Izinto ezinzima xa unamawele

Uninzi lwexesha, abazali banabantwana ngabanye. Kodwa abazali bamawele bajongene nomngeni wokukhulisa abantwana ababini abafanayo. Nangona iimivuzo kunye neentsikelelo zokuba namawele zininzi, zikhona ezinye iimeko ezinzima kakhulu xa ungumzali wewele. Makhe sijonge ezinye zeengxaki, nendlela abazali abaphatha ngayo amawele.

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Ukuthatha Imifanekiso Yomntwana

Umzali ngamnye ufuna ukubhala ixesha elikhethekileyo lobomi bomntwana. Ukusuka kokumomotheka kokuqala kumanyathelo okuqala, ikhamera isoloko isondele. Xa unamawele, kukho ixesha elihle lokuthabatha. Kodwa akusoloko kulula ukufumana ukudubula kakuhle. Kuzo zonke imifanekiso emihle, kukho umzila wezinto eziphazamisayo. Omnye ukhangela ikhamera, omnye ukhangeleka. Enye evulekileyo amehlo, elinye livule amehlo. Omnye ohlekayo, okhalayo.

Amantombazana am amawele ayeneminyaka engama-ezisibhozo ubudala xa ndizama ukukhangela iholide yokuqala yeholide. Yithatha yonke loo mini ukuba ifumaneke ngempumelelo imifanekiso epheleleyo yekhadi lethu leKrisimasi. Ndacinga ukuba iintsana zam ziya kuba mnandi kwiintsimbi ezincinane zaseSanta; bacinga ukuba kuya kuba yintlanzi ukukrazula iinqwelo kunye nokudlala i-peek-a-boo.

Ukunyamekela kuyisitshixo ekufumaneni imifanekiso emihle yeeplani. Okanye uyishiya kubaqeqeshi.

Iingcebiso :

• I-Professional Photography Iingcebiso eziManyeneyo
• Iholide Photo Iintetho ezivela kwiintsapho ezininzi

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Ukuya kwiSikolo esivulekileyo kwiNdlu

Ngaba wakha wacinga malunga nokuba kuya kuba njani ukufumana amandla amakhulu? Khawucinge ukuba uyakwazi ukundiza, okanye ukukrazula izakhiwo ezide kummandla owodwa, okanye ukuphakamisa izindonga njenge-Spider-Man. Ukuba ndiza kunika amandla amakhulu kubazali bamawele, kuya kuba namandla okuba kwindawo ezimbini ngexesha elinye. Yilo lwazi oluyimfuneko ukuphumelela ngempumelelo ngolo hlobo lweminyaka yendima eyaziwa ngokuthi "Ukubuyela Ebusuku." Esi siganeko, apho abazali batyelela isikolo somntwana wabo emva kokuba isikolo siqala ukuwa, kuyithuba lokutyelela eklasini kwaye badibana nootitshala kunye nabanye abazali. Nangona izikolo zizama ukuhlala nabazali abanezingane ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, kunzima kakhulu ukulawula xa abantwana bakho bebanga elifanayo. Nangona bahlala kwiklasi efanayo, kukho iiseti ezimbini zobungcali bokubonga, iifisi ezimbini zokujonga, kunye neendlunkulu ezimbini zokuxoxa kunye notitshala. Yaye ukuba amawele akho ahlukeneyo kwiinkalo ezihlukeneyo, izixhobo zinzima nakakhulu.

• Iingcebiso zokuxoxisana ngezoNdwendwe zeNdlu ezivulekileyo kwiSikolo Xa Unamawele

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Ukuthatha inxaxheba kumaKlasi eKlasi okanye Izifundo

Iintsapho ezininzi ezinamawele zidibene nokudideka xa zizama ukubhalisa abantwana babo abancinane kwizifundo zeqela okanye kwiiklasi, ezifana nokufunda ukubhukuda okanye ixesha likaMama-n-Me. Ndivuyiswe ngokuzonwabisa ngamava abo, bafumanisa ukuba iklasi idinga umntu omdala ukuba athathe inxaxheba kumntwana ngamnye. Ngaphandle kokuba abazali bobabini (okanye umntwana obancinci) bangenza indawo kwishedyuli yabo kwiklasi, abazali bamawele abaphuma kwintlanzi.

Nangona imisebenzi ingafuneki ukuthatha inxaxheba kwabazali, ingaba yinto ekhohlakeleyo xa isikhala siphelile. Imibutho emininzi ikulungele ukwenza indawo "enye enye," kodwa iya kufuneka iphike amawele, oya kufaka iklasi ngaphezu kwamandla. Uze ulibale ngokubeka ithemba lakho eluhlu lokulinda; yintoni umzali ofuna ukwenza ukhetho olunzima lwamanye amawele ukuthumela xa kuvuleka esinye isikhala?

