Ukuzaliswa kwamajelo malunga namawele angabi nengozi okanye awonakalise
Ukuba ungumzali wewele, unokuthi uvelele kwizinto ezinokuthiwa ngama-twins kunye nokuphindaphinda. Ezi zinto zenzeke ngokubanzi kwaye zixhomekeke kwiingcamango zokungaqondi kunye nokungaqondani. Abanye baqhutyelwa phambili ngamaphephandaba , kubalinganiswa bee-movie, imiboniso yethelevishini kunye neencwadi.
Ngelixa ezininzi zingenakubungozi, ngamanye amaxesha zinokulimaza amawele kunye neentsapho zabo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo ezi zibalulo zisekelwe kwisicatshulwa sokuthi zonke iimbini zomibini zifana, zibhekiselele kwiimpawu ezikhethekileyo kunye nobuqu bomntu ngamnye, kunye nokuhlawula ukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kweqela ngalinye lamawele lihlukile kwaye lihluke. Amawele ahambelani nalezi ziqhamo ezingaphezulu kwamanye amaqela aphethwe ngolu hlobo ngokusekelwe kubuhlanga, ubuzwe, isini, ukhetho lwezesondo, okanye ukubonakala.
Amaqhinga ngamabhinqa
I-stereotype ichazwa kwi-Dictionary.com ngokuthi "umfanekiso ogciniweyo wengqondo oqhutyelwa ngokufanayo ngamalungu eqela kwaye emele imbono ephezulu, isimo sengqondo esichaphazelekayo, okanye isigwebo esingaqondanga," okanye "into ehambelanayo nomzekelo oqhelekileyo okanye oqhelekileyo. "Uluntu olunqwenelekayo ngamawele afutha ama-stereotypes. Jonga ngokubaluleka kweminye yeengcamango malunga namawele.
1. Amaduna kufuneka akhangele kwaye enze ngokufanayo
Akunamawele onke amawele afanayo , kwaye nangona kunjalo, ukwabelana nge- DNA efanayo akubenzi ngokulinganayo.
Amanye amawele afanayo akhangeleka ngokufanayo, ngelixa abanye bebukeka behluke. Ezinye izitayela ezifana namawele ngokwawo ukuze zingabonakali ngokufanayo kwaye abanye bafumana ukungafani ngenxa yemeko yendalo.
Abazalwana (ama-dizygotic) amawele awayekho okanye angaphantsi koko kunabani abantakwabo ababini. Ngenxa yokuba bazalwa ngexesha elifanayo, kwaye mhlawumbi bachithe ixesha elide kunye kunye nabazalwana babo, bangaba nokukhetha okufanayo.
2. Abantu Banika iimbini ezihlukeneyo (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha zibi) Iilebhile
Abantu bazama ukuhlukanisa amawele ngokuchasa iimpawu. Ukuqhathaniswa rhoqo kuthetha ukuba amawele ahlala elandelwa ngokumalunga nomnye kunokuba azincoma. Ngokomzekelo, kukho iwele elihle kunye namawele amabi, umntwana okhukhulayo kunye nosana olulula. Amantombazana angabhalwa ngokuthi "ohlakaniphileyo" kunye "nomhle," kunye namakhwenkwe "umgijimi" kunye "nenkokeli yendalo." Ezi mabhalo zingathonya umzobo womntwana kunye nophuhliso.
Amawele kunye nabazali bawo bahlala bejongana nemibuzo ejoliswe ekuhloliseni nasekuyikeni. Yiyiphi eyakrazuka kuqala? Yiyiphi enye ephumayo? Nguwuphi na umdla wezemidlalo? Yiyiphi ibakala elingcono?
Umgca wecala kukuba awukwazi ukubonakalisa zonke iisethi zeewele njengezifana okanye ezihlukileyo. Ayizona i-clones kwaye azichasani. Babantu abakhethiweyo, ngokufanayo ngeendlela ezithile kwaye bahluke kwabanye.
3. Amacangqa abe noxhumano oluqhelekileyo
Abantu bafuna ukunika amandla akhethekileyo ngamawele. Nangona kungekho bu bungqina bobunzululwazi obuxhasa ukuhlala kwee- twin telepathy , kukho imbali emangalisayo yezinto ezidibeneyo kunye neziganeko zoqhagamshelwano olubonakala ngathi lunxibelelwano.
Maxa wambi iwele zibonakala zikwazi ukuba omnye ucinga okanye agqibe njani izivakalisi zomnye. Abanye bachaza iindaba zokwazi ukuba omnye utyhatywe okanye uyagula, nangona bahlala kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa akubona onke amawele adibana naloo hlobo lwamava, kwaye lo mboniso ungenza amawele abe nomuvo wokuba ayabalulekanga ukuba abanalo uxhulumano olungaphezulu.
4. Uhlobo lweNkundla yoKhuseleko lusetyenziselwa amawele
Impawu zolawulo lokuzalwa zisetyenziswa kakubi kumawele. Abantu babonakala bengenakukwazi ukuba yeyiphi na into emibini ekhulile kwaye yinto encinane kwaye uzame ukufumana izigqibo malunga nobuntu bamawele. Omdala kufuneka abe yinkokeli, ngelixa umncinci oxhomekeke kuye, okanye owokuqala kufuneka asebenze ngokukhudlwana ngaphezu kwewele lakhe.
Unamawele amaninzi azalwa kunye nemizuzu embalwa komnye. Iimpawu zobuntu ezibonisa abantakwabo bakhula kwixesha leminyaka kwaye zenziwe malunga neentsapho zengqungquthela ezingafunanga kumawele.
5. Ziyona Zihle kakhulu-okanye izitha ezimbi
Abantu bacinga ukuba i-twinship iyanelisa umntu oyisisiseko ukulangazelela ubudlelwane, kodwa amawele aqhelekileyo abahlobo kunye neentshaba ezibi kakhulu, zonke ngelo xesha. Amamawele amaninzi asondele kakhulu kwaye amaninzi alwa ngamandla kakhulu. Ayikho iphethini ehleliweyo yolwalamano. Emva kwexesha, ubudlelwane babo buya kutshintsha njengawo nawabantakwethu.
6. Amabhinqa aqhelekileyo awona Msebenzi oKhethekileyo kunamawele omzalwana
Phantse i-third-thirds of twins i- monozygotic (efana), ikwabelana ngokufakela imfuyo kwaye iyakwazi ukulungelelanisa umxhelo wegazi kunye nomzimba we-tissu. Ngaphandle kweempembelelo zezokwelapha, ezinye zizalisekisa ukuba amawele afanayo aya kuba neentlobo ezikhethekileyo kodwa amawele angamaqabane akayi kuba. Kubalulekile ukuyeka ukubhala amawele ngokubhekiselele kwi-zygosity, kwaye ujonge iwele ngalinye njengomntu oyingqayizivele, kunye nobudlelwane bomntu obulodwa njengezodwa.