Iingxelo zeMadala akwaMadala ekuQaphelweni kwesini
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufumani ngesondo lomntwana okulindeleyo, ukufunda ukuba unenkwenkwe okanye intombazana akungabazeki ukuba enye yezinto ezonwabisayo ngokuba ngumzali. Yaye ngelixa unako ukufumanisa ngezinga elithile lokuqinisekisa ngaphambi kokuba umthwalo wakho wovuyo ufike (ngethuba le- ultrasound , umzekelo, okanye ukuba ufuna ukuvavanya uvavanyo lwe-diagnostic ezifana ne-amniocentesis okanye i-chorionic villi yokuhlola), kunokubaninzi kumnandi ukuzama ukuqikelela ukuba uza kuzisa ekhaya unyana okanye intombi esibhedlele.
Kukho amaninzi amabali abafazi asekudala ekuqaliseni isondo somntwana ngaphambi kokuba azalwe. Nazi ezinye zezinto ongafuna ukuzidlala nazo, kodwa khumbula: Azingekelwe kwintsimi yesayensi, ngoko ungayisebenzisi ukuba unqume ukuba yintoni umbala wokupenda i-nursery!
Ukukhethwa kokutya kunye nezifiso
Ingcamango apha kukuba into eyenziwa ngumfazi emzimbeni wakhe inokuchaphazela ubulili bomntwana wakhe, mhlawumbi ivela kwingcamango yokuba amakhwenkwe namantombazana abanesifiso esahlukileyo kunamantombazana kwaye baya kwenza ukuba baziwa ngeenqweno zikamama.
Umzekelo, ngaba uya kuyidla isithende sesonka? Ukuba impendulo yakho "ayikho indlela," unentombazana, ngokutsho komnye umfazi omdala. Kuye kunjalo ukuba unqwenela ukutya okunesonka kunezinto ezicolileyo, uthi omnye. Ngala ma nyathelo, kunzima ukwazi indlela ikhekhethi ye-classic kunye nekhrikri ezinqwenela ngayo ukukhulelwa komsebenzi!
Ubunzima bokukhulelwa
Ukusuka apho kwakuyinto elula ukuthetha ukuba ukutya esikudlayo ekukhulelweni kwakufuneka kudibene nokuba sithwele intombazana okanye inkwenkwana.
Esinye isalathisi seklasi yezesondo zesana yindlela umama ephethe ngayo. Ibhinqa elibonakala likhulelwe livela emva lixelelwa ukuba neentombazana. Kodwa ukuba yonke isisu sibheke phambili kwaye sibukeka ngathi uginyile ibhasikidi, kukho umntwana osemncinane ngaphakathi. d
Ukukhulelwa "Khanya
Lo mntu unokuba nzima ukuba umama afune ukugwinya kodwa ingcamango kukuba indlela ekhangeleka ngayo xa ekhulelwe ingabonisa ubulili buntana lwakhe: Ibhinqa elinentombazana ekuthiwa ayikho "ukukhulelwa" okukhazimulayo ngenxa yokuzalwa kwakhe Intombi ibambe yonke ubuhle bayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Olunye utshintsho oluthile olwenziwe ngumama-ukuba lube lukhutshwe njengoluhlu lwezesini. Ibhinqa elinamaqabunga ngaphezu koqhelekileyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa lithwele intombazana. Kuyafana ukuba umbala womchamo wakhe unobumba obomvu, kunokuba luhlaza okwephuzi, iinwele zakhe zikhula ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ngaphambi kokuba alindele, kwaye amabele akhe ashintshile ngokuphawulekayo.
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Ngaba ukhulelwe enyangeni enqabileyo okanye mhlawumbi? Okwenzekayo (ngoJanuwari, Matshi, ngoMeyi, njalonjalo) kuthetha ukuba unentombazana encinane endleleni; (ngoFebhuwari, uEpreli, uJuni, njl. njl) kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ubeke impahla kwiingubo eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kunye neempahla zentsana.