Ngaba le ndawo ingandixelela ngamathuba okuba namawele?
Esinye sezihloko ezidumileyo kwisayithi yam yithuba lokuba namawele. Njengesikhokelo kuBazali bamaBanga kunye namaqela amaninzi apha, ndihlala ndifumana ii-imeyile ezifana nalezi zilandelayo:
"Ndimangalise ukuba unokundinceda ukuba ndibone ukuba ndiphi na amawele? Ugogo unamawele omntakwabo kunye noomkhulu utata unamawele omntakwabo , ngoko babenomama kunye nabazalwana bakhe ababini (akukho namamawele). Umama wayenomna kunye nodadewethu kodwa kungekhona amawele, ngaba sinokuba namawele ngenxa yale nto? "
Okanye
"Umkhulu wam unamawele, ubaba unamawele kwaye mna ndiyiwele (nangona oko kwakunzima ukukhulelwa koomama) ngoko ndandifuna ukwazi ukuba ngaba kuya kwenzeka ukuba ndiza kuba namawele njengeqabane lam kwaye bafuna ukuqala ukuzama ukuzala umntwana kungekudala. "
Okanye
"Umfana wam kunye nathi sithetha ngokuba nabantwana, kodwa siyadideka ngenxa yokuba iwele (engeyiyo yenzalo). Ndandifuna ukuba iwele (inkwenkwe / intombazana) kodwa akazange enze kwaye kukho ukuchithwa okungafaniyo I-intanethi nayo yinkwenkwe / intombazana iwele. Isebenza kwiintsapho zethu zombini, kodwa ezinye izithi zithi ayikukhathazi. Ndicinga ukuba sifuna ukwazi ipesenti, ukuba ngaba, ngaba sasiba namawele. Akayikukhathalela, kodwa andiziphathe kakuhle hahahaha, ngoko ukuba ndiyazi ukuba kwakukhona ithuba (lamamawele) , andizange ndothuka xa kwenzeka. "
Abafundi bavame ukutyelela indawo yam enqwenela ukuba ndiyazi ukuba ngaba baya kuba namawele.
Ngamanye amaxesha ii-imeyile zenza ndidibanise. Andiyindlalifa. Andinayo ibhola ye-crystal. Ayikho indlela yokuchaza ukuba ngubani oza kuba okanye akayi kuba namawele, nangaphezulu kunokuba kukho indlela eqinisekisiweyo yokukhetha amathikithi e-lottery ekuphumelelayo, ukubheja kumahashe, okanye ukudlala amanani aseLas Vegas. Ndikholelwe ukuba, ukuba ndinegunya elinjalo lobuprofeto, mhlawumbi ndingaba ngumgca wendlela eyahlukeneyo yomsebenzi, yithetha intengiso yemasheya.
Amathuba okuba namawele
Amaqiniso kunye namanani malunga namawele kunye nokuphindaphinda. Kukho ininzi yolwazi lweenkcukacha kunye nolwazi malunga nokuguqa kunye nezinga lokuzalwa ezininzi . Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba ezi manani zisekelwe kubantu - kungekhona ngabanye. Ngokomzekelo, siyazi ukuba izinga lokuzalwa ezininzi e-United States li- 32.6 ngonyaka . Siyazi ukuba izinga liyahlukahluka kunyaka ngamnye, kwaye phakathi kwamaqela ahlukeneyo abantu. Ngokomzekelo, iindawo zoluntu kunye nobuhlanga zibonisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuwahlula; izinga liphantsi e-Asia kwaye liphezulu kwiindawo ze-Afrika. Siyazi kwakhona ukuba izinto ezithile zichaphazela ukuwahlula, njengento yokwelapha inzala, ubudala bomama, imbali yentsapho kunye nokubunjwa komzimba .
Amanani abe ngakumbi adidekile kuba kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zamawele , kwaye amaxabiso ahlukeneyo ngokusekelwe kwi- zygosity . Amaxabiso amaninzi awamkelwayo amaninzi asekelwe kumawele onke kwaye ahluki phakathi kweemonozygotic (ezifanayo) kunye namawele angama-multizygotic (abazalwana). Nangona kunjalo, isantya sihluke kakhulu, kanti amawele e-monozygotic ayinto engabonakali kakhulu.
Zonke ezi manani ziyasebenza kumaqela abantu - abantu baseMerika, abahlali baseNigeria, abafazi abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-40, njl.
Ukuba ufunda le nqaku, mhlawumbi uyazibuza "Ziyiphi amathuba am nawaba namawele?" Ingcaciso ekhethekileyo kuphela endikunika yona yile nani-niselo esebenzayo kuwo wonke umntu: 32.6 kwi-1,000, okanye malunga neyoku-1 kwi-30. ingahla okanye ihla phantsi kuxhomekeka kwiimeko zakho kunye nezinto ezifana nobudala bakho, ubunzima, imbali yentsapho , ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili, ukutya, iipateni zokuvuthwa kunye nokunyanga okuzala. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukubala inani elichanekileyo eliza kuxela ngokuchanekileyo isiphumo sakho. Akukho ndlela eqinisekileyo yokukwazi ukuba ngaba uya kuba namawele.
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Ngaba Ndiza kuba namawele?
Oko kuthetha, ukuba unenjongo yakho yokuba namawele, okanye ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba ngaba kuya kuba namawele kwixesha lakho elizayo, kukho ezinye izinto ezandisa okanye ukunciphisa amathuba akho. Ezi ziquka:
- ukuba neembali zokuguqa kumacala omama osapho
- ukuthatha izidakamizwa zokuphucula izityalo okanye ukufumana uncedo lokuzala olubandakanya amaqanda amaninzi okanye ama-embrosi
- Ukuba ne-Index Mass Mass (BMI) ye-30 okanye ngaphezulu
- ephezulu kwi-25 percentile yokuphakama
- ungaphezu kweminyaka engama-45
Nangona le miba ingenza kube lula ukuba uya kuba namawele, ayibonakali ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uya kuba namawele. Ungathatha imibuzo, uhlole i-intanethi ngolwazi, okanye iingcali ze-imeyli kwimibono yazo, kodwa ngelanga, kuya kufuneka uthathe amathuba akho uze ulinde ukubona ukuba ikusasa likuthini. Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho ulwazi oluninzi kwi-site yam malunga namawele kunye nokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye ndikucela ukuba uyihlolisise uze ufunde okungakumbi.