Izinketho zokukhulelwa xa ubuhlungu besondo buvimbela ukungena
Abasetyhini abaneengxaki ngexesha lesondo abanako ukulala ngesondo ngokukhawuleza ukuba bakwazi ukukhulelwa. Imiqathango efana ne-vaginismus kunye ne-vulvodynia inokuyenza into engathandekiyo okanye ingenakwenzeka.
Eyona nto, ukuba unentlungu ngexesha lokwebelana ngesondo, kufuneka ubone ugqirha wakho ukuze uhlolwe kwaye unyango. Ubuhlungu ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo lunokubangelwa yimimiselo yeemeko, ezinye zazo ezinokulimaza ukuzala kwakho.
Kukho unyango olukhoyo, kwaye lufanelekile ukuzama.
Nangona kunjalo, masithi uthe wayethetha nodokotela wakho kwaye wazama unyango, kodwa abazange baphumelele ekunciphiseni intlungu yakho.
Okanye, mhlawumbi unyango luhamba kancane kwaye awufuni ukulinda de ukwazi ukunyamezela ukulala ngesondo ukuqala ukuzama ukukhulelwa.
Okanye, mhlawumbi, awukwazi ukuzithetha ukuthetha nodokotela wakho malunga nentlungu.
Ngaba kukho indlela onokukhulelwa ngayo? Kukho iindlela ezithile.
"Ukutshatyalaliswa kokukhulelwa" - okanye ukuThola nge-Ejaculation ngaphandle kweVagina
Le yindawo enhle ukukhankanya ukuba izibini ezingenakulala ngesondo zingahlala zesondo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kuchazwa nje ngaphezu kwesondo.
Enye indlela yokukhulelwa ngaphandle kokulala, kukuba umntu ahlalise ngokusondeleyo ngokuvulwa kwesondo njengokuba kunokwenzeka.
Ukukhulelwa okwenzeka ngenxa yendoda efikelela kwindawo yangasese yangaphandle (ngengozi okanye ngenjongo) ngaphandle kwesondo ngezinye izihlandlo kuthiwa "ukukhulelwa komzimba."
Ngethuba nje ukuba ezinye iinambuzane zenza indlela yazo kwiindawo ezixhamlayo okanye ezingasini, unalo ithuba lokukhulelwa. Ukuba i-ejaculation inokuthi ivele ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwesini, oko kungcono.
Kungenzeka ukuba uya kuba nokukhulelwa. Ezinye izifundo zixubusha abafazi abanenkinga yokuhlala e-vaginismus enomntwana ngale ndlela.
Ngaloo nto, akukho zifundo ezijonge iingxaki zokusebenzisa le ndlela ukuze ukhulelwe. Ziyaphantsi kakhulu xa zithelekiswa nezibini ezinesondo esivamile.
Ukuba uya kuzama, qiniseka ukuba uthathe zonke ezinye iindlela ukuze ukwandise iingxaki zakho zokukhulelwa. Uyakufuna
- Qinisekisa ukuba ixesha lokulala ngesondo kufuphi ne-ovulation
- Zama ukulala phantsi wakho emva koko
- Sebenzisa kuphela iiblue oil friendly
- Mhlawumbi uzama ukuba ne-orgasm nje ngaphambi okanye emva (ngaphandle kokuphazamisa isilwanyana esifakiwe, ukuba kunokwenzeka)
IUI kunye nezinye iifom zokusasaza
Enye indlela enokwenzeka ngayo kwiingqabane ezingenakukwazi ukulala ngesondo kukuqwalasela ukuchithwa kwezinto zokufakelwa .
Ukugqithiswa kokufakelwa kweso sihlandlo xa isityalo siqokelelwa size sitshintshelwe kwi-canal yangasese, kwi-cervix, okanye kwisibeletho.
IUI, i-intrauterine insemination, yindlela eqhelekileyo esetyenziswayo kuba inezinga eliphezulu lokuphumelela. Ngexesha eliqhelekileyo, i-IUI ibandakanya unyango kunye neziyobisi zokuzala, oku akudingeki.
Gcina ingqalelo xa ukhangela amazinga okuphumelela kwi-IUI ukuba ezi zifundo zijonge ngokukodwa kwizibini ezineengxaki zokuzala.
Ukuba ubunzima bakho kuphela ekukhuleleni ubuhlungu ngexesha lesondo, kwaye akukho nanye imicimbi yokuzala (kwaye intlungu ayibangelwa yimeko echaphazela kakubi ukuzala kwakho), amazinga akho okuphumelela aphezulu.
Ukusabalalisa ngokungekho nto kuya kuba luncedo kumntu ongenako ukunyamezela naluphi na ukungena. IUI idinga ukufakwa kwe-speculum ye-gynecological. Kukho kwakhona kunokuncinciza ngokufakela kwi-catheter.
