza ngayo nokusebenzisa ulwazi ukuze bafunde izakhono ezintsha. Ngaphezulu, ootitshala bahluka ngokubanzi kwisimo somntu nokufundisa. Isilungiselelo samagumbi okufundela sisona siphumelele xa izitala zabafundi kunye nabafundisi "zifana" okanye zihambelana. Amawele aqhelekileyo afana kakhulu; Ngamawele angabonakali angaba nesimo esifanayo sokufunda. Ukuba uye wafumanisa ukuba ootitshala abathile kwisikolo sakho seamawele banamathela kwisitayela sokufundisa esifana neemfuno zakho zamamawele, ngoko kuya kuba luncedo ukuba babekwe kwiklasi efanayo. Kwakhona kuvimbela ukungalingani kumava abo emfundo, kunye newele elinye elihambelana kakuhle nomfundisi ontle, kunye nomnye olwa nomdlalo ombi.
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Izimo zangaphandle zingenza ukwahlukanaYintoni eyenzeka ngaphandle kwesikolo? Ngaba amawele akho ngexesha lokutshintsha? Ngaba baqala isikolo esitsha, beya kwindlu entsha, bemkela ilungu lentsapho? Ngaba sele balahlekelwe ngumntu othandekayo, beye beqhawula umtshato, okanye uxinzelelo oluxhatshazwayo okanye intlungu? Khangela umfanekiso omkhulu kwaye uqwalasele ezi zinto zangaphandle xa wenza isigqibo sakho. Ukuba "ubomi boqobo" bubonisa imingeni ethile, ungafaki uxinzelelo olongezelelweyo kwisikolo ngokubanyanzelisa. Ukuzigcina ndawonye kwiklasi efanayo kunokuboleka ukuzinza kwimeko kwaye bancede bahlengahlengise imeko zabo, kokubili esikolweni nasekhaya.
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ISigqeba Sabo Esizodwa Sibenza Bakhuthaze NgakumbiKunzima kuma-twins ukuba aqonde ukubopha phakathi kwamawele . Ulwalamano olukhethekileyo. Iqala nangaphambi kokuzalwa kwaye ihlala ihlala ixesha elide kuneemitshato, ubuhlobo okanye ubuhlobo bomzali / umntwana. Kubantwana abancinci, ukuba kunye kunye nabo bonke bawaziyo. Ukuba bafuna ukuba kunye, kufuneka babe kunye. Ulwahlulo lunokuba ngamava obuhlungu. Akunjalo ukuba abanakuze bahlukane, bahlala behle kunye kunye. Njengabantu ngabanye, banethemba ngakumbi, abavelisayo nabaphumelelayo xa besendaweni efanayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuza umhla apho iimeko zifuna ukuba zihlukane. Ukuvumela ukuba bafunde kwaye baphuhlane kunye ngoku baya kwenza ukuba uguqulelo lube lula xa kufika ixesha.