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Iingcongolo zokuLungisa ukulala

Akukho nto ilungileyo kunokuba uhlasele umntwana omncinci kwaye ubabheke ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba alale ebandleni. Kodwa zama amaxesha amabini, kwaye ingaba ngumsebenzi ekukhungeni. Ngokukhawuleza xa omnye ewa, enye iyaxhamla okanye igxuma. Nangona ubafumanisa bobabini ukuba balale, ubenza njani ukuba baqhube emakhankeni abo ngaphandle kokuvusa kunye nokuqala yonke inkqubo? Ngezandla zombini nje, kuhle kakhulu.

Oko akuthethi ukuba akunakwenziwa; Enyanisweni, ukuqonda olu buchule ngenye yemiphumo ezuzisa kakhulu yokuba ngumzali wamawele. Kuthatha inzame, kwaye kunzima kunokuba ugubungele umntwana omnye, kodwa umvuzo uyanelisa.

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Ukusebenzisa amaZiko okuLondoloza

Oo, oku kunzima. Yintoni oyenzayo xa ufanele uhambe kodwa unabantwana ababini kwi-stanter enkulu? Awuyi kufumana kwisitrato kunye nawe, kwaye umcamango wokushiya zakho ezixabisekileyo ezingalindelekanga kwindawo yokuphumla yoluntu ngelixa uhlala kwindawo ekhohlakeleyo. Ngenhlanhla, izisombululo kule ngxaki ethile ziye zafumaneka ngakumbi njengoko izindlu zohlalutya zanda kakhulu. Enye inxaxheba kukusebenzisa indawo enkulu ye-stall ekhubazekile, kodwa nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abahambahambayo abaza kubakho ngaphakathi. Ngaphandle koko, unokuhlala ubambelela, uthembele kwintliziyo yabangamazi, okanye uthathe umncedi xa unako ukuphuma. Nangona i-stroller isigaba siphila ixesha elifutshane, ingxaki iqhubeka - njengokuba ngamanye amaxesha ihamba ngakumbi - njengoko amawele ekhula. Kungenxa yoko ke BANGABASEBENZI abafanele basebenzise indlu yokugcina kwaye kaninzi babini ngexesha elifanayo.

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Ukutshintshela kwiNest engenalutho

Amawele afika amabini ngexesha. Kwaye kwiintsapho ezininzi, nazo zihamba ekhaya ngexesha elinye. Enoba beya kwiikholeji, bajoyine umkhosi, okanye bahambela ekhaya, bashiya emva kokukhululeka. Kubazali bamawele, iindinyana ezingenanto ziba yinto engenanto, zikhawuleza. Oku kunokuba nzima kwaye kungabonakali njengokuba amawele ejoyina intsapho. Khumbula nje ukuba yinkqubo yokuguquka; Kanye njengoko kuthatha ixesha ukulungelelanisa iintsana ezintsha, kuthatha ixesha kunye nomgudu wokulungiswa xa behamba. Kwaye ... maxesha amaninzi abahambanga ixesha elide! Phakathi kweekhefu zesikolo kunye noshintsho lomsebenzi, banokubuya emva kwexesha.

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Ukuyeka Ukunyamekela Ngomhla

Inxalenye yenkqubo yemihla ngemihla, kodwa ingaba yinye yezihlandlo ezinzima kakhulu emini. Ukusetyenziswa kwempahla kunokuba ngumngeni xa uhambisa ezimbini iintsana okanye abantwana abaselula kunye nangaphandle kwemoto, nangaphakathi nangaphandle kwendawo yokukhathalela. Hlanganisa iimvakalelo (kubazali kunye nezingane!), Uxinzelelo, imozulu, i-traffic, kunye nokulungelelaniswa, kwaye unayo iresiphi yokutshatyalaliswa. (Kwakhona, abazali kunye nezingane!) Kwiintsuku zokuqala, umqhubi wendlela yokuhamba wenza izinto zibe lula kuba zivumela abantwana ukuba bahlale bexhomekeka kwiindawo zabo zeemoto. Kodwa njengoko bekhula, kuba nzima kunokuba iintsana ziba nzima kodwa zisadingeka ziqhutywe. Ukutshintshwa ukusuka emotweni ukuya kwi-stroller yindlela enye; omnye ucela uncedo lwabasebenzi.

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Ukufundisa abantwaba ukuya kwiDrayivu

Ingumzekelo wenkcazo yabantwana abaselula, ozisa inkululeko kunye noxanduva, kodwa unokwenzela abazali. Ukufumana ilayisenisi yokuqhuba idinga ixesha elide lokuqhuba umqhubi, oluhamba nomzali okanye umgcini. Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba abazali bamawele baya kuchitha iiyure ezimbini emotweni, baxhamle amazinyo abo kwaye baqoqe i-seatbelt yabo njengoko bebethe i-freaking imagination kwisihlalo somgibeli. Ukufundisa umntwana osemtsha ukuya kutshitshiswa kunokuxininisa kunye ne-nra--racking, kunye nabazali bamawele bafumana ixesha eliphindwe kabini.