Nangona kunjalo, kulabo bafumana ubunzima bodwa nge-penile yokungena okanye ukugxotha, i-IUI inokukhetha.
Kwi-Home Insemination aka "Indlela yaseTurkey Baster"
Enye indlela enokuyenza yindlela yokusasaza ekhaya-okubizwa ngokuba yi "turkey baster" indlela. Le ndlela ingaba yingozi xa yenza ngokungafanelekanga (jonga ngezantsi ukuba kutheni), kodwa yindlela emininzi ethatha ngayo le mibandela.
Ukusasaza ekhaya kudinga indebe eyinyumba, eyomileyo ukuqokelela isilwanyana.
Kwakhona, udinga isirinji esingenasiphelo esingenasiphelo, njengaleyo esetyenziselwa ukulinganisa amayeza omlomo wamanzi.
Iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo zokulumkisa ukuba uceba ukuzama le ndlela:
- Thetha nogqirha wakho kuqala ngaphambi kokuzama ukusasaza ekhaya. Bangakuxelela indlela yokwenza oku ngokukhuselekileyo.
- Ungaze uzame ukujoba okanye ukudlulisela isisu kumbele wesibeleko okanye kwisibeletho! Oku kuyingozi kakhulu kwaye kunokubulala! Insemination nge-cervix okanye i-uterus idinga unyango olukhethekileyo lwesambulo kwaye luyakwenziwa kuphela ngeklinikhi yokuzala. Unokuzilimaza kakhulu. Ukusasaza ekhaya kungabesifazana kuphela.
- Qinisekisa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba isirinji esingenalutho engenalo iipokotshi zomoya ngaphambi kokuba unyantse inambuzane kwaye ngaphambi kokuba ususwe. Ukuzisa umoya kwi-vagina kungakhokelela ekufakeni umoya obulalayo.
- Izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo zihanjiswe kumfazi ngokugqithisa. Le ndlela ayisususi okanye iyanciphise umngcipheko we-STD.
- Qinisekisa ukuba yonke into isetyenzisiweyo - ukusuka kwindebe ukuya kwisirinji esingenalinga - yintsha entsha, ihlambulukile kwaye iyomile. Sebenzisa kuphela i-lubricants for lubricants, if needed.
- Kukho inani leekiti zokurhweba ekhaya ezithengiswa kwi-Intanethi. Umthengi uqaphele, njengokuba ezinye zeekiti ziqukethe imiyalelo eyingozi okanye izinto. (Ngokomzekelo, ezinye ziqulethe imiyalelo yokwenza i-intrauterine ukusatshalaliswa, okungekuze uzame ekhaya.)
- Ukusasazeka ekhaya, ukuba kwenziwe ngokungafanelekanga, kunokukhokelela ekusulelekeni kunye nokulimala.
- Ingcaciso apha akufanele ithathelwe ingcebiso yonyango. Qhubeka ngokusemngciphekweni wakho.
Kwaye, ezinye izicwangciso zomthetho:
- Musa ukuzama ukusabalalisa ikhaya kunye nomnikezeli wesidoda, nokuba uyaziwa okanye akaziwa. Kwimihlaba emininzi, ukusabalalisa okungenakwenzeka kunye neengcali zezobugqirha akuyi kubonwa enkundleni njengomntwana onikwe umnikeli. Ngamanye amazwi, nangona unesivumelwano esibhaliweyo kunye nesayinwe, umniki-mzi unako ukugxininisa ngokusemthethweni amalungelo omzali, kwaye unina unakho ngokusemthethweni ukukwazi ukufumana iintlawulo zomntwana kumnikeli.
- Ukuba wenza lo mntu ngaphandle komlingane wakho osemthethweni, qhagamshelana nommeli wokuqala wokuzala.
- Ulwazi olunikeziweyo apha alufanele luthathwe ingcebiso ngezomthetho. Qhubeka ngokusemngciphekweni wakho.
Ngaphantsi kokuzama ukuqonda xa ubulili bubuhlungu
Nangona kunokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe ngaphandle kokungena kwepenile, iindlela ezikhethileyo zikhethi ziyabiza kwaye zingenasiphelo (njenge-IUI) okanye akunakwenzeka (njengokuba u-ejaculation ngaphandle kwesini.)
Into engcono yokwenza? Funa unyango lweentlungu zesini ngokwazo.
Thetha ku-gynecologist yakho kwizinketho kunye nezixhobo. Ukwabelana ngesondo akufanele kube buhlungu, kwaye akufanele uhlupheke. Ukuba omnye ugqirha akakwazi ukunceda, uye kwenye. Qhubeka ukhangela uze ufumane umntu onokukunceda.